You can call me Bear. I'm 22 I use they/them pronouns. I'm butch and don't tolerate homophobia, racism, etc. and I will block and report you quickly if you're any type of bigot :).
I like bears and frogs and superhero’s and my fav color is dark green. And I'm a little. I'd love to talk to and meet friends in the community! My dm's are open so feel free to shoot me a message.
She helps you get ready and takes you shopping for a costume, bucket, and of course the candy the two of you will hand out after she takes you trick-or-treating~
Just wanted to know if build a bear will continue or have you stop writing for it?
I don't want to stop writing it that's for sure but writing has been hard for me lately. Lots and lots of things going on in my head and life lately. And honestly I'm not even sure what I want to do with the story. I had somewhat of a plan before but I've kind of lost it now. so tldr: yes I want to write, no idk when I will be able to.
“Put your seat belt on.” “You're such a mom!!” — Big sister Natasha Romanoff!
Big sis Natty that’s so playful and as gentle as she can be,, inspired by my twin bcuz she’s literally Nat and I’m literally Yelena,, sister cgs have a special place in my heart tbh
Bedtime can be a hard time, mostly littles don't want to stop playing or watching to go to bed, but can be easier if it also be a good time and be fun! When bedtime is approaching, I like to do a few steps to get the little ready to bed so it will be easier:
🍼 - BATH: a bath before bed is always nice, letting the baby fresh and clean.
🍼 - NICE CLOTHES: a cozy pajama, sleeper, jammies, comfy clothes, diapers/pull-ups for those who need (better be safe than sorry), they help to make the baby comfy and cozy.
🍼 - NO MORE SCREEN TIME: it helps the baby's brain to relax and helps with the sleep.
🍼 - BOTTLE: a warm bottle helps to gives baby a warm tummy and it's not nice to try to sleep with a empty tummy.
🍼 - FUN TIME: if the baby is still energic, it's better to play for a while till they get more tired, but would be better without TV or phone.
🍼 - TIME TOGETHER: a bedtime story, cuddles, stroke their hair, rubs their back, butt pats, it always help to make the baby sleepy.
Now just give them a goodnight forehead kiss, a pacifier and let them sleep peacefully 😊
Regressor who's primarily low energy but still wants someone to look after them but the regressor x caregiver dynamics they see is always so... full of energy. Like they're always doing something together, and they fear they might be too boring for someone to want to look after them
They take a lot of naps, they like to snuggle up in bed, maybe put a show on, if its a really good day they'll do quiet activities like puzzles or coloring
Now meet caregiver who would love to watch over someone but doesn't feel they have the energy for it, like they can't keep up with a regressor who would want to go out always, want to do fun activities 24/7, they don't have that energy
But they have a lot of soft, gentle love in their heart, they know they could nurture someone, they would love to watch over someone and make the occasional sweet comment, or make them their favorite little snacks, or hold them oh so close so the both of them can truly rest
Some peaceful, quiet time for them both with at most a bit of background noise, nothing too big, nothing too loud
SO I'm trying to get into the groove of writing for agere in a non-fandom way. I have a trio of OCs, but I can't think of how to introduce them in an organic way? I might just jump right into the agere part to start but I don't have ideas for that either lol. Prompts are super appreciated! Also lets all pretend they're not glorified reskins of alfred and bruce okay
Sloane is a professor of gender studies and literature at Hartwood University. She is a distinguished elder butch in her late fifties. She is extremely paternal, a bit of a bleeding heart. She cares deeply about each of her students and wants all of them to reach their full potential. She has no children of her own and has never been married, resulting in a slightly lonesome, longing existence. She yearns for connection but often gets held back by her anxious nature.
Rue is a maintenance worker at Hartwood. She is in her thirties, and has settled into a quiet life of repair work at the school. She enjoys her job because it doesn't have many social aspects - Rue struggles with social cues and often comes off as intimidating. She is extremely intelligent but never had the funds for higher education. Sloane recognizes her talents and takes her on as a protege, hoping to convince her to apply for a full ride scholarship. The two of them grow a close bond, Rue seeing Sloane as a father figure.
Amelia is Rue's mom. She is also in her fifties, and never married Rue's father. She is a smart-mouthed mechanic trying to make ends meet between her and Rue's less than lavish salaries. Amy is protective of Rue and very responsive to her needs, she loves having her around even if people are judgmental about her daughter stilling living at home. She's funny, impulsive, and a bit immature, but she knows how to get the job done when she needs to. She flirts relentlessly with Sloane.
