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Adult MDNI She/Her ♐️☀️♐️🌙♋️👍 🏳️‍🌈Asexual/Lesbian🏳️‍🌈 📚Editor, Reader, & Writer📚 Chaotically Posting Whatever I Want

[beawritingbooks]

I have found the place my soul calls home between the pages of books 📚

[wellwaterhysteria]

thinking about teen wolf you are all so surprised. when stiles gets possessed and derek's like "oh you think STILES is the nogitsune?? (arrested development voice) Her? i could punt that guy across a parking lot why would anything want to possess him I Am Feeling Normal About This And We Have It All Under Control." and then everyone takes like two seconds to think about it and they're like "oh my god we forgot he's smarter than us. he's literally smarter than all of us oh my god. haha fuck. his brain is so big and he was already insane before this. and he's not even that SKINNY". that was good. that was fun. all of that happened word for word by the way.

[wellwaterhysteria]

i do think like at least half the interactions that people have with stiles are punctuated by the exact same thought, which is just "ah. shit. i forgot he's smarter and meaner than i am. next time you talk to this guy Do Not forget that he's smarter and meaner than you." and then of course they forget about the smartness and the meanness and it happens all over again. stiles is like "well i think we should drug and kill this person actually" and everyone's like "wtf why would you say that" and it's like? that's all he EVER says. everything that comes out of his mouth is a variation of "calculated murder is an option and i'd be so fucking good at it if you guys would just LET ME". why won't they let him. like. spread your wings, dude. use them to smother people or something.

[that-house]

i'm gonna be me forever and im gonna get really really good at it

[redstonedust]

you guys heard of "women ? " it's awesome. compliments to the chef.

[redstonedust]

it bothers me when someone brings up misogyny in shounen anime and people shrug it off with "its designed for teenage boys, what can you expect." like well. idk i think its actually pretty important that shows for teenage boys are normal about women. i mean i think all media should be normal about women but teenagers are impressionable i think we could put a little bit of feminism in the teenage boy shows. it might do some good. you never know.

[angelicguy]

me and the boys have a couple of chains wrapped around the sword in the stone hooked up to mikes toyota tundra gonna pull that fucker out like a tooth.

[seaweed-station]

Me and the boys misunderstood the arcane nature of the stone and now the Toyota is king of England

[shelbybergen]

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[redstonedust]

the whole "insulting someone based on their appearance is bad because it could indirectly hurt people you like who share that feature" is a good start for unlearning body shaming but i do think we need to go further and remind people that even if there was some physical trait that was magically 10000% exclusive to conservatives and creeps and nobody else ever had it, we still shouldnt be insulting them based on that. because the problem with them is not their appearance its their ideology and actions. by insulting their appearance you arent just indirectly insulting others who look like that, youre literally not making the correct point. stay on topic ya know.

[stargazers-satellite]

my partner said something that kinda rocked my world

[rizadyke]

People loooove complex characters until they’re women

[courtesyname]

[catsbeaversandducks]

Art by ungfio

[bookhobbit]

why is “olde vampires in high school” the big thing and not “olde vampires in college”

everyone in college is eccentric. everyone

you wanna wear full on Victorian suit? the girl in pajamas who clearly hasn’t slept in three days supports you

everyone is too preoccupied to care as long as you’re polite and follow class etiquette

multiple high school diplomas? eh. same stuff. multiple BAs? Enjoy learning chemistry AND art history! All in detail!

wandering around campus at 3am? that’s just the lifestyle tm

no matter how old or young you look it’s not really that weird, there’s sixteen year olds and sixty year olds doing BAs somewhere

big schools are very anonymous so nobody’s gonna bother to hassle you

[dragon-in-a-fez]

consider: vampire PhD students and postdocs, because in addition to all of the above:

been at the same campus for 57 years? seems legit

[depsidase]

[depsidase]

[galaxyasexual]

Sensual attraction needs to be talked about more. I am demisensual. I experience the desire to hug, cuddle, hold hands with, and very rarely, kiss people I have an emotional bond with (generally friends). I am also aroace so this is one of the more salient attractions I do experience. For one thing, I can’t even search “sensual attraction” on tumblr because it’s apparently too “sexy time-related” for them and g-d forbid we be allowed to talk about “sensuality” on this site...Hell, asensuality needs to be talked about more too because not everybody feels this type of attraction and they need a space to articulate that feeling as well!

[hierophagy]

and my take today is that framing misogynistic writing as an "inability to write female characters" subconsciously takes away most of the blame, implying that women are an alien creature compared to men and that it is no fault of the writer because it's out of their skill set. it's not an inability, not a lack of expertise, it's the simple refusal to consider women as individual people and give them the same depth and grace that comes easily to the writer when they write male characters. it's not that christopher nolan, stephen king, james cameron (and frankly anyone using the argument, both professional and hobbyist; yes, that includes fanfic writers) etc can't write women, it's that they just won't. at that point in time it is a conscious decision driven by the laziness to unpack their misogynistic biases, and should be addressed as such

[snakes-of-the-undercity]

Not to be repetitive but genuinely sex positivity and sexual liberation only work if everyone realizes that sex isn’t that much of a fucking deal. It is not the be all end all of anything. It isn’t the crux of every coming of age story or the pinnacle of every relationship. It’s literally just a thing some folks do.

Obviously some folks will put significance on their own, personal experiences, or consider it to be like the highest form of intimacy/romance/etc, but also some folks think cooking together is the height of intimacy/romance/connection, some people put that insane amount of significance onto Hollidays or wacky traditions.

Nobody should be pressured to have/not have sex, nobody should be expected to put significant meaning on sex, the only sex folks should be worried about is their own (if they choose to have it) and if someone’s in a legitimate dangerous situation.

TLDR: sex can personally be a big deal for someone, but collectively everyone needs to stop giving a fuck because folks deciding to smoosh booties or deciding not to do that really is not that big a deal and literally doesn’t affect the general population in any meaningful way.