Bawse Kitty

Instagram: @Bawsekitty

[classycookiexo]

[cchabibi]

[blackfemininity]

I want black women to know we’re all deserving of love, peace, opportunity, stability, respect, joy and abundance. I want us to know that there’s always enough. I want more black women to have an abundance mindset. A growth mindset. A wealth mindset. I want us to be on a path of continuous self-improvement— always getting better. I want us to continue loving and supporting each other. I want us to focus on creating better for ourselves and those around us. I want us to think higher and bigger.

[winter-reverie]

warm winter

[leonardcohenofficial]

“Believe me, what you want is someone to have dinner with. Sleep with from time to time, telephone every day or write. It’s what you set up that is defeating. Make it very modest. And give yourself permission to make a few mistakes. You know, blow it a bit. Have a few drinks and fall into bed with somebody. It doesn’t have to be the final thing.”

— Leonard Cohen on relationships, 2007

[balkanrose]

by Alice White

[mosasadogs]

psychiatry’s popularity has made complaining about real, material, corporeal problems awful because everyone will just respond to you with “have you tried cognitive behavioral therapy? have you tried coping? have you tried to avoid negative behaviors reinforcing the problem?” like minds have been so thoroughly colonized that we can only understand problems as something internal to the individual, who is also the only one capable of/responsible for lifting themselves out of their problems.

[junglejim4322]

90% of age gaps don’t matter when you’re a grown adult as long as you don’t have a repeated pattern of dating people barely legal. I would date someone 30 years older than me if I liked them who gaf

[junglejim4322]

This entire conversation is somehow 90% people infantilizing themselves and 10% actually people talking about the issue of men who never grow out of dating 18/19 year olds. No it is not a big deal when a 25 year old dates a 35 year old please get a grip

[katolike]

[heavensghost]

The earth is mystery and terror and then all memory

[daddyfuckedme]

[rabbiets]

[aurapalettes]

& you know what it actually IS lifechanging to smile at strangers & say please & thank you & goodmorning & compliment someones outfit & help someone in need & be more accepting of loving other people just because they are other people!!!

[theambitiouswoman]

Invest in yourself, your appearance, your mind, your environment. Only the best is worthy of your time.

This is what happens when you treat yourself better:

The way you present yourself not only boosts your confidence but also draws respect and attention. You never know who might notice—a potential client, partner, or mentor.

Spending time in high-end spaces—lounges, events, or five-star hotels—exposes you to individuals operating at the level you aspire to. One conversation could connect you to the opportunity of a lifetime.

When you take care of your appearance you glow & people gravitate toward you. Self care radiates self respect, which attracts better treatment & opportunities.

Go to high quality places. Whether it’s dining at a fine restaurant, attending exclusive events, or joining professional networks, you align yourself with people who inspire and elevate your mindset.

By placing yourself in environments where success thrives, you naturally meet individuals who can introduce you to the resources, opportunities, advice, or networks you need.

Yes it’s an investment. But it reaps higher rewards. You are not adding, you are replacing. Change comes from changing your mindset — which changes your ‘self’ — which changes your results in life.

Stop fighting for a better life while clinging to old habits and your comfort zone. You can’t expect change while keeping one foot in the past. The moment you choose to fully step into who you want to be, life becomes easier. It’s all about alignment—showing up as the version of yourself that matches the life you want. The more intentional you are, the more effortlessly opportunities come your way.

You were taught to struggle because you watched others struggle growing up. But that doesn’t have to be you.

[theambitiouswoman]

How to figure out the lesson in situations:

1. Identity the pattern. Think about the situations and people who have made you feel this way or brought you a specific outcome.

Are these relationships leaving you feeling the same way (undervalued, overwhelmed, or hurt)?

What character traits are you seeing (unavailability, neediness, or dishonesty)? Are you choosing people because of specific character traits (they don’t have to feel inherently negative to you)?

2. Think about your reactions to all of those things. Do you tolerate bad behavior hoping it will change? Do you avoid confrontation or fail to set boundaries? Do you feel like a victim or powerless?

3. Figure out what you are avoiding. Typically the lessons come from the things we resist. Are you avoiding self respect by settling for less? Are you ignoring red flags for fear of being alone?

4. Think about how your choices or beliefs contribute to these outcomes.

For example:

Do you over-give to earn approval?

Do you ignore your intuition to avoid conflict?

5. Ask yourself:

What can this situation teach me about self worth, boundaries, or communication?

How can I grow emotionally, mentally, or spiritually?

6. Practice the lesson actively:

If the lesson is about self worth, say no to people who devalue you.

If it’s about boundaries, start expressing your needs clearly.

You’ll know you’ve learned the lesson when similar situations arise and you respond differently, breaking the cycle.

*There is always a lesson to be learned (aside from the fact that the other person is probably a horrible human being) 😚 Don’t be stubborn about it and think you’re a perfect person. It doesn’t make you less perfect, or dumb, or deserving of how people treated you. The point is for you to grow, evolve and make sure it never happens again.

[no-chill-at-all]

[ohsosammi]

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— The Princess (@BawseKitty) November 3, 2020