Trans ppl made terfism woke . How much % are nonbinary people evil? Does it depend on how âmanâ passing they lookđ
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Trans ppl made terfism woke . How much % are nonbinary people evil? Does it depend on how âmanâ passing they lookđ
"make your own fucking post" does not fucking work when you're the one who bought trans men up in the first place, idiot
Your too late mr bond I alreasy peed out all my pee from my penis
Low-key want to kms
âtranny is never used against trans men! Itâs only if theyâre mistaken for a trans woman!â Ok so youâre just Wrong
THIS!! so fucking sick of people trying to police trans mascs from reclaiming tranny, fuck all the way off. Same people who never listen to us about our experiences or lives but then also want to be the experts on our experiences with the t slur. đ
a vicious cycle
Saw a trans man's post that seemed cool so I clicked on his blog to follow only to find "if you believe in transandrophobia you're a dork" in his bio and like. How much of a doormat do you have to be lol.
"If you believe trans men are oppressed you're a dork". Okay.
âmen canât be oppressedâ -> men of colour
âwhite men canât be oppressedâ -> gay men
âheterosexual men canât be oppressedâ -> trans men
âcis-het men canât be oppressedâ -> intersex men
âperisex men canât be oppressedâ -> disabled men
âable-bodied men canât be oppressedâ -> neurodivergent men
âcis-het perisex white able-bodied neurotypical men canât be oppressedâ -> buddy let me tell you about wealth and class and homelessness and immigrants and minority languages and cultures and being a child and being an elderly person and and and
we can keep doing this all day but the reality of the world is that very few people donât face any kind of oppression at all and everyone exists in a complicated, intersecting web where they have privileges over some people in some contexts and some others are have privilege over them in other contexts. no one individual is incapable of enacting oppression and if you think that about yourself you need to go away and interrogate that belief.
"eeerm can transmascs under this posts shut up... this one is for the girlies..." i forgot that my entire life of suffering as a woman got erased actually the moment i put he him in my bio sorry
i fucking hate trans men who white knight for trans women at the expense of their brothers. you can tell it feels so good to intellectually jack off for them and it hits even harder when itâs lubed up with benevolent sexism.
i feel the need to reiterate this
the study that concluded trans women on average make less than trans men only took into account full-time jobs, meaning it ignored data from trans people in part time jobs. trans men are more than *twice* as likely as trans women to have part-time jobs, which basically by definition pay less than full-time jobs. from this study (sample size 27,000+ usamerican transgender people) which does include part-time jobs, trans men [in the united states on average] make about 30% less than trans women, which is a PRETTY BIG NUMBER to fuck up on a reporting decision don'tcha think
watching westerners talk about how all transmascs will one day reach a stage* where 'misogyny will no longer affect them' really makes me understand why theres such a big 'feminism is no longer needed' sentiment within western countries. You really think the main body of oppression is just 'are there people who dislike you'. Which is a part of it yes, but thats not like IT?
Misogyny permanently alters your life path.
There are binary trans men who pass today who still suffer from after-effects of fgm which a lot of the time cannot be cured.
There are binary trans men who pass today who do not have the basic education needed to advance in the modern world.
There are binary trans men who pass today who cannot walk/are permanently disabled by misogynistic practices in their youth.
There are binary trans men who pass today who will live in poverty forever because they were forced into marriages young
There are binary trans men who pass today who will never achieve their dreams because they were not allowed to play instruments or sport or early life skills that cannot be 'caught up' later in life
There are binary trans men who pass today who cannot have children because of reproductive violence
There are binary trans men who pass today who missed out on critical promotion years because they were forced to be wives/mothers
And this is not a #sadcore #never transition post, because all this stuff does not mean that you cannot live a happy and fufilling life, it does not mean that there isn't joy in transitioning or that the world is hopeless.
This idea that in order to be a happy man you must deny the role of misogyny in your life is such an insidious lie because it forces trans activists to either shove every single one of these men (plus all the ones who dont even pass/transition/know they're trans now) under the bus, or discourage young boys from transitioning.
Hint: Pretty much everyone chooses the 'lets throw these trans men under the bus and blot their brains out to the reality of transmasculinity' option.
Literally. Some of you heard this quote 'How many Einsteinâs have spent their lives washing dishes, how many Mozartâs bent over stoves instead of pianos, because they had the misfortune of being born a woman?' and said: But the moment you find out you're a man it can all go away!