It's a found family situation, with a little romance between Sloane and Amy. So yeah, lmk if you have situations you want to see them in!! Thanks for reading byyyye
I wanna be babied and coo’d at SO BAD. I want for my cg to notice when I’m fussy and settle me down, getting my paci and cuddling me while telling me what a small baby I am😖 I want my cg to understand when I’m having a tantrum and actually help me manage it with soft gentle words! I WANNA HAVE RULES LIKE A BEDTIME AND BE TOLD IM TOO LITTLE FOR THINGS! TOLD SOFTLY TO BRUSH MY TEETH EVERY NIGHT AND TO EAT! I WANNA BE SHY AND SMALL WHILE MY CG CHUCKLES AND COOS AT ME ABOUT HOW CUTE AND WHAT A SMALL BABY I AM. MHMHMHMHMHMHMHM!!!!!😭😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖
Advice for how to communicate with a nonverbal little one!
- Ask them simple yes or no questions that they can answer with a thumbs up or thumbs down
- If you're communicating over text, see if they're capable of using emojis to help convey themselves and what they mean
- Send or show them pictures like emotion charts that they either can point to or circle
- Talk with your little one during a time period when they are verbal. Perhaps they have their own ideas, because everyone is uniquely different
- Don't be afraid to do your own research and try out different techniques. Not everything you try will work, but your little one will greatly appreciate the effort
- Communication can be draining on the regressor. If they seem like they're getting frustrated with themselves, please tell them that they are loved and aren't doing anything wrong
- Try your best to respond, even if you aren't 100% positive of what they're trying to say. They appreciate being able to just babble sometimes!
Things other people do that ( personally ) help me regress easier !!
🦢 Talking to me like a child ! Having someone talk to me the same way you would talk to a young child ( using a baby voice , kind of patronizingly , gentle encouragement , avoiding heavier topics ) helps solidify that regressed mindset easily . It also helps a lot when people use nicknames for me such as little bug , little love , little one , sweetie , baby , kiddo , etc .
🐦⬛ Encouraging me to feel my feelings ! When I'm regressed, offering a safe space for me to express how I feel , both positively and negatively , is crucial for me to stay regressed . This includes comforting me during tantrums or reassuring me without being asked to .
🕊️ Taking care of me ! Enforcing some rules to give my day a little routine when regressed helps me feel little . Rules might include : A bedtime , set times for hygiene , rules related to meals , etc . Although I personally don't like rules that are too strict , or these rules being enforced when I'm not regressed . Another part of taking care of me is when people gently encourage me to regress ! I often get scared and hesitant to regress due to my own insecurities , especially when I'm regressing around someone else . Having someone who encourages my regression and is happy to be around me while regressed is amazing. This might include little keywords / phrases that encourage regression as well ( ex. " you're too little for that , " " why dont you go put on [ agere show ] , " " how about you go get your stuffies and get comfy " ) .
♟️ Encouraging / engaging is activities with me ! Putting on a show that helps me regress , treating my stuffed animals / toys as if they're real and have lives of their own , allowing me to ramble about stuff I love , etc all helps me regress ! Another thing is : imaginative play !!! Even if its as big as actively engaging in play or just encouraging me to talk about my toys ( ex . " oh ? the stuffie did what ? why did they do that ? and how did the toy respond ? thats so cool ! ) , it all helps !
☁️ Celebrating achievements ! If I'm regressed and I tell someone something and I seem proud of it / happy about it , it makes me SO happy when they are visibly proud of it / happy with me too ! This can range from things like eating , taking care of myself , or even just finishing a coloring page !
♣️ Encouraging my regression when I'm NOT regressed ! This is a major thing as I have BPD and struggle to believe that people love / care about me . So when someone encourages me to regress ( especially when it's cause they want to take care of me ) it means the whole world to me ! This can be done two ways , either directly asking me to regress or ( my personal favorite ) subtly encouraging me to regress !! Examples of subtle encouragement are : " you seem stressed , little one , do you want to turn on [ agere show ] and get comfy ? " " darling , why dont you take a break from [ stressor ] and color me a picture ? " " i love you , kiddo ! " , etc ) ( even just using petnames and talking to me like a child to encourage me to regress !!! )
Agatha spends the day with Wanda and her little one. You, on the other hand, begin your search for the perfect outfit. To wear for your potential caregivers, of course.
notes: not edited :p guys i promise the pacing will pick up after the next chapter :)) i debated making you guys wait to see them meet but decided it would be a little boring reading agatha be lonely & reader be mischievous over & over again. and just to clarify: this is a tumblr story! its meant to be fun & silly so— chapters aren’t going to be insanely huge! this is a fun silly au fic that i created for my own & your guys entertainment :) and once again! come to my inbox and tell me what you think about this chapter & what you would like to see in this series :)) mwah!
