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Ruskin Spear (British, 1911 - 1990)

there is a demon inside me who adds exclamation points to all my emails

I NEED the Benoit Blanc cinematic universe I need 50 more movies of this funky little detective solving crimes and screwing over rich assholes in his funky little outfits. Please.

sproutlett

i’m realizing that i have so much time. i have time to grow my hair long. i have time to cut it all off and then to grow it back again. i have time to discover new hobbies and give up on things that no longer serve me. i have time to grow and change and travel and change my opinions and live differently than how i am now. i have so much time. take a deep breath and slow down

librarycard

there is no justice in this world for girls who don’t want to get up but have to

langernameohnebedeutung

how come every day lasts ten years but every week lasts 3 seconds but every month lasts either two days or an eternity and then it's a new year and now it's November

catasters

spitblossoms

haven’t been on here in years but considering the mess twitter is becoming.. i’m gonna give tumblr another try :))

#:)

catasters

dumb-of-ass-pure-of-heart

helperhoopoe

remember to cry for help without guilt-tripping. i know it feels like you’ve been abandoned and betrayed, but it’s probably not true, and it’s not okay to accuse the people around you of something they might not have done.

“i guess none of you like me” could be better phrased as “i feel unloved right now”

“but nobody cares anyway” could be better phrased as “i feel insignificant and i need reassurance”

rather than assuming others’ feelings, give them time to explain them. you’ll usually get a much better answer.

randomslasher

This is really important for future predictions, too. “You’re eventually going to leave me” is impossible for someone else to disprove without just sticking around forever, but no one wants to stick around when they’re being constantly accused of future abandonment. Giving someone no choice but to either stay with you forever in order to prove you wrong or leave you and prove you right is incredibly emotionally manipulative, whether you mean it to be or not.

“I get scared sometimes because I’m afraid of being alone again” is easier to address and doesn’t leave your partner(s)/friend(s) feeling as though they’re being preemptively accused of something.