F**K YEAH BISEXUAL GUYS!

-A place for Bi+ guys (and gals and nb folks and friends) to post, share, get bi-related news, and just be awesome bisexual beings- 

[fuckyeahbiguys]

Hello, if I were to share your couch comic, on Facebook, would I just put your url as the credit or do you prefer something else?

The url is fine :) thanks for asking!

[fuckyeahbiguys]

Some informative bi humor for the awesome FYBG followers. 

Inspiration for the idea: http://manslator.tumblr.com and from a lovely conversation over drinks this weekend with http://bigeorgeivegotit.tumblr.com

(If you share this comic externally, please be sure to attribute FYBG. We’ve already filed several copyright infringement claims on Twitter and Youtube for non-attribution)

[lalilaloli]

Cool, just call me a pull out couch. I’m cool with that ;)

[fuckyeahbiguys]

There have been a couple people saying they're getting our couch comic made into a tattoo. If you did, send pictures! ❤ it would be amazing to see and reblog them!

[fuckyeahbiguys]

Happy Monday, FYBG followers!

[amuzed1-deactivated20241106]

Blessing your dash with Janelle Monae’s full performance

[runwithskizzers]

i know they’re gonna take this down but goddamn it if i won’t watch this 10 more times before they do

[gettin-bi-bi-bi]

Hi, what a great blog this is. I have a question: I would say I am gay. I like men, they are hot, and so on. But: I also like some - very few - women under certain circumstances. I need an emotional bond, and then I can find them attractive. The attraction is just very different. I'd say: that's bisexual. But somehow, calling myself bisexual feels incredibly wrong. What could be a reason? Because saying "gay but like women" is just bi-erasure, which i dont want. Homoflexible sounds ok, but idk..

What you describe certainly does sound like you could call yourself bisexual and maybe internalised biphobia is holding you back because you might think you’re “not bi enough” due to your preference for men. Some people have a strong preference for one gender but as long as they are still also somehow attracted to more than that one gender they can call themselves bisexual. “Homoflexible” of course is also a way to identify and if you like that then why not use it? If you want to express that you prefer men but might make the occassional exception for a woman, then “homoflexible” is quite a good word for that.

You could also say “bisexual with a preference for men” or just “bisexual” and let others think what they want. It’s not like you owe anyone a detailed explanation and break-down of your sexuality. Or you can choose to keep identifying as gay if that feels better. And then there’s the option to change your label based on your mood of the day or context. Sometimes you might feel more “gay” than “bi” or in some situations “bisexual” might be easier to explain than “homoflexible” (which is a label not many have heard of yet).

Though I think it’s worth to examine whether you have some internalised biphobia that’s keeping you from using the bi-label, I also think you shouldn’t feel bad for prefering other labels. Sometimes even if a label would by definition be “the right one” for someone it just doesn’t click with them and that’s okay. Like… I could call myself pansexual but I don’t because that label just doesn’t do it for me and bisexual fits just as well in my case. Bisexual erasure is a structural form of oppression that happens in the media or from organisations and institutions who repeatedly ignore the existence of bisexual people due to monosexism/biphobia. But it’s not something you as an individual have to apply to yourself and feel bad about. You can label your sexuality whichever way you feel comfortable with.

But in case you do realise it’s internalised biphobia that’s holding you back and you would like to get comfortable with the bi-label then here’s some further advice about that.

Maddie

[b1mbhoe]

[quadriparesis-deactivated201908]

“biological sex is a social construct” doesn’t mean “chromosomes, anatomy, hormones, and genitalia don’t exist”. it means “these exist, but assigning roles, labels, and expectations to certain combinations of these characteristics is a social construct, and an unnecessary and pointless (actually harmful) one at that”.

[scretladyspider]

People who are pansexual are:

attracted to persons regardless of their gender 

and/or attracted to all genders

people with a really pretty PRIDE flag

we are not:

special bisexual snowflakes

calling bi people transphobic 

confused

[scretladyspider]

Also bisexuality is an awesome and valid identity and you can pry my bi/pan solidarity from my cold dead hands

[transswordbian]

People who are bisexual are:

Attracted to two or more genders

Can be attracted to all genders but prefers to use bisexual as a term/label

People with a really cool pride flag

We are NOT:

Transphobic

Disregarding of nonbinary genders

Confused

Shout-out to my pan siblings btw! Y'all are great! Anyone who disagrees can pry bi/pan solidarity from my cold, dead fingers

[scretladyspider]

Woo! Yes!

[violetutterances]

Bi/Pan solidarity, motherfuckers! 💖💜💛💙

[princeanxious]

This cleared so much up for me. thank you for this post 💛💛💛

[dragontatoes]

[fuckyeahbiguys]

Some informative bi humor for the awesome FYBG followers. 

Inspiration for the idea: http://manslator.tumblr.com and from a lovely conversation over drinks this weekend with http://bigeorgeivegotit.tumblr.com

(If you share this comic externally, please be sure to attribute FYBG. We’ve already filed several copyright infringement claims on Twitter and Youtube for non-attribution)

[itgetsbetter]

Hallmark Is Now Selling Cards to Celebrate Transgender People Who Are Transitioning

"You're becoming who you've always been."

Hallmark Is Now Selling Cards to Celebrate Transgender People Who Are Transitioning 🦋

[stilesisbiles]

Who’s ready to be MORE QUEER in 2019?

[sorrynotsorrybi]

[stilesisbiles]

Y E S FREDDIE!

[lgbtqreads]

Do you know of any wlw superhero style novels?

Sure do! Try:

Dreadnought and Nemesis by April Daniels

Cinnamon Blade: Knife in Shining Armor by Shira Glassman

Not Your Sidekick (Sidekick Squad #1) by CB Lee

Girl Reporter by Tansy Rayner Roberts

(You can find these all here: https://lgbtqreads.com/sff/paranormal-sff-by-protags/)

[fuckyeahasexual]

[genderqueerpositivity]

(Image description: four images with white backgrounds and centered text in varying shades of brown; altogether the text reads: “Queer people of color are valid. Queer people of color deserve to be heard. Queer people of color are beautiful. Queer people of color deserve respect.”)

[stilesisbiles]

Bisexual men exist. Don’t forget about us this #BiWeek.

[stilesisbiles]

To those asking:

Yes, this includes bi trans men (trans men are men) and was posted by a bi trans guy. :)

[aphroditejpeg-deactivated201807]

my bi girl ass when anyone insults lesbians on this website

[hearthome-deactivated20210601]

my lesbian ass when anyone insults bi girls on this website

[squeezingparrots]

wlw solidarity

[succulentbud]

wlw icons to achieve solidarity