10 Ways a Yautja Treats Their Mate
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This is one of the strongest mate-signs in Yautja behaviour.
He cuts a piece of the freshest, warmest meat.
He kneels slightly, just enough for only you to notice, and offers it to you first.
If you accept the first taste, it means:
I submit my victory to you.
I place your well-being above mine.
If you approve the flavour, he eats.
If you don’t finish your portion, he eats the rest with deep satisfaction, since it carries your scent.
This is considered extremely intimate.
2. Positioning Himself Between You and Threats
even strong winds or rain
He steps in front of you, not blocking your view, but shielding you.
It is instinctual. He barely realises he is doing it.
If you’re cold, he doesn’t offer his coat like a human would.
Instead, he simply sits behind you and pulls you against his chest, mandibles resting against your hair.
For Yautja, this is what mates do to warm each other.
Not like a parent and child, that would insult you, but gentle touches.
smoothing your hair behind your ear
brushing his fingers over your wrist
tapping his mandibles softly against your cheek
adjusting your clothing or cloak
lifting you onto a rock or ledge instead of letting you climb
Mine to protect. Mine to soothe. Mine to admire.
5. Standing Watch While You Sleep
Most Yautja believe sleeping in pairs means sharing shifts.
But he refuses to wake you during your part of the watch.
He would rather sit awake all night than disturb your rest.
6. Silent Territory Claiming
When other males pass too close to you, he:
shifts to stand slightly behind you, but closer
brushes his fingers against your lower back
lets his mandibles flex just a little
It is never threatening to you.
7. Cleaning His Hands Before Touching You
Yautja are not naturally soft, but a mate-worthy male will always clean:
before touching your face, hair, or belly (if you are expecting).
This is a huge act of respect.
8. Bringing You Water Before Himself
On long walks or hunts, he always hands you the water first.
He watches until you’ve had enough. Not a drop less.
He sees something heavy in your hand, takes it, and attaches it to his belt or shoulder netting.
If you protest, he gives a confused tilt of his head.
In his mind, caring for you is instinct, not effort.
10. Staying Close Without Touching
When he senses you are overwhelmed, shy, or tired, he stays near, just within arm’s reach, allowing you to initiate contact if you want.
To a Yautja, this restraint is a sign of profound respect and love.
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