okay this has been on my mind lately and i have to get it out of my system and you guys can just ignore me but i really hate it when people sexualize idols like just please just stop sexualizing idols because it’s fucking creepy. how would you feel if someone you didn’t know AT ALL made these comments to you?? it’s the same as catcalling and it’s intrusive and rude and disgusting and IF THEY KNEW (tbh some already know) about this they would feel so fucking uncomfortable..
and please stop forcing a certain sexuality onto idols too!! speculations are okay i suppose but once you start getting all detective-y over the matter it’s really intrusive and weird.. and people who automatically assume their faves are straight or bi and etc needs to stop..
along with that.. if you make compilations of their junk it’s also really weird and invasive.. and if you’re one of those people who make rlly gross comments in their tags (comments that you probably wouldn’t say to their face) then idk what to say to you like.. it’s gross.. stop it..
and people who are overly obsessive with their faves need to get a reality check bc guess what? they’re not gonna be the ones paying your bills or getting you into that college or anything and they’re not perfect either and you can’t defend them even when they’re doing something wrong.. please don’t be so up their ass that you think they’re 100% pure and innocent bc they’re not. and people who actually think that they’re ______’s girlfriend/boyfriend/soulmate or whatever are fucking creepy like no you’re not you’re just a fan like the rest of us and that level of obsession is ridiculous.
please, please, please if you respect your faves then don’t do any of the above..
anyways i just needed to let that out since it’s been bothering me a lot lately?? idk if it’s because i’m becoming less picky in which blogs i choose to follow or if it’s because it’s been this way the whole time but i haven’t noticed it.. or if people changed.. so yeah.. anyways..
if i see any of these stuff starting from now on then i really won’t tolerate it anymore because it makes me so, SO EXTREMELY uncomfortable. if it’s just a few times then i’ll just try to ignore it/send you a message but if it happens several times then i’m just going to quietly unfollow you/block you.