im an irl friend of a cousin of his, so i ended up following him on some of his platforms🥹 i didn’t really know his account that well though since i barely use social media so sorry if i type like a grandma or whatever lol. i also barely spoke to him when his cousin wasn’t around just because we barely have anything in common + we never see each other + im a lot older than him and his cousin😭
he came to visit his cousin just recently for spring break and i just happened to be there since i come over a lot, and she told me he had a bunch of drama to talk to us about including what happened with his tumblr, so i asked him what happened with his tumblr when i saw him and everything and he told me and his cousin that he got into this massive argument with his mom when she found out he was nonbinary and dating a girl and she forced him to delete tumblr and unfriend every single person he met on there, including you, because she didn’t want him being friends with anyone who was lgbtq so they wouldn’t influence him????? something like that
if im being honest, he looked like he was gonna cry when he started talking about you and he told me that he regretted the way things ended and that he missed all of his tumblr friends dearly because he thought they were the only kind ones. i can tell he still cares for you just by the way he spoke about you, and he definitely isn’t the kind of person to cheat, nor do i know anything about any cheating????
he did also tell me he’s been trying to work things out with his mom and that she let him have tiktok after the big argument but not tumblr for some reason?????😭😭😭 so he ended up just continuing to post on tiktok under the condition that he never spoke to any of his friends from tumblr or used tumblr ever again. he also told my cousin who told me later that his mother accepted his sexuality when they were having a conversation during their trip back to jersey and both his parents are relaxed about the whole thing now but still don’t think tumblr is a good idea
i had a thought to myself and i decided that i would log back into my random tumblr account and see if i could find you, because i felt bad for the both of you and i wanted to see if you were doing alright as well. i asked for your username and wrote it down and when i saw your profile i saw the vent and i just felt so bad, so i wanted to try and clear things up🙁 for all that i know he didn’t cheat or do anything
im pretty sure he said something about using his laptop to get back on tumblr too because his mom doesn’t look at it???? idk if he’s already made a blog or whatever and i would have to ask his cousin what he’s doing and yes i am helping him because his cousin refused to get involved because she doesn’t want to get in trouble 🙄
sorry this was really long 😓😓😓
oh my god idk what to say
all this time I thought he had cheated on me
all this time I forced myself to hate him because of that thought- I feel so fucking stupid
if you can talk to him again- please please please tell him that I’m sorry- so so sorry and that I’m a horrible girlfriend and person for ever jumping to a conclusion like that