assbutt-in-the-garrison:
"I’m gay" NO NO I BOY AND YOU GIRL AND WHEN I SAY JUMP YOU SAY HOW HIGH
"the polite thing to do is say yes"
hello rape culture
when something like this happens you should just block the person. Problem solved.
I should clarify, when I say “block” i mean burry them in a block of cement, throw it in the ocean, and let their eternally petrified corpse provide the beginnings of a reef for some young fish because that is the most good that is ever going to come from this pitiful mass of flesh.
^^^^^^^^^
But yo the steps of entitlement in this dudes behavior.
Step 1) Remove Agency: Notice he went behind someone’s back to get her number, not even concerned that, she probably didn’t even what to give him her number in the first place. But that would mean addressing her and acknowledging her agency, to ask for her permission to get her number, he didn’t do that. He took the backdoor, so that there was no way she could of turned him down.
Step 2) Invalidate Consent: After she originally says no, he asks you got a boyfriend? Because clearly that’s all that matters is another man’s consent over his “property” not the person they are actually asking out. Her consent does not matter.
Step 3) Persuasion by Guilt: He believes that she can in no way not be interested in him, she must be confused and her being confused is rude. She knows the position she is supposed to be playing, why isn’t she going along with the program. Rudeness is not polite, she should know better.
Step 4) Give Her A Title: I’m sorry Babe….yeah she is not his babe, he’s not concerned about how she feels about him, just his feelings for her. His infatuation with her is all that matters, in his mind she will eventually be his “babe” why not start calling her that now. Him calling her babe is a nice gesture, how could she not want to be his.
Step 5) Tantrum: He is angry, because she chose wrong! When he asked her out she should of gave him a definite yes! She can’t say no to him! He chose her to be his babe, there is nothing else that matters. Anger fixes everything.
Step 6) Rectification: Everything is just a procedure, a mindless sequence that will give him what he wants. She must be broken, she will be fixed, and he will try again. She made a mistake, and will correct herself.
