Hello! Recently I discovered the alterhuman subculture and some of what I am reading resonates with me. I would like to, if you're comfortable with answering these questions, both get a better understanding of it as well as compare others experiences with my own.
Do you have any experiences that, in hindsight, made your identity as a Canadian Jay obvious?
What does being therian mean to you, how would you describe it?
Similarly, is being therian for you more of a total rejection of humanity, or an alternate way of being human? (Apologies if I phrased this poorly).
-- From, a... maybe parrot(?)
Hiya! Thank you for the ask, I'll do my best to answer your questions.
1. I think from my first exposure to Canada Jays, on a camping trip in ninth grade, I felt very connected to them. I would find excuses to sneak off from the group so I could spend time alone around them, and would give them bits of food from my backpack to lure them closer to me (I'm not condoning that, feeding wild birds is never a good idea). I remember finding them really cute and appealing, and I think there was a book I found at one point about the birds in the area, which I immediately went to locate Canada Jays in. Looking back, I think the then-indescribable draw I felt just looking at them was recognition, like I saw myself or an ideal self. I would pretend to be a bird a lot as a kid, too, and spent a lot of my childhood acting like I was a bird or like I could communicate with them.
2. To me, being a therian is about having an identity that involves perceiving oneself as a nonhuman animal, in any aspect. I think some beings would have a narrower definition, but I like to cast a wide net with it, because I believe that there are many ways to be a therian and we should welcome all of them. Of course, there are also otherhearted, otherlink, etc. beings, whose identities could be affected by a nonhuman animal without actually perceiving themselves as one. I think there are other labels I'm forgetting, it's been a little while since I've refreshed myself on the terms.
3. I believe that therianthropy can involve being human, but doesn't have to. Specifically, I think that humans are of course animals, and a therian can of course have multiple theriotypes/species. Therefore, if a therian identifies as both a nonhuman species and the human species simultaneously, they're still a therian (if they want to label themselves that way). Personally, I don't tend to use the human label for myself, but still identify alongside the human race and have no desire to reject the parts of my life and personality that are shaped by being born into a human body. Some therians say their body is not a human body, either because they're a biological therian or because they believe that something can only be called a human body if it belongs to a human, but I personally see myself as a nonhuman being inhabiting a human body and living a human life. It's different for everyone, of course.
I hope this helps you, anon! The way I see it, therianthropy is a label you can freely opt into and experiment with to see if it feels right. I've learned that the best way to see if a label is right for me is to start using it confidently for myself, and keep doing so until it feels wrong or inaccurate. The labels I stick with are the ones that stick with me. I wish you the best, and if you are a parrot, I'm really happy to know there's one more avian therian in the world :>