Are you happy?
What`s the point in writing things almost nobody is reading or even taking notice of? The point is letting own thoughts flow and not thinking about potential readers who might like or not like the things you write. You can write whatever you want to write and you are not influenced by the expectations of others. That`s a rare situation in nowadays life.
But now to my question above. If I would be asked to divide people into two categories it would be category 1: The positive people who try to do the best in every situation and category 2: Those who are modeling their own hell by sticking to the most negative things in every single situation.
Both groups create a circular flow. The first group is creating a very positive circular flow in which they gain friends, are popular within their clique and are also well liked in other settings as in the job etc.
The other group creates a vicious circle. They are always negative, always complaining, always discontent. We all have our own problems and it is absolutely not helpful to have a person nearby who is putting his or her own weight on your shoulders, on top of the problems you already have. Who wants to have such a person around? Another "talent" of those people is that they can turn a good situation into a bad one. Just imagine it`s your birthday and you bring a cake to work for everybody. The negative person, instead of appreciating this nice gesture, will possibly start complaining about the calories in the cake.
Of course it`s not that easy in real life. In real life you`ll rarely find 100%. We all are a mixture of both groups and of course everyone can change.
But it`s very important for me to let out a "wake up call" for those, who realize that they mostly belong into group 2. Try to break your vicious circle. Don`t make yourself a victim. Nobody is a victim unless he or she is accepting this role. Everyone can change. It´s not easy, I`m not saying that but it`s worth it!
So never forget to live your life not only deeply but also in a most positive way.
Take care and stay safe,
Berior