Anyway this is getting long and disjointed but my point is basically summed up with: misogyny permanently alters your life path and there is not such thing as 'graduating' from the affects of systematic oppression
*the idea that half, let alone ALL transmascs have access to transition let alone transition to the point of 'passing', let alone all the complexities of stealthing is absurd in and of itself, but thats for another post.
yall know WHY most pictures of intersex genital variations you can find online or even in academic literature are babies? yall know why? because shortly after the photos are taken the intersex babies are cosmetically mutilated and then their genitals donât look intersex anymore. if doctors wanted to get ADULT intersex volunteers, with INFORMED CONSENT, to come in and document variations in genital structures, they wouldnât be able to. thatâs why these pictures are all of unconsenting BABIES. unaltered intersex people out there right now donât have any documentation on their own variations on other, ADULT bodies to compare to (and feel less alone by seeing) because doctors are literally doing cosmetic surgery on babies external reproductive organs. dude. insane.
edit: iâm just thinking about the research ethics and dude. like??? come on. genital variations should be something we allow to progress into adulthood (obviously excluding if there are actual structural pathologies that need surgical intervention, like hypospadia along with PAIS idfk) so we can actually learn how to provide accurate, anatomically accommodating medical care to intersex people. cuz yeah, (not a real stat) 90% of intersex people are given these surgeries at birth but those who arenât deserve to have their bodies understood by science and medicine. and the practice should be outlawed anyway, if intersex people want cosmetic surgery on their external organs (or even internal!) as adults, thatâs a decision they can make at 18. just like trans people. speaking as a intersex person myself.
Idk what trans man needs to hear this but you're NOT evil or disgusting for being a man. You do NOT have to suffer for the sins of the patriarchy committed by cis dudes. Being a man doesn't invalidate the misogyny you experienced growing up or experience now. Being a man doesn't mean you deserve to be isolated. Being a man doesn't mean you're inherently predatory or scary. You didn't "choose" this, and finding your true self is NOT "betraying the community" because you happen to be a man and/or masculine rather than a woman and/or feminine. You ARE allowed to be upset when people "affirm" your gender by malgendering you.
You DO deserve a community that uplifts you. You DO deserve to experience trans joy. You DO deserve to have your voices heard and your struggles recognized. Wanting the bare minimum of solidarity is NOT "making everything about trans men".
it does say something about the state of the queer community that no one really talks about or cares that since 1991 T has been a class III controlled substance in the united states. for decades now trans men and mascs have had our names tracked and traced if we were legally prescribed T. since before some of you were even born, the american govt has had a list of us.
you need to care about the trans men and mascs who have been on these lists for almost 30 years now. you need to care about more than the threat or concept of trans women and femmes being put on a list, because your brothers are already there.
Trans mascs are privileged under patriarchy and we should all be treated like cis men and have nothing to complain about because we're privileged evil masculine bad, naughty, yucky male, masculine, men type people, ew.
A bunch of us being mentally and/or physically disabled due to the extreme statistical rates of sexual and other violence our demographic face as children and teens under patriarchy is completely inconsequential to the discussion
The damage all that trauma does to our bodies, nervous systems, souls, etc is inconsequential, as are the impacts these things have had on our educations, our careers, our finances, out development and our general opportunities in the formative years of our lives.
Didn't you know? As soon as we identify as trans masc all that trauma, all the lost opportunities, all the scientifically verified negative outcomes on every aspect of people's lives which come about from those kinds of trauma are magically erased and replaced with Evil Bad Guy Man McMasculine McYuck (TM) cells.
Never mind if spending huge chunks if not all of the first 18-30+ years of your life being abused, mistreated, unsafe in society, targeted etc has left you physically and mentally disabled with a poor education, no finances, missed opportunities and an inability to work, all that gender based violence and harm in your formative years couldn't possibly have lasting impacts on your life which could be addressed and discussed under an intersectional feminist lense, idiot, what is that? Nuance and basic intersectionality? Fuck you.
You're a nasty yucky boy and girls rule while boys drool around these parts, Bucko. And no!! you don't deserve a word to describe, through an intersectional lense, these unique experiences as an oppressed gender under gender essentialist patriarchy, even if it was coined by a POC to aid BIPOC trans mascs in discussing the unique oppression they face as racialised trans people under white supremacist patriarchy.
Nuance and intersectionality are for good, pure of heart goddesses aligned with femininity only, this is a completely rational and normal analysis for trans people to have and the true spirit of transfeminism.
You're a transmisogynist if you question this.
Using trans men as a local punching bag in order to outlet your grievances with bad cis men does nothing for you by the way. The cis men who hurt you are still not being held accountable and all you're doing is driving away part of your own community.
Literally punching on people who have also been and often are being hurt by cis men too, also hurt by other trans people