queer as in fuck you

jerry/fenris | 20 | queer fanfic writer | bigender ace transcompassionist | anarcho-communist, probably | mostly dragon age and sonic and assorted queer stuff | pro-kin and pro-kink (cgl isnt pedophilia) and pro-mogai but anti weird pedo shit | truscum die by my sword | icon by me | i follow back from @dionynotcis (which is still stuck in tumblr jail despite never being nsfw) | previous urls: nathangayram & transboythor & aspec-tommyshepherd | ask about pronouns

[avengersacademyassemble]

Happy Halloween! 🎃

[vivienneappreciation]

Vivienne Appreciation Week

The Vivienne Appreciation Week is a week dedicated to the amazing mage companion of Dragon Age Inquisition. Our goal is to give Vivienne De Fer the appreciation she deserves! The event is running from July 2-8, 2019. We are tracking #vivienneappreciationweek

Rules:

What is this? Who can participate?

This is a week appreciation for the character of Vivienne De Fer. During this week, the Dragon Age fandom is invited to post about her character. From artists to writers to cosplayers, everyone is welcome to participate!

What We Accept:

Loving and cherishing Vivienne in all forms of art; fanfiction, gifsets, edits, fan videos, screenshots and everything else you could come up with. Nsfw is welcome, but should be tagged accordingly.

What We Don’t Accept:

We won’t interact with posts containing racism, anti-blackness, homo/transphobia, antisemitism, anti-native, anti-romani racism, islamophobia, whitewashing, graphic depictions of violence, rape, abuse, pedophilia. No character or ship bashing. This is first and foremost an appreciation week so we want to make sure to make it a safe environment for everyone.

How do I make sure you reblog my content?

We ask you to tag your posts with #vivienneappreciationweek.

Themes Of The Week

Day 1 - Vivienne and your ocs | Favorite Trait

Always dreamt of romancing Vivienne with your oc? This is your chance! Or maybe want to gush about a trait of hers you admire? Go ahead and shower her with love!💕

Day 2 - Vivienne and Ships | Favorite quote

Ship Vivienne and Blackwall? Maybe it’s Vivienne and Josephine that catches your fancy? Or perhaps it’s a rare ship no one has thought of before? We cannot wait! Not really into ships and would rather appreciate her graceful way of expression? It’s your time to shine!

Day 3 - Mage Vivienne | Divine Vivienne

What does it mean for Vivi to be a mage? What are her real unfiltered thoughts about  mage rebellion? What was her life in Montsimmard like? We are interested in your takes on the matter! Or maybe you made Vivienne divine and want to further elaborate on that? We’d happily listen!

Day 4 - WLW Vivienne | Song Lyrics

Do you ever wake up at night and think how could Bioware let down wlw like that? How could gorgeous and amazing Vivienne be straight for crying out loud?! This is the day for you then! Or maybe you have heard a nice song yesterday and thought it reminded you of her. Share your thoughts and creations with us!!

Day 5 - Vivienne and Fashion | Favorite Scene

No one could possibly be more gorgeous and fashionable than madame de Fer. This is the day to appreciate her exquisite fashion style! Or if you’d rather, tell us about your favorite Vivienne moment.

Day 6 - AU/Crossovers | Personal quest of your choosing

Always wondered what modern Vivienne would be like? Or how about Vivienne as a DAO companion? Let’s make this happen! Or maybe you never particularly liked how her personal quest was handled and have ideas of your own? Go ahead and share them with us!

Day 7 - Free day | Vivienne as Inquisitor

Let your imagination run wild! What if Vivienne was the sole survivor of the conclave? How things would change? What would chantry do? It’s up to you!

[locallovewitch-deactivated20201]

hey so uhhh here’s an important update on what’s apparently happening at the border, especially with the use of the old japanese internment camps

all i can say is i’m sickened by this mess, by the atrocities committed against innocent people. and now there will be no surveillance. no one will be able to see what happens to these people. the UN, the media, and any other human rights organizations cannot get into these facilities, either, in order to stop what’s happening. by the way, coast guard members were apparently aiding in this process as well. so now it’s only a matter of time before it becomes a military movement.

no one gets in. no one gets out.

so when are we going to call this what it is? it’s fascism. it’s genocide. and if we don’t stop it now, it’s going to be disastrous.

contact your senators, your representatives, anyone that’s in office that can get off their lazy ass and do something.

