Deadass
The social cheat Iâve learned for this is to say:
âI have to check my calendar, why, whatâs Friday?â
This says âMaybeâ without saying âMaybeâ, and giving you the option to make up a Doctorâs Appointment You Forgot About (or reschedule one you didnât!) depending on what they say.
Itâs an amazingly powerful sentence for my Autistic and ADHD ass - it gives me the ability to judge my social spoons, as well as communicating that âhey, I might have forgotten something, itâs not you itâs meâ in a very non-offensive way.
âI have to check my calendar, why?â


























