bavid balgernon @bavedayley - Tumblr Blog

Request Status: OPEN!

Hi my name is Ross/Aggie Im 18 Years old and Scottish, my pronouns are they/them and im a genderqueer lesbian, my main interests currently are Pokémon, LPS collecting, Glass Animals, and Drawing, there's a good few other things im interested in but these will probably be the most prominent on my blog

I also have a Side blog! @waveysreblogs Its used for reblogging graphics and kept in a colour coded/themed order :) check pinned for more info

I do Requests for all fandoms! However This does exclude problematic media, political parties, racist ideology, islamaphobia, antisemitism, transphobia, Homophobia, queerphobia, xenophobia, zionism

If youre curious if a fandom is problematic feel free to contact me and ask if im comfortable with it

Instagram

Kofi

Tiktok

ArtFight

Bluesky (pretty inactive)

(Ignore Abra, Your fuckass flags dont get to be in this userbox)

#intro post #graphics blog #open requests #reqs open #stamps #dividers #pngs #graphics #userboxes

colliethedog

Favourite band for ten years and I can finally show my love :9

dogz-420

tragedy

The itching urge to just forget everything I know about art and just have a fuckass abstract artstyle

#i should learn humans #but theyre so fucking boring #unless theyre gay #i wonder if people look at my art and cringe #idk #fandom #art #digital art

Found this promo vid and Was gonna use this for a strawpage but it didnt fit, take it

caspercryptid

I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal sense— it is behavior that causes social harm.

I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.