Hello and welcome to Bearzyboys! (unofficial name, i hate coming up with system names)!
We are an undiagnosed but recognised system with 15+ alters. it is important to note that the body is a minor so please refrain from nsfw topics!
Our host is called Bucky, and our frequent fronters vary. At the minute, it seems to be; Bucky, Will, Jamesy, Angie and Harley.
The art that is used for this blogβs avatar and header is NOT MINE! Iβd credit the original artist, but i found it on pinterest. Let me know if you know the artist :)
dormancy and fusion are normal parts of systemhood and should not be feared as much as they are.
this isn't an original thought, I know, but clearly people keep forgetting it. dormancy and fusion are not "death" and should not be viewed as such. they're signs of healing. they're signs of recovery.
and why do so many genuine systems fear it or feel the need to censor talk around it? endogenic rhetoric. endos always focus on the alters part of the disorder, so of course they prioritize having alters, and losing that is like losing a loved one to them.
the thing is, in regards to endos, they never had them to begin with. for them, there's nothing to lose.
I understand dormancy can be scary. fusion can feel depressing if you were close to the alter who fused. but ultimately it's a good thing.
alters are not natural. I cannot emphasize this enough. we are not meant to exist. if we were not traumatized as a child, I would not exist. I would not be writing this post.
dormancy and fusion are signs of healing. we need to start treating it as a good thing instead of the scariest thing you've ever heard of.
I fully agree with this post, but it is important to note that it is not shameful or wrong to mourn a dormant alter, we are currently going through it with one of ours.
It can be so upsetting when an alter that has helped you so strongly goes dark, and it is normal to be upset about it for a while.
Hey! I'm Jason (the one the whole system will be mad at because I deleted everything on here...), and this is my intro post!
(link to my spotify playlist pls rate it)
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I am a fictive of Jason Todd. Not sure if I have a specific comic run that i was based off of but it doesn't really matter. I'm fully source separated anyway.
In headspace I am 20-25 years old. I'm stepping up as the main protector of the system as our last one went dormant. (we miss you Asset)
I used to be embarrassingly unstable but im proud to say that i'm now one of our most confident lmao.
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πβ Reading. I love reading so much, yet iβm probably the only alter that actually does it. I recently finished βCujoβ and Iβve just started βA Clockwork orange.β
π₯β Batman: Arkham Knight. God, itβs my life goal to finish all side-quests and stories. My favourite game atm.
π§±β βModernβ and abstract art. Kind of a hot take, but I find it just as, if not more, deep and intense as highly detailed, complicated works.
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π«β Starting off strong, Endogenics or any type of non-traumagenic systems please gtfo. Our whole system has very strong opinions of endos, and i really don't feel like arguing w people.
π«β Anybody whoβs under the impression that fictives/introjects are any different than brainmade alters. Need I say more? I donβt feel like being treated like iβm fictional.
β οΈβ Sourcemates who arenβt separated. This is more for your benefit than mine, as iβve been in this position. It can hurt when you feel like you know someone and they donβt match the energy. If you feel like you wonβt be affected, this doesnβt apply.
β οΈβ Anybody who can be unintentionally blunt or mean. Not that iβm discriminating, we have alters who can be like this, but I have a track record of taking it personally.
