Random Shit To Laugh At

A blog about nothing more than a popsicle and where its been.

[beepbeepboops]

Im backkkk

22F Cardiophile Kinda, Looking for new Cardiophile moots and play friends

[gaspingandcompressing]

If you post ACTUAL CPR/resuscitation scenes including REAL victims who are most likely ACTUALLY DEAD and 1000% unable to consent to being filmed, let alone be consumed for your own sexual desires… no questions just blocking. It’s not educational either. Don’t even try.

CHILDREN CANNOT CONSENT TO BE SEXUALIZED.

REAL VICTIMS WHO ARE ACTUALLY DEAD (A REAL LIFE REQUIREMENT FOR RESUSCITATION) CANNOT CONSENT TO BE SEXUALIZED.

Y’all are actually breaking my soul.

Super disappointed with what’s been going on and being posted on here.

[beepbeepboops]

25F. Can we dm?

yup!

[babygirlifier-deactivated202402]

the reason it’s so awesome when the bass at a concert replaces your pulse is that it’s the closest you can get to someone breaking open your ribs and squeezing your heart really hard in their fist

[beepbeepboops]

all me 🥰✌️hurt like bitch too

[beepbeepboops]

The Bruising is starting to set in, what an aweful night really

[krissyfoxx]

Ugh... In quite the heart mood tonight.

[deadshrike-deactivated20220125]

the intensity of my desires are normal. (←lying)

[yournewstonerdaddyisbackagain]

one "good girl" and she's turning immediately into a horny needy wet mess

[cupcak3kitt3n]

🥹

[purity-in-heart]

I'd like to make a call to all willing female cardiophile users here on Tumblr

I've been apart of this beloved community for a while now, and not a day goes by where I'm not grateful to have met everyone. Unfortunately, there are also a number of users who have left for reasons unknown in the past, but a number of them are due to discomfort being felt from the responses, reactions and interactions from and by male users, especially, who lack consideration and even the concept of consent.

With this dishonor driving users away and sometimes causing female users to feel misandry based on their own experiences in the community and online elsewhere, I wanted to make a request and once again try and help present and future female users feel more safe and powerful to push the inconsiderate and the disrespectful back, especially because there really are a lot of female users on here, including ace users, who have remained strong and active for as long as they have without needing or feeling the need to quit for good, or come back much later with a chance of deciding to leave again.

I wanted to know if any female users active today would be willing to make a list or something that will give advice to present and future users to help them power through and find some stability and comfort in their place in the community, without fear or concern. I know there's diversity in this community, too, pertaining to sexuality and gender, and to those who fall under such identifications, most notable that of asexuality - as this community has a big ace following - and being a lesbian user, your input would be just as vital - if not more so - for my request of sharing advice with the wider community.

Thanks for reading in, and thank you to those who decide to give my idea a shot. If we need a way to make this community safer for everyone, we should try the concept of uniting.

Please reblog this with tags to spread the word. Thanks in advance.

[materiaheartt]

Something I find to be very important when maintaining a blog such as this is to not be afraid of purging bad actors from your space.

You may feel bad because it's a niche community but don't:

You don't have to give a reason

You don't owe them anything

You have the content they want

You're the one in control

I dealt with a lot of people who completely ignored my boundaries in the beginning. Ignoring my asexuality and sending inappropriate, sexually-charged asks, one even following up along the lines of "i know it's bad so you can't be mad at me." Like, if you know it's bad then why send it to me?

It's entitlement. Straight up entitlement of, predominantly male, cardiophiles who believe that they are owed content because of how niche the kink actually is. Hilariously enough, they usually have super strict boundaries (regarding their sexuality) that they demand be respected and yet trample all over the boundaries of others'.

It wasn't until I made it painstakingly clear that I will block any and all bad actors with no second chances did they stop. The threat of being cut off from the content they want is usually enough for them to pack it in. Sucks that I have to do that but people seem to forget that I make this content for me primarily and no one is going to take away my agency in how I relieve stress.

If others enjoy the content I make, then yay! But I'm not a content farm and I'm glad to have reached a point where everyone is respectful of the boundaries I've set.

However, it is super hard and I don't blame anyone for leaving -- Be it temporary or permanently.

Do what is right for your own mental health; be it turning off DMs/anon asks, blocking people or leaving.

You're in control.

[beepbeepboops]

I actually don't exist

[beepbeepboops]

Why is this account getting so many followers all of a sudden 🥴 Most of them are bots i think but why now?

[beepbeepboops]

So i think my tumblr is just getting like bot bombed? all of a sudden tons of fake accounts are following me

[cherry-heart-nsfw]

PSA: please don't send unsolicited sexual messages to people in this community. yes it is a kink community, but CONSENT IS NECESSARY! not everyone wants to be flirted with or sent suggestive messages/pictures, or wants to RP. ASK PERMISSION FIRST before you think about sending any of that stuff, and if the person says no, and they're not comfortable with that, then respect that.

just because someone has a kink blog it doesn't mean they owe you anything and it doesn't automatically give you permission to talk to them in a sexual way. for example I've had to block people recently because they'd just message me like "I'm so wet" or send unwanted nudes, or ask me graphic sexual stuff which I didn't want.

i understand we're all here because we share the same kinks and I get that people just want to talk to like-minded people about said kink, but it's important to respect boundaries and ensure you're not making anyone feel uncomfortable. thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[mangomoonlov]

This couldn't be said more accurately. While we'll never be able to stop those buffoons atleast now, they are in super minority now ┏(＾0＾)┛

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[beepbeepboops]

So much for our rights 😵‍💫

[lookatmeenoww-deactivated201301]

Okay seriously. Reblog if you're OLDER than 11.

[danisontnonfire]

why is it that not more than 1/20 of Tumblr haven’t reblogged this

[curiousferret]

No minors please. Too many complications.