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when youâre on ur computer and someoneâs standing behind u
my girlfriend just woke up from a nap and the first thing she said was âi forgot i still have chicken nuggetsâ and ate cold nuggets and went back to sleep and i donât think iâve ever loved someone this much
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I could watch this forever
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*on an airplane*
*sticks my dick out the window n wacks it at 30,000 feet*
who was i
ive done this and I got sucked into the turbine
The ultimate succ
I died
i forgot that most people are asleep at 3 am
Okay guys this is kinda important. GQ just came in the mail and for the first time in a long while it had a really important articleâŠ
I just sat here for like the last half hour reading this and Iâm incredibly appalled at our justice system in regards to the military. The article interviews about 23 men who have all been sexually assaulted in some branch of the military. The PTSD from sexual assault in the military is more prevalent than PTSD from combatâŠ
If you have a chance I suggest reading this articleâŠand the title is a quote that one of the victims Doctor told himâŠ
Hey guys! Iâm very impressed and extremely happy to see this post gaining a lot of speed over the last few days! A few people have requested it, so iâve gone ahead and scanned the pages of the article for those who want to read it, to read.Â
So, here it is!
Wow. Very powerful stuff. Iâve had quite a few friends from back home enter the military and this is never something we bring up in discussions. Iâm glad itâs garnering more attention.Â
Some quotes:
âThe moment a man enlists in the United States armed forces, his chances of being sexually assaulted increase by a factor of ten. Women, of course, are much more likely to be victims of military sexual trauma (MST), but far fewer of them enlist. In fact, more military men are assaulted than womenâ nearly 14,000 in 2012 alone.â
âMilitary culture is built upon a tenuous balance of aggression and obedience. The potential for sexual violence exists whenever there is too much of either.â
âTrent Smith, Air Force, enlisted 2011: âHe was a senior aideâ he had a direct line to the top. Being invited voer to his house, I just took it as I should go. Looking back, I as myself, Why didnât you do anything? It wasnât like he held me down or tied me up. I didnât want to cross him. I really didnât feel like I had any choice. I had just turned 19. It could be my career. I froze and went along with it.ââ
âRsearch suggests that the military brass may have conspired to illegally discharge MST victims by falsely diagnosing them with personality disorders. âThe military has a systemic personality disorder discharge problem,â write the authors of a 2012 Yale Law School white paper. Between 2001 and 2010, some 31,000 servicepersons were involuntarily discharged for personality disorders. It is likely that in many cases these were sham diagnoses meant to rid the ranks of MST victims.â
âJeremy Robinson [name changed], Army, 1970-1972: âI have very little memory of my time in the psychiatric ward, because I was so heavily drugged. I stopped eating. I became suicidal, and I made three attempts. They gave me shock treatments against my will. The diagnosis was paranoid schizophrenia. I bore that label for forty years before the VA finally admitted they had misdiagnosed me.ââ
âAbove all, MST victins keep quiet because they do not believe their attackers will be punished. And theyâre almost certainly right. The conviction rate in MST cases that go to trial is just 7 percent. An estimated 81% of male MST victims never report being attacked. Perhaps it should astonish us that any of them do.â
âMike Thomson, Marines, 1997-1999: âI wasnât âafraidâ to report itâ I was ashamed and disgusted. Guys arenât supposed to be raped. I didnât want to tell anybody about it. I didnât want to say anything.ââ
âMen develop PTSD from sexual assault at nearly twice the rate they do from combat. Yet as multiple research papers have noted, the condition in men is egregiously understudied. This is because so few men tell anyone. Those who do often wait years; many male participants in therapy groups are veterans of Korea and Vietnam. At Bay Pinesâ C. W. Bill Young VA Medical Center in Florida, the countryâs first residential facility for men suffering from MST, the average patient is over 50 years old at admission.â
So GLAD the word is spreading!Â
How to talk about really important issues without derailment
my bf has many interesting stories and observations from his new job as a 911 operator
my favorite is how meandering people are, even in the midst of a terrible emergency
they respond to âwhat is the emergencyâ with âwell, the thing is, four weeks agoââ
and then heâs like âWHAT IS THE EMERGENCY RIGHT NOWâ
and theyâre like âso what happened this morning was, i said to my wife, i saidââ
âWHAT IS CURRENTLY HAPPENING AT THIS MOMENTâ
âoh iâm having a heart attackâ
my second favorite is how specific he has to get sometimes
like, âwhat is your emergency?â
âiâm sitting in a pool of blood.â
â⊠is it⊠your blood?â
âyes i think soâ
âdo you know where itâs coming from?â
âprobably the stab woundâ
âhave you been stabbed?â
âoh yah definitelyâ
In all fairness shock is a hell of a drug