I saw some post that went something like "haha being gay and having homophobic parents is harder than being straight with homophobic parents because you dont have to be in the closet LMAO" and shit and ngl I seriously want to punch the little shit that posted it because it honestly sucks having homophobic parents either goddamn way.
I have several lgbtq+ friends and the thing about this is that I cannot say shit about them being gay or lesbian or bi or trans because then I get an ass whooping! Yall think straight kids have it any easier than you?? No, dudes, it ain't it.
And even more to this!! I'm not that into dresses or frilly things! I sit in a fuckton of positions on a chair and can somehow manage to crisscross on a school desk, but NOPE can't do that around my parents cause then I get sussed. Then the questions and interrogation comes in. "Why do you act so butchy?" "Stop sitting like a dyke" "What are you, lesbian?". And I swear to god every bit of my soul astra-projects into space when it happens.
Even if my friends friend's mom's brother were gay and my parents found out, I'd get fucked. If I wore clothes I feel comfy in I get fucked. It doesn't matter. No matter what, I never win.
By win I mean not get bomboarded and ass whooped.
So please for the love of god shut up about it. Seriously. If my parents were worse than they already are, I would've been undoubtedly shoved into the mound of kids and teens killed off or disowned because I didn't "seem" straight.
This is a goddamn psa.
“Shut you queers homophobia is just as inconvenient for ME a straight!!!1!”
What sort of a dumb bitch are you? Homophobia is not about you and it would be worse if you weren’t straight.J ust because you need homophobia to be about YOU doesn’t mean it is,
Take a long walk off a short pier.
Im taking the time to reblog because i just answered all of your shit on another post.
Ps. This was written on behalf of the fact that during my questioning years, a guy who I considered a friend up to that point just harrassed me for talking about my issues with my parents and said exactly what you said. After i talked to another friend about a bruise i had from my dad after he found out i made friends with a bisexual girl
So please just shut up and stop this.
Anyway youre a dumb bitch, fuck off and don't reply to me if you're gonna whine homophobia is just as bad for you as gay ppl. You can have a shitty family and realize homophobia is always more dangerous for actual gay people, like rub those 2 walnuts in your head long enough for an actual good thought on the matter.
Like stop what one reblog on your dumb as fuck post, you wouldn't even be a footnote in my day if you didn't decide to come reply.
Dude if you werent gonna try to see the meaning of my post then please leave and rethink your life and your response. My post is speaking about the many people who berate and harrass others for speaking out about homophobic/transphobic abuse by their parents. So many times have I spoken to someone I thought I could trust with my issues as someone who was questioning my identity to be met with degrading remarks like "stop whining" "its not that bad" "thats just them making observations". As if lecturing your daughter to not hang out with lgbtq+ girls bc "they might do something to you" for hours on end wasn't mental abuse. As if spending two years questioning if I was lesbian or bisexual because my parents would physically and mentally abuse me about my friends or my looks or style or interests that were unladylike or my manners wasn't harmful. As if beating up your daughter for "being a lesbian" and not wanting to birth children wasn't abuse. As if being told that boys who like dresses or wear earrings or nail polish were "that" in front of my male friends at my schools wasn't abuse. And later beating me up again because how could I be friends with boys. Or how could I enjoy a show with lgbtq+ characters and relationships.
And your response is repeating the same thing. The same response I get from the few times I have ever bothered to speak about my parents homophobia and transphobia and let out my anger and frustration and confusion because why did I have to be so different according to my parents? Why did I have to be born this way?
So I reccomend that before you half-assedly answer a post talking about actual child abuse and trauma and someones frustrations on why the world blames them for being so mad at it, take the time to realize that its people making fun of straight kids "whining" about fucking child abuse I'm speaking about.
Your post wasn't about speaking out for people with shit parents, it was bitching about a gay kid w shit parents talking about the f a c t that homophobic abuse is worse for gay kids.
Like you think it wouldn't have been worse for you if they caught you kissing a girl?
Do you really think that? Use your fucking head you dumb bitch.
Like in what manner do you think the gay kid who is being abused is wrong about homophobic abuse being worse for an actual gay kid like no shit it is, parents who hate girls are worse to girls, racist parents are worse to kids of color, though realistically less likely to have them, ablist parts are worse to disabled kids. Like bigot parents are always going to be worse to the group they're bigoted against even if they're shit to all their kids.
