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[tsurumi-kun]

My thoughts go to all the people who had to unwillingly listen to wangxian’s everyday at least once in their lives

[polkadotmotmot]

Bruce Ackerson - Spaghetti Night, 2020

[e-seal-deactivated20210319]

[funny-tik-toks]

[freeuwus]

when you accidentally close one of the 600 ao3 tab you’re reading

[midnight-spectrum-again]

Stay Safe Everyone

[riot-dog]

BOOST BOOST BOOST

[midnightsoliloquy]

could somebody please do a transcript of this?

[toiletpaperfandom]

The 3 tips are:

1) traffickers spread honey on top of your car, so that youll wonder what it is and stay outside longer while cleaning it up. If you see theres something strange/sticky on there: get in your car and drive away

2) sometimes a trafficker will hide under your car with a knife to cut your achilles heels so that you cant run away. Make sure theres no one under there, especially if its dark or remote. (Note from me: works super from a far while approaching)

3) traffickers also try to keep you outside longer by putting something under your windshield, that might be similar looking to a ticket, again, to keep you outside longer. Most times you can see what it is from inside the car, so make it a habit to check it out from inside the car.

[poeticallymindlesshippy]

I’m tired of having to fear for others as well as myself when I hear stuff like this. Ladies we need to invest in guns at this point

[themostlyharmlessfandragon]

The Achilles heel one makes my legs cringe. Ewwww

[arcadialedger]

My mom warned my sisters and I about the Achilles heel one from a young age.

Ladies, reblog & stay safe!

[celtisart]

My complete Persona 5 set just debuted at New York Comic Con today! <3

[rylandsgrace]

[charamath]

[tyleroakley]

Very important.

[soursoppi]

a peep was asking for a TodoDeku version of the extrovert shield but I didn’t really see Izuku as an extrovert, and he didn’t quite fit in my brain as an introvert so ambivert he is I guess lol-

I had the MiriTama version bouncing in my brain so here they are too + KiriBaku in uniform to fit the theme haha

[bettersituation]

[useexo-deactivated20241110]

Jongin Wallpapers/Lockscreens 2/2

#HappyJonginDay

[naughtbutstars]

Hopping on the Vine compilation bandwagon, part 1/?

[poetry-protest-pornography]

Oh god, I lost it at the Tim Hortons one.

[doc-coyote]

I never saw the cheating test questions sequel before now and it did not disappoint.

[peopledontalwayssuck]

It was a simpler time

[umpireofpopculture]

This comp is a perfect mix of classics and hilarious ones that somehow I’ve never seen before

[yourlocalcon-man]

The Obama one killed me-

[blackstar]

i don’t think people really get how little feedback fanfic authors actually get? like the effort to reaction ratio is so abysmally skewed here that a fic nearly 50,000 words long takes an entire year to amass like. 16 comments. someone reblogged a fic i wrote at 4 am and tagged it with a 5-word compliment and i can’t stop thinking about it, not because it was so nice but because half the time you post a fic you’re going to hear nothing and anything feels like so much

fandom culture is so, so good about giving artists the credit they’re due, but we gotta start doing that for writers too. you’ve got no idea how much people put into their stories and get maybe a handful of reblogs and a dozen-odd kudos. that’s not enough. writing is an endurance sport and y’all need to start giving fic writers a reason to endure it and improve their craft. encourage writers like you encourage artists. reblog fics, leave tags, leave comments, acknowledge that these stories do not just spring into being for your entertainment. 

every single damn writer i know feels like half of their readers see them as a machine. that’s gotta change. 

