being her today, tomorrow and forever

• Femininity | Power | Victory •

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[anetteva]

Repetition is the language of the subconscious. What you do daily, you become. What you affirm, you believe. What you practice, you embody.

[zendayamybabe]

🐞 a ladybug for everyone who needs good luck

[04k96]

[pradame]

[thereignclub-trc]

Push yourself to do the things that might take some extra time and discipline, but will help you grow in the long run. Journaling, cooking homemade meals, working out, stepping out of your comfort zone, confronting issues, completing tedious tasks. Self care isn’t always about providing comfort for yourself, it’s about doing the things you might not want to in the moment for the wellbeing of your future self.

[wetheurban]

Let people misunderstand you, let people miss you, let people be wrong about you. Your peace is not dependent on their accuracy.

[girlfriendsinjeans]

[thecybercelestial]

[aetas-aurea]

How do I become the woman I have always dreamed of becoming?

Write down exactly who she is in specific measurable terms.

Set a deadline.

Break it into monthly goals.

Break those into weekly tasks.

Break those into daily non negotiables.

Execute without waiting to feel ready.

Track everything.

Audit. What worked, what didn't, why, what changes.

Eliminate what is not producing results immediately and without sentiment.

Build systems not motivation because motivation is unreliable and systems are not.

Identify the three highest leverage actions and do those first every single day.

Remove every habit, person, and environment that is incongruent with where you are going.

Replace them deliberately and specifically with ones that are.

Do the hardest thing on your list first before your brain has had time to negotiate.

Stop consuming content about doing the thing and go do the thing.

Create accountability that has real consequences attached to it.

Give yourself a non negotiable timeline and treat it like an external deadline.

Review your written vision every single morning before the day gets access to you.

Raise your standards and then raise them again.

The plan is nothing without execution. Execute.

[sk-lumen]

Actually life is beautiful & I decide my own narrative & I can start over as many times as I please until everything looks like the vision in my head I'm obsessed with.

[foreverrryourssss]

[herfleur]

[being-her-today]

[feminineenergylife]

[dovai]

if self-care was a girl, she would…

she starts her mornings with a glass of water and stretches because it makes her feel good

her evenings are a mix of journaling, dancing in her room and turning her phone off when she needs time to be introspective

she’s empathetic and patient, specially with herself

she’s a great listener, but she never lets herself be a dumping ground for negativity

she’s not afraid to walk away from people who drain her energy and make her feel bad

her mantra is “i deserve to be cared, specially by myself”

she knows that healing can be messy and she’s fine with taking one step at a time or even going one step back because life is not linear

sometimes she stays in bed all day because she knows that rest is productive too

she celebrates small wins like taking her vitamins/meds, finishing a good book etc. because she believes joy is found everywhere

she values quality over quantity in every part of her life

she surrounds herself with people who respect her boundaries

her style isn’t about trends: it’s about what truly resonates with her

she values the present moment, even when it’s messy

she leaves every person she meets better than when she found them

she reminds you that you’re allowed to be a work in progress and a masterpiece at the same time

she loves herself just the way she is <3

[missexquisite]