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I donāt like small talk, we gon get deep or not?
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Wish more women was like this.
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C:Ā I had to cut off my own older sister because she is extremely toxic and doesnāt care. The majority of my childhood trauma and emotional abuse comes from her but she hides behind the whole strong black woman trope. She doesnāt just have that issue with me either. The majority of her friends have distanced themselves from her and the one that does stick around keeps her at arms length. She also seems to run into the same issue in every relationship sheās had yet she continues to think everyone around her is just weak for not dealing with her bullshit. Her own son loses his patience as he continues to grow and be surrounded by her toxicity 24/7. She refuses to acknowledge that she may be the issue and my patience has run out. Im done.
Confession: I love children. Spending time with my nieces and nephews is one of the best feelings in the world. They look at me and even with all my flaws they see someone they want to be like. Lately, however, Iāve been thinking more and more about getting a vasectomy. I even wake up praying that Iām sterile. That my second most used prayer, after not wanting waking up at all.
C: As a dude thatās been sexually assaulted, none of yāall say shit about Terry Crews. Seriously, shut the fuck up about this āhe should have fought backā nonsense. If he fought back, him being arrested and blacklisted (ie, never being able to provide for his family ever again) would be the BEST case scenario, worst case scenario, he gets shot by a cop. Unless youāve been in that situation before, donāt say a word. cuz youāve got no clue what weāve been through.
And also, can more of the brothas start talking about this??? ESPECIALLY when the assailant is a woman? I feel like we donāt talk about this nearly enough. Like, watching dudes I know talk about Terry just lets me know whoād make fun of me for being sexually harassed DAILY by a girl I knew in school. And donāt even get me started on how I see sistas joking about this and calling the man weak. Like, if big ass Terry Crews doesnāt fight back, shouldnāt that tell you something about sexual assault and how it works on a psychological level? Heās TERRY CREWS! he could have flattened that dude. but he didnāt. cuz he knew what would happen to him if he did. and donāt even fix your mouth to say heās weak, cuz he went public later, even though he KNEW yāall would call him weak for this. He stronger than most of us here.
C: I see now how my relationship with my family encourages (and possibly led to) my misogynistic attitudes. My dad wasnāt really around growing up since he and my mom divorced before I was born, making me the only male in the house. And even though Iām the youngest (with two older sisters) just because Iām a male Iāve always been expected to be the strongest and be on top of it all the time. Iām expected to be able to do and be everything regardless of the situation, basically be a paragon of masculinity, even though Iāve never been that masculine of a guy.
My mom has always been a lot more understanding being my mom and all, but with my sisters theyāve always had a kind of āwhatās the point of you being a man and existing if you canāt do anything and everythingā attitude and that might be part of why Iām so insecure and angry towards women. Even though Iāve been told I was dateable I feel like no one could possibly want me because Iām not uber masculine physically (short, chubby, small dick) or with my interests. It doesnāt help that I see this same sentiment echoed by women I follow on instagram, mostly strippers and bartenders.
C: One thing I will never understand is how my fellow black men can hear black women speak on the grievous wrongs that weāve done to them and the only words they can think of is āNot all black menā.
I mean, do we not hear ourselves? Do we not hear who we sound like? We sound like every white liberal when someone speaks on police brutality. We sound like every white person in general who gets in their feelings when one of us speaks about racism. When someone comes to us, making a point to defend a member of the oppressing group while we are speaking about the things they have collectively done to harm us, we get angry and rightfully so. But let us Black men be on the receiving end of it from Black women and suddenly its about hurt feelings
No, its not everyone of the group. Yes, there are Black men out there who are genuine kind and thoughtful. But its enough of us that itās a problem and the problem will never get solved if it is not talked about. If weāre going to expect that nonblack people get out of their feelings and listen when we confront them with their racism, shouldnāt we do the same?
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C:Ā I broke up with my girlfriend of 5yrs because she forgot my birthday 3yrs in a row. Am I petty? Or justified?
C: I hate how being in AmeriKKKa instantly means that you're going to suffer from things out of your control every single day. And, if you have African heritage and know of your heritage, your merely swept under the rug by society. I hate being seen as the enemy. I had been racially profiled this week. And, I now know how that feels. I still can't wait to escape and experience the world at large. I also hate the stereotype that black men aren't able to show their emotions in society.
C: I am one few gay dark-skinned afro-latinx men at my predominantly white college and I am feeling hella lonely/inadequate. Ā I just turned 19 this weekend. Iām pretty bad at talking to men that I find cute/being direct with them. Iāve hooked up with a lot of guys here and they end up Ā curving me/rejecting me/tossing me to the side like a piece of meat. The queer white men here are crusty and the queer black/men of color are pretty wack and donāt really acknowledge my existence. Most of my close personal friends have left/will be leaving the school so I donāt have a complete support system. And I am super jealous of my best friend. Heās a super hot queer black man who goes to another PWI but has hella black people at his school and gets way more attention from men because heās way cuter and more charismatic. I always compare myself to him and itās really bad but itās hard not to when he gets so much love from everyone. Iāve been suicidal in middle school, and have had some self-hating thoughts return to my life. Itās been a struggle and a half to keep loving myself in this place and remind myself that Iām worthy of love when I feel like Iāve been kinda pushed aside ya know. Any advice? Tips for loving yourself? i need help.
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C: Iāve come to realize that I donāt want to be a burden like my grandma was to me and sister to whatever children I have. If I were to become lazy and stubborn like her I would want my kids to take me out.
C:Ā Itās hard when youāre Black and pagan. Like, most of the Black people I know are devout Christians. They legit donāt understand what I go through. And I donāt tell them, because why should I? They think Yoruba traditions like Voodoo and Santeria are ādevil worship.ā Rhey think afrocentric spiritualism is ādumb faux woke hippie shitā even though itās literally something thatās so complex it can and should be formally studied, and they seriously think that Black Christians are going extinct. Like, I literally canāt tell anyone that my entire family sees spirits because I will lose the respect of all my classmates and professors, but sure, go on and tell me all about how āhardā it is to be Christian on a historically Presbyterian campus where most students and faculty are either Christian or ex-Christian agnostics š.
C:Ā Iām scared of black women. There, I said it. I want to love a black woman, but I feel Iāll never be accepted.
C: I hate how the youth of today and tomorrow will have to be exposed to the atrocity that is systematic oppression and institutional racism on a daily basis while living in this country. Itās a shame that I had to be racially profiled this week due to my own ignorance and carelessness, but, I loathe the constant struggle that we as a minority group have to deal with on a daily basis. Iāve only been around for 18 years and feel as though Iāve seen enough of this island to know that itās always going to be the way it is long after Iām far away from it. Itās a shame that Iām seen as a constant threat or something to be feared when in all realistic truths Iām a young man still growing into myself. Society does force us to grow up early due to fear based media churning out constant filth of my people being the ones that destroyed this country when in all reality we want to live in peace amongst everyone else. It hurts to see racism in the streets after the first black president was running this place in the best possible way with and without constant supervision by the ever watchful eyes of Jim Crow and Racists all across the island. When the nuclear bombs reach where I live, I can only imagine where Iāll be residing whence they do reach me. Iāll be somewhere safe enjoying my life watching this crazy place destroy itself and itās citizens. I hate this year politically and want true change to occur much like the change in Le Canada.