[blackstar]

the number of people tagging this post as “this is why i stopped writing” is so deeply upsetting to me but at the same time it is really, really strong evidence that there is a real problem here

it is hard to create fanfic when you feel like you’re writing for ghosts. i recognize that anxiety disorders and various complications make it goddamn difficult to comment on a fic, but there needs to be more way, way more verbal support of writers than there currently is. 

leaving kudos is great, liking posts is great (in fact, way more people should be doing the former; so many tags on this post mention only getting one kudos for every 10-20 hits), but ultimately if all you receive is silence you’re going to feel like no one cares about that story you’ve sunk countless weekends into creating. 

there’s a really common misconception that fanfic authors write only for themselves and/or for love of a series, and while both of those things are true, that’s far from the whole scope of things. fanfic authors write for their for their stories to be read and for the readers to get something out of it, even if that something is just ‘damn, that was hot.’ we’re not shouting into a void here. we’re hoping to hear something back, and right now all we’re getting is echoes. 

the lack of tangible support and encouragement for authors is a problem, and you can go through the tags on this post if you don’t believe me on that. 

[richietoaster]

THIS IS WHAT IVE BEEN FUCKING SAYING. SUPPORT YOUR WRITERS

[smallchaoscryptid]

or the fact at least from what ive seen the fics dont seem to be commented on till the author stops writting unless its a multichapter fic

[yourlocalcon-man]

Lack of feedback is actually one of the many reasons I dropped a fic of mine. There were a lot of complicated reasons, from me just losing interest naturally to my poor mental health taking all the fun out of it, but this was one of the nails in the coffin. I didn’t feel like anyone would really be upset if I quit, and honestly that just made me feel even less like writing the fic anymore. So I just. Stopped. It was bittersweet because I felt relieved that I didn’t have that commitment weighing me down anymore, but at the same time I was hoping someone else might care at least a little bit. But like they didn’t so I had no reason not to discontinue it. And if someone did care I didn’t know it because they didn’t say much if anything.

[landers53-deactivated20231108]

posting because some people see the united states as a monolith run by a crazy person (that part is true), but we also have individual state governments trying their best despite all that.

[yourlocalcon-man]

Never been more grateful to live on the west coast.

[totomochi]

sleepy morning shouto~

[fenkko]

XVIII. The Moon

[hottestaceinthisplace]

If you don’t believe being asexual has any negative affect on people I was told by a psychiatrist that none of my relationships count because we didn’t have sex, and I can’t say I’m gay since I don’t want to have sex with girls.

and I was taken off my antidepressants because they may be lowering the libido I never had in the first place (plus various other reasons, but still immediately, cold turkey, which should NEVER happen unless they’re switching you to something else)

But aphobia doesn’t exist and asexuals are privileged, right?

[bitterqueerandtired]

Sorry to add to this but I wanted to say since I’ve had bad experiences with mental health professionals and biphobia, I usually get asked “but are you sure you are sexually attracted to both sexes, are you sure it’s not just an emotional attraction?!” Like my dude don’t you think I can tell the difference between wanting to date someone and wanting to be friends? Also, due to be gray ace 90% of the time I am not even attracted to anyone but like sure, make me feel guilty that I can’t “prove” my bisexuality.

[lesbianpeachs]

Sorry too but to add on, being aro isn’t much different. I told my therapist and she was immediately concerned that my meds were repressing “all my emotions” and wanted to take me off them. My insurance ran out and I went off them bc of no money before that happened. She also suggested dating someone anyway to “fix” the “issue” and expressed concern that my emotions (romantic feelings) weren’t present because “I’m suspicious and untrusting of everyone and don’t want to try hard enough.”

Having your orientation medicalized and invalidated is bad enough, but its fucking dangerous to have your meds taken away because you’re not performing relationships the way some doctor thinks you’re required to.

[star-anise]

Aaaand this is why we need the bi/pan/ace/aro alliance.

[grandmaestheticc-deactivated201]

this is why we need to recognize more queer experiences and identities than gay and lesbian, through increased awareness, information and representation.

[asexualspectrumspector]

My hand slipped…  (P.S. It’s transparent!)

[asexualcheetah]

Join the alliance!!

[hoardofhyperfixations]

Yes!!

[smitethestate]

I love it, I have joined the alliance effective immediately, I love all my ace/aro/bi siblings.