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Hi! I'm Carmen! This is my reblog and art blog. Check the navigation for tags :)

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Aaaannnndddd GO!!! Don't be scared to offend, I'll probably cackle until my eyes water and my sides hurt. This is gonna be fun!

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Hufflepuff Girl INFP Gloomy Day Enthusiast

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‘tender hearts’

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I’m always trying my hardest not to pick myself apart

Olivia O'Brien – Empty

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INFP Thing: It’s The Little Things

As an INFP, I feel that many many times, I am the one that spend most of her time, her heart and her soul giving. It’s true, I wouldn’t have it any other way. I like the way I am, but sometimes it does get tiring when it is always coming from one side and you are the one giving all the time. Then I personally get my feelings hurt when someone doesn’t show me the same consideration as I did to them. Though I know I consider, think and care too much at times. 

But, when someone shows me the same consideration and kindness, or like takes care of me in some way little way, I just melt and that person has my respect and sometimes my heart. For example, I have an ENFJ friend, that instead of making me drive all the time, she drives. I know that sounds so trivial, but she knows I usually do the driving for others so she wants me to be able to just relax and takes the burden off. Or my friend that took notice when I said my hands were cold, so he took them and warmed them for me. Or the one that buys me pumpkin things because I am obsessed with pumpkin stuff, so anytime she sees pumpkin spice coffee syrup or pumpkin pie or anything like that, she picks it up for me because she knows it will just make me happy. For me, it never takes much. I don’t need the most expensive things, nor the biggest flashiest new device/car/toy. All I want is to know that in the end, you have heart, caring and compassion for me. That, in a way, that person was willing to put me first and care enough to do something that took a little more thought and effort. It is the greatest feeling in the world. I don’t like to be catered to or given special treatment. I don’t expect it either and it actually makes me uncomfortable. That isn’t my lot in life, to be served or put up on high in anything. Rather show me respect and heart that you would treat yourself. That shows me more than anything who you are and the color of your soul. 

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INFPs When They’re Done

It takes a lot to truly piss off an INFP. They’re slow to anger and usually willing to give others the benefit of the doubt and be understanding. But when the INFP has had enough, they don’t hesitate to put their foot down.

The moment they decide to cut someone from their lives, they begin detaching immediately. They don’t waste time by dwelling in the past or ruminating over everything. They don’t give themselves the chance to second guess what they’re about to do. They just act.

Powerful speeches about how badly the person fucked up are delivered. Then numbers are deleted. Social media accounts are blocked. Pictures and gifts are thrown out. Everything they had that was associated with the individual is gone within an hour and all the bridges are burned so that all they’re left with are the memories. And gradually, some of those become suppressed. Others just forgotten, as they find new things to fill the empty space with until they can feel whole and normal again.

So if an INFP acts this way, just know that whoever it’s about must be a truly toxic person. The INFP chooses to see the good in everyone and help others, even if they think they’re unworthy of it. For an INFP to come to this point and bail out anyway speaks volumes.

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MBTI Stereotypes VS the Types in Real Life

Stereotype ENTJ: Dominant. Efficient. Strategic and ideal leaders.

Real ENTJ: One of the few people able to actually physically frown, don’t understand how they’re “scary”

Stereotype INTJ: Evil masterminds. Smarter than you. Are the superior beings.

Real INTJ: Misplaces anything that isn’t physically attached to them, no longer able to recognize when they’re being sarcastic or serious

Stereotype ENTP: Quickest thinkers you’ll ever meet. Witty. Intellectual masters of debate.

Real ENTP: Used memes so much that they became one and are accepting of this fact, catchphrase is some version of “Well, actually–”

Stereotype INTP: In possession of more knowledge than the Internet. Reclusive geniuses. Know all, are humble.

Real INTP: Sexually attracted to science, volunteer plethora of useless facts every hour, zero spatial and social awareness

Stereotype ENFJ: Kind. Loving. Hearts of gold and wills of steel.

Real ENFJ: Will replace your mother and be okay with that, judge being judgemental of judging judgemental judgments

Stereotype INFJ: Mysterious and tricky to get to know. More unique than anyone you’ve ever met.

Real INFJ: One way or another, embarrass themselves every single day, somehow, consistently

Stereotype ENFP: Full of life and love. Passionate lover. Always fighting for a cause.

Real ENFP: Blink abnormally fast and probably should not drink coffee ever, have to make conscious effort to not smile, should take more things more seriously

Stereotype INFP: Gifted with emotional intelligence. Spiritual and believes in the soul, the natural course of the world, and love.

Real INFP: