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〈𝒹𝓃𝒾〉 transphobes, pedos, old men, maga, homophobes, racists, xenophobes, trad wives, sexists, shifting antis, ai supporters. i won't hesitate to block and/or report anyone i even suspect is on this list

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𝒜bout me:

𝘮𝘰𝘤𝘩𝘢, 𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘯𝘢𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘰𝘭𝘭, 𝘮𝘺 𝘮𝘦𝘭𝘰𝘥𝘺, 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘭𝘰 𝘬𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘺, 𝘬𝘶𝘳𝘰𝘮𝘪, 𝘱𝘰𝘮𝘱𝘰𝘮

𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘳𝘰𝘰𝘬𝘪𝘦, 𝘴𝘮𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘷𝘪𝘭𝘭𝘦, 𝘤𝘰𝘥, 𝘣𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘵𝘪𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘫𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘺, 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘭𝘺 𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘢𝘭𝘳𝘺, 𝘣𝘪𝘨 𝘮𝘰𝘶𝘵𝘩 (𝘥𝘳𝘢𝘮𝘢), 𝘣𝘦𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘶𝘱𝘱𝘺𝘤𝘢𝘵, 𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘳𝘺 𝘨𝘪𝘳𝘭𝘴, 𝘵𝘰 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘰𝘺𝘴 𝘪’𝘷𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘥 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦

𝘬𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘢 𝘬𝘪𝘴𝘴, 𝘺𝘶𝘮𝘦𝘪𝘳𝘰 𝘱𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘦𝘳𝘦, 𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘢 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘢𝘸𝘯, 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶, 𝘴𝘢𝘪𝘬𝘪 𝘬, 𝘳𝘰𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘤 𝘬𝘪𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘳, 𝘬𝘶𝘳𝘰𝘬𝘰’𝘴 𝘣𝘢𝘴𝘬𝘦𝘵𝘣𝘢𝘭𝘭

𝘣𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘫𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘢𝘧𝘧𝘪𝘳𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴, 𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘢𝘭 𝘴𝘺𝘮𝘣𝘰𝘭, 𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘐’𝘮 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘫𝘰𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨), 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘣𝘢𝘭 𝘵𝘦𝘢, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘮𝘦 𝘴𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴, 𝘫𝘦𝘭𝘭𝘺𝘧𝘪𝘴𝘩

𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘺 𝘬𝘪𝘥𝘴, 𝘵𝘸𝘪𝘤𝘦, 𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘱𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴, 𝘪𝘭𝘭𝘪𝘵, 𝘪𝘷𝘦, 𝘯𝘦𝘸𝘫𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘴, 𝘵𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘺 𝘧𝘦𝘣𝘳𝘶𝘢𝘳𝘺6, 𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘴 𝘵𝘢𝘥𝘢

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Literally shifters 😭

[slqvicbimbosblog]

Moved away to another country alone at 15, changed my whole face, got my dream body, changed my bone structure, changed my height and weight. I get money out of nowhere. Got my dream house for almost free (Tuscan house) get spoiled daily, got my dream bf. Have a luxury life, live in my dream city. Changed everything about my appearance (teeth, height, weight, hair, face, side profile, nose, jawline, paler skin, long legs) eat and never gain weight. Don’t have a job. Have amazing friends. Got pretty privilege, much clothes I’ve dreamed of, get spoiled by random people, always getting paid for. And much more, just because I affirmed and pressist.

[crimson-revelation]

Your acceptance post is so good!

From what I gather, to let something exist, you’re saying that I basically have to give it my focus but not in a way that it feels like I’m begging it to exist, but more in a “you already exist” type of way.

Like giving it attention is letting it exist

I feel like I’ve been trying to do that but I dunno, at some point I get frustrated and literally crash out. I probably depend on my physical senses more than I’d like to admit

I think you've understood the general idea.

As for crashing out, I think most people do at some point. We are all experiencing reality through physical senses. Of course they're going to influence us.

The goal is to stop treating them as the highest authority in the room.

Sometimes the frustration itself is a sign that you've slipped from "it exists" into "why isn't it here yet?"

And those are two very different identities.

Be gentle with yourself. You're not "failing" because you notice the physical world. You're just learning not to let it have the final say.

And, thank you for reading!

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My kink is when I barely notice the looks because the vibes are so attractive.

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[crimson-revelation]

Acceptance = Instant Manifestation

Acceptance is instant manifestation.

By acceptance, I mean allowing something. Giving it consent to exist.

And you do that through interaction.

The minute you engage with something, react to it, check on it, or identify with it, you have already accepted it into your reality.

Picture this.

There is a really creepy person trying to get your attention.

You do not like them. You are not interested.

What is your first instinct?

To leave. To ignore them.

Why?

Because the minute you interact, they are audacious enough to take that as consent. Consent to exist in your space.

Your reality works the same way.

It is your personal space. What stays and what does not is entirely your decision.

This is why you cannot keep claiming something is not working.

The second you start checking, reacting, questioning, or looking for proof, you are still interacting with the version of reality where it is absent.

You are still giving it your attention.

Still giving it consent.

Most people behave like they are kneeling before an altar, begging to be given things.

When in reality, they are the one standing at it.

Things do not decide whether they happen for you.

They require your consent.

It all comes down to what you accept as possible and how naturally you can embody that without turning it into something you feel the need to perform.

The moment it becomes effort, monitoring, or trying to force a result, you have already stepped out of authorship.

Things always need your consent to exist.

You decide what you keep giving it to.

[stuckinapril]

Controversial take some of u will get defensive at, but there IS a right way to give advice (in my opinion). I recently discovered this when I made friends with my former bar manager, a guy in his 50s whom I’m literally in love with (platonically lol). I frequently ask him for advice, and he doles it out to me freely, but he’s also always like “you have it in you to figure this out.” He’s always like “you don’t need me for this; you have it in you.” He’s always reminding me that I have the capacity and experience and emotional intelligence to work through even the toughest weeds. That’s the way to give advice. If you’re not bolstering your friend’s confidence, if you’re not inquiring about their own thought process, if you’re just caustically cutting them off with advice every single time, I’m sorry but to me that’s doing it wrong.

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