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Wanda was knocking on her door, bright and early, at 8am. They agreed to meet at her house and go in her car to the shopping center together, Agatha just really wish Wanda would’ve gave her a few more hours of sleep.
“Agatha, good morning! I hope I’m not too early.”
Agatha sarcastically laughed, “oh no, you’re right on time.”
Wanda smiled, walking inside with her little one in toll.
Once inside, Agatha gave the little girl a peck on the cheek and lead them to her living room.
“Did mommy wake you up, mmh?” Agatha asked the little girl. Natasha nodded quickly, clearly also annoyed at having been woken up so early as well.
“Oh, she’s fine!”
Wanda turned around to see Natasha had already wandered off to her own little world. Agatha’s home was still child proofed ten years later and it seemed like it had worked out in some way. At least it was being put to use.
Her ceramic bunnies were kept on high shelves and glass vases on even higher ones.
Wanda made herself comfortable on her couch and Agatha left upstairs to get ready for their day out.
Señor Scratchy was already fed, munching on fresh romaine lettuce and a bowl of pellets. Agatha showered the night before so all she needed was an outfit.
Once her face was washed and her teeth were brushed, she walked to her closet where she chose loose slacks and a causal blazer to wear. Wanda always teased her for her choice of clothing but she had always liked to feel put together and looking a part.
Perhaps a part of a witch…
When she returned back to the lower level of her house, the smell of egg and toast flooded her senses. Beknownst to Wanda, Agatha wasn’t a huge fan of eggs, but her friend had cared enough to make her something to eat so she reluctantly walked into her kitchen.
“I made you some eggs and toast, I know you skip breakfast, but I thought it’d be best if you had a full meal before leaving,” Wanda shyly explained.
Gods, how was Wanda not classified as a little?
“Ags! Mommy made you her best eggs! You have to eat it!” Natasha exclaimed, popping up from around the corner.
Wanda clicks her tongue, “honey, inside voices, remember?”
Agatha smiles at Nat, giving her a friendly poke before she scurries away to play.
“She loves cooking with me.”
“Does she?”
“Yes, she loves it. She’s always passing me the next ingredient on the list and ready to taste test anything. I like to call her ‘my little chef.’”
Agatha smiles again, this one not reaching her eyes. She looks down to her lap.
Wanda notices the air shift and busies herself with plating the food and grabbing utensils. Turning her back and grabbing the cooling pan from the stove and placing the freshly cooked eggs onto a plate.
“Has Nat eaten?”
“She ate entire family-sized bag of Doritos before I woke. But, yes, she’s eaten.”
That seemed to have cheered Agatha up, if only slightly.
xxxx
Lilia informed you the day before that it was best to start clothes shopping soon.
She sent out your application and portfolio only a few days ago but Lilia wanted you to look your best for any meetings you were to attend.
You weren’t a big fan of shopping. Your feet always ached after a while and the crowds made you nervous. Which made you decide to wake up bright and early to start the hunt for new clothes.
Lilia wanted you to wear something that showed your personality best and something new that made you stand out.
You weren’t completely sure what she meant but went with it anyway.
Because you didn’t drive, you took the bus to the central. It took longer than usual since it was the morning and there were plenty of people making their way to work. Although crowds did intimidate you, you did like watching all different kinds of people hop into the bus. What they wore, how they spoke, the way they moved. It was like a nature show.
When you finally arrived, you watched as everyone slowly opened up their shops.
Westview was a small town, the ‘central’ was really just a small strip of stores. They had a mall but you avoided it most of the time. It tired you out too easily and you never ended up buying anything anyways.
When you did go, you usually went with Alice, one of your closest friends. You hated admitting it but— you always end up slipping at the mall. The crowds, the walking… it made you tired and small.
You always insisted that Alice’s mama carried you.
Once you felt it was appropriate to begin entering stores, you walked into a small clothing store that sold fairly affordable items and of course, an awesome toy section to pick from.
You weren’t here for toys though, so only looking for today.
