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Boys who vocalise "i cant cry because I'm a boy, it's okay for girls to" are innateley selfish.
Don't get me wrong i understand where it comes from however saying it (especially to a girl) when girls crying is also seen the same it actually selfish, it's telling me as a girl that my negative feelings about me crying are invalid because I'm a girl and im supposed to feel okay about it when I would get negativity as well as a boy if I cried.
I am not in any way posting this in a harmful way. I just feel quite strongly about this as a girl who has major mental and physical health issues that affects my daily life and I have never felt okay to show any negative emotion let alone cry in front of people.
I am posting this to see if I'm the horrible person or somebody else is on this boat with me. Please respond to this whether you agree or not because I need some other opinions as I feel selfish myself in a way for feeling the way I do. Thank you if you read all of this.