Bisexual Rambles

Rants and rambles about the struggles of bisexuality. All asks will be published publicly unless you make a note to anwser privately. Admins:Noah: bisexual, he/himParker: bisexual, they/themMax: bisexual, he/him

[sorrynotsorrybi]

This is true for people who are attracted to multiple genders and have never had sex with more than one gender, or have never had sex with anyone. 

This is true for lesbians who used to date men, and gay men who used to date women. 

This is true for asexual people who have had sex, and asexual people who have never had sex. 

This is true for all people: your orientation is about attraction, not behavior.

<image is of a rainbow fan with the words, “your sexual orientation has nothing to do with your sexual history” in purple letters>

[yousuckleon]

@ people who think bisexuals have to “prove” their sexuality otherwise theyre faking it:

[bisexualrambles]

after being semi-active and being the main moderator of the blog going through everything, i’ve been able to catch up on asks and the ask box is wide open if anyone need help, advice, or just plain wants to talk bisexuality. i’m here for you all!

admin noah

[bisexualrambles]

So I came out to the guy I liked at the beginning of the year as bi, and then he told me after I came out that he is also bi. Now we are just two bis in love. We have been dating for five months now.

i’m so happy for you both! ❤️-admin noah

[bisexualrambles]

I find men and women equally attractive but I've never dated a girl, but am i still bi? Experimented, yes. I'm currently dating a great guy, our 4th anniversary is this year. I'm just worried that if I came out as bi now that no one would take me seriously because Im in a relationship with a guy and havent dated a girl. I only realized that I'm bi this past year. If you dont wanna answer I understand. I just dont know where to go for help.

sorry for the VERY long delay.

experience has no bearing on sexuality. most straight people know they’re straight before ever having any “experience”. if you want to come out, i totally support you! as long as you feel safe enough to do so. you are bi enough and we’re all here for you :)

-admin noah

[bisexualrambles]

Can you be bi but not sexually attracted to people but be physically attracted and romantically attracted to people? I'm Bi. I think. But i find people attractive, i can tell you if i find someone hot, but doesn't mean I wanna bone them you know? Is that a thing? I don't like sex, or want to have it but I can and have. Help? Aaha. I don't know.

it’s entirely possible to find people aesthetically attractive but not what to “bone” them. sounds like you may be on the ace-spectrum potentially but if you consider yourself bi and you like that label and it feels like it accurately describes the kinds of people that you like, either romantically or however, you can continue to use it! you don’t owe anyone an explanation on how you are attracted to people. i can’t tell you how you identify but if you’re looking at this blog and you feel a connection to the bisexual community and you like two or more genders, then by gosh! you may be a bisexual. the rest is up to you to decide :)

- admin noah

[strawberry-bi]

i hope the younger lgbt+ youth (12-16) on here knows that it’s okay to play with identities. it’s okay to try out a label for a month, decided it’s not for you, and then pick up another one. you aren’t “betraying your community”, you’re figuring yourself out at an age that- you know- you figure yourself out in! do what works for you. if you don’t like labels, ditch them! if a label resonates with you deeply, try playing around with it! it’s normal. don’t be afraid.

[gaywrites]

[color-palettes]

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[tomcats-and-tophats]

You can be bisexual and prefer women.

You can be bisexual and prefer men.

You can be bisexual and agender, genderfluid, and any other non-binary identity.

You can be bisexual and prefer partners with nb identities like yours.

You can be bisexual and unsure of what your gender is.

You can be bisexual and feel attraction to some genders like this and others like that.

You can be bisexual and feel no difference at all.

You can be bisexual and have no preference at all.

You can be bisexual and polyamorous, or bi and monogomous.

You can be bisexual and love sex, or want nothing to do with sex.

You can be bisexual and single. You can have never dated anyone.

You can be bisexual and young, or bisexual and old.

You can realize you’re bisexual at any age, with any partner.

Bisexual can look like anyone, bisexuality can be anyone’s life.

You’re allowed to be bi, you’re allowed to be yourself.

[genderqueerpositivity]

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LGBTQIA+ identities are not inherently indecent or inappropriate.

@staff

[bisexual-community]

The USA-based Human Rights Campaign is proud to celebrate the 20th Anniversary of Bisexual Pride Flag with the Bisexual+ Community around the world. What Do the Colours mean? ❤️ = from the colour of the infamous “Pink Triangles” represents same/similar sex attractions 💜 = where Pink & Blue overlap is a color gradient of different shades of Lavender/Purple representing the possibility of attraction anywhere along the entire gender spectrum 💙 = represents different sex attractions

[gaywrites]

Happy Bi Visibility Day/Celebrate Bisexuality Day! Fellow bi buds, I see you, I honor you, I love you. 

[spilled-feelings]

‘to be able to fall head over heels in love with someone, regardless of their gender, is a wonderful thing to me.’

- bisexual visibility day, @spilled-feelings

[big-queer-mood]

Happy bisexual visibility day!!!!!

I made a lockscreen to celebrate and decided to post it on here!!!!

~Mod Pau💖💜💙

[profeminist]

West Hollywood will host the US’ first city-wide Bisexual Pride

'Short of carrying bi flags around all day, to be visibly bi we’d have to walk hand in hand with at least two people who aren’t the same sex.'

TOMORROW SEPTEMBER 22! 

“As we’re getting closer to Bi Visibility Day, West Hollywood, Los Angeles, will hold the first Bi Pride in the US.The event will take place on 22 September, the day before the annual Bi Visibility Day.

While ‘other cities have done Bi Pride proclamations’, the organizers believe ‘this is the first full-fledged Bi Pride Celebration held by any city in the US’.

The event will take place in the Auditorium in West Hollywood Park.

1:30pm Rally

2pm Bi Visibility Walk

3pm Party featuring

6pm After Party

Singer Torrey Mercer will perform her new single Boys/Girls.”

Read the full piece here

GO WEHO GO!!! 

BI / PAN PRIDE AND VISIBILITY NOT ERASURE!!!

I lived in West Hollywood from ‘97 - 2000, including working at a LGBTQ dance club, and while the area has changed a lot, I love the community there and it will always have a special place in my heart! 

[profeminist]

Happy L.A. Bi Pride Day!!!

I am SO jealous, if I could be in L.A. today I’d be there in a second

[bi-trans-alliance]

April 19 is #GiveOUTDay! Please consider donating to bi and trans orgs!

[bi-trans-alliance]

Now that #GiveOUTDay is over, here’s where to find out more about the orgs listed in previous posts: 

#StillBisexual

Bisexual Resource Center

Bisexual Organizing Project

Trans Lifeline

Transgender Law Center / Black LGBTQ+ Migrant Project

National Center for Transgender Equality