“Hi, baby! You’re up early!” The shop owner spoke. She was an older lady, maybe a few years into her 60’s. She was always friendly with you. She smiled bright at you before sitting down.
“Hi, miss! I’m up early for an outfit!”
“An outfit, huh? What’s the occasion?”
You twisted your fingers in hesitation. “Well— I’m looking for a caregiver soon. Meeting some, I mean.”
She gasped in excitement. “Oh my goodness! Well, that’s sure an occasion.”
You heard the door’s bell that hung above ring. You wanted to turn and look who was up as early as you but you held off. Alice always told you that you needed to work on your wandering eyes.
“Yeah! I’m a little nervous, but excited!”
“You should be, honey. That’s such great news!”
You finished your conversation and continued to look around. You weren’t sure if you should go for something casual or something formal.
Lilia said that a lot of meetings happened at the office but sometimes else where, like a park.
So much deciding for your little head.
As you went to grab a shirt from a rack, the hook grabbed onto another. You shook it but it jammed in further. In one last attempt, you shook it again.
It flew off the rack and onto the ground. You glowed red, but ran to pick it up before anyone noticed.
But someone grabbed it before you had a chance to pick it up.
“Here you go, sweetheart,” a brown-red headed woman said to you. You had seen her before. Her hair was hard to miss. It was a mix of two colors and blended well with her skin tone.
“Hello?”
“Sorry! Thank you,” you grabbed the shirt and turned the opposite way quickly. You always got lost in your head. Too much thinking.
You didn’t get a chance to remind yourself what Alice always reprimanded you for before you peeked at the group of women in the store. You knew you looked like a weirdo peeking but you were just so curious!
The woman walked back to her group, holding her hand out for another woman to grab. Her hair was redder, she held onto a toy with her other hand. Then there she was, Agatha. Or was it Agnes? You heard stories of her before. Of being an evil witch, that she ate badly behaved littles.
She didn’t look the part, though. All you saw was a nice lady helping her friend with shopping. Then she turned to you. She waved.
You need to stop staring! Seriously!
You waved back.
xxxx
The day went best at it could be. Agatha felt a dark hole settle in her stomach the entire morning. She went over the conversation she had with Wanda.
Her life with Natasha seemed so full of life, of happiness.
She hadn’t spoken much about this feeling with anyone in a while. With Wanda, she means.
She went the day watching Wanda pick out clothes for Nat to try on, giggled and laughed with her when Nat walked out the dressing room twirling in a dress.
It was all a bit overwhelming to say the least.
“Agatha, we have to get a corn dog!” Wanda throws her from her downward spiral and up back into the real world.
“Huh?”
“The corndogs! See,” Wanda points to the hotdog stand, the heat from the cooker causing smoke to fly into the air. Definitely a safety hazard.
Agatha shook her head. “I’m really full with the breakfast, wands. You and nat go ahead,” she smiles.
She watches Wanda and Nat walk towards the hotdog stand, Nat doing her little happy feet as she watches Wanda order.
Her phone rings.
She debates putting it on silent and waiting for the call to pass. She never really got a hang of phones, or devices in general. She probably wouldn’t have known how to put it on silent anyway.
[CW: Lilia]
Her phones reads.
Huh. She hadn’t heard from Lilia in almost four years. She didn’t even know she still had her number.
[Hello?]
[Agatha! Wonderful to hear from you again!]
Agatha can just hear the sarcasm drip from her tone.
[Cut the crap, Lilia. Why are you calling? It’s been years.]
Lilia lets out a breath of relief.
[I have a little I want you to meet. They just recently registered with CWOA. I’ve been calling everywhere. An emergency placement, if you want to label it.]
Agatha doesn’t speak. She stares ahead, Nat and Wanda in the distant, holding hands.
What the hell does she say?
She hadn’t gotten a call about a placement in years, let alone an emergency placement. Hell, she’s never even been called for an emergency placement.
[When can we meet?]
Lilia makes a noise, most likely excited she got she way. That’s how Lilia is. Agatha wants to puke.
What is she doing?
[Tomorrow.]
[What? Why? Isn’t that too quick? What about their portfolio?]
Lilia groans.
[What about “emergency placement” do you not understand? I’ll send over their portfolio through your CG portal in a bit.]
Agatha doesn’t even know if she remembers her log in.
She sees Wanda and Nat hand in hand, both biting into their corn dog, walking back towards where Agatha is sitting.
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