[locallovewitch-deactivated20201]

can y’all please reblog this i’m begging

[fanonical]

Words dont lose their harm just because someone identifies as it

thank you

[bigenderfenris]

words dont lose their harm just because you believe youre morally correct and refuse to empathize with people other than yourself

[fanonical]

Whoa, wait a minute, please don't tell me you're an exclusionist?

people ask me this all the time just because i don’t like being called “qu**r”. they also call me a terf.

i’m a trans woman. i’m the original group of people who got excluded. don’t you dare try and point that word at me for defending not wanting to personally be called a slur.

[bigenderfenris]

op referred to exclusionists as "the gays" so yeah they hate ace ppl as per fucking usual

[bigenderfenris]

came on to tumblr to get away from abuse at home only to immediately find more proof that things dont get better

[fanonical]

gay is also a slur, ya gonna lament people IDing as gay? I assure you more people are aware of queer's slur status than gay's, and you can thank exclusionists for that

1. no it isn’t. slur =/= word used insultingly

2. when did i lament anybody IDing as qu**r? please, point me to it.

3. how about you blame cishets for our oppression, not a faceless group of The Bad Gays

[bigenderfenris]

also notice op's use of "exclusionist means gays!" in form with the "terf means lesbian!" bullshit

in case you were wondering, this is why i want to commit suicide so damn badly. lgbt+ isnt safe for aces and queers - we're just straights with a bad fetish, trying to be special. my love is a lie. my identity is a lie. to these people, im just an actor in a bad mask. and the straights rape and beat and kill us for existing.

[fanonical]

not to kick off discourse but why is it so hard for some people to understand that qu**r is still a slur — you can identify as it and that’s fine, I’d never want to stop that — but it is still a slur; identifying as it doesn’t change that

[fanonical]

people reblogging this saying

“it’s a person to person thing” no it isn’t — it’s person to person whether you are COMFORTABLE with it or not, but your comfort does not negate that it is literally used as a slur daily.

“it’s used academically” so what? academia doesn’t get to decide what is and isn’t okay (remember — it was scientific theory that supposed being gay was a disorder or illness), doesn’t get to decide what is and isn’t a slur. It’s still used as one daily. Besides, “retarded” is used academically, that’s still a slur.

“it’s been reclaimed” you can reclaim it for YOURSELF. reclamation doesn’t work across the board. you don’t suddenly get to decide a word is harmless or not a slur just because you’ve reclaimed it. I was called it whilst having the shit being beaten out of me as a twelve year old girl by kids twice my size; whilst rocks were thrown at me; by strangers on the street who look like they want to kill me. You reclaiming it doesn’t change that. I’m happy you can reclaim it for yourself, but that does not negate its status as a slur.

[bigenderfenris]

gay has been a slur for as long as ive been alive.

i have heard it used to mean ugly

i have heard it used to mean evil

i have heard it used to mena unjust

i have heard it used to mean evil

before i knew anything, i knew gay was bad. before i knew i wanted to kiss her, before i knew i wanted to hold his hand, before i knew i wasnt what my parents wanted me to be, i knew gay was bad. gay was a slur.

your experiences are not universal. queer was our word first and they stole it and made it into a slur. but we took it back again. when someone steals your bat and tries to beat you over the head with it, you dont bemoan that bats are bad and no one should play baseball. you take the bat back and you play the game and you win.

your stance on queerness, your stance on queer people, is queerphobic. and im willing to bet it comes from some deep-rooted issues that you need to fucking deal with. dont make those issues my problem. dont hit me with my bat just because you dont think i should have one.

[fanonical]

gay is also a slur, ya gonna lament people IDing as gay? I assure you more people are aware of queer's slur status than gay's, and you can thank exclusionists for that

1. no it isn’t. slur =/= word used insultingly

2. when did i lament anybody IDing as qu**r? please, point me to it.

3. how about you blame cishets for our oppression, not a faceless group of The Bad Gays

[bigenderfenris]

you just censored my identity. i think thats a pretty big sign that you dont like queer people

[skeby-blog]

“I need to change my name.”

[glorious-asexual]

Fun reminder that aspec people are amazing and 100% valid in their aspec identity

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[gildedmorrowprints]

A fan art piece I did for a friend of mine of Anders from Dragon Age 2

[tokyo-fashion]

Sierra on the street in Harajuku wearing a rainbow top and matching rainbow socks, a suspender skirt, heart choker with plushie, and platform glitter butterfly wing boots. Full Look

[santiagonex]

how is a DISNEY CHANNEL show serving this much gay angst… it’s ENOUGH

[frosted-cinnagrifs]

“you know the elf’s covered in spikes, like an angsty porcupine?” not to be dramatic but i’d DIE for fenris

[lena-luthor]

Here’s the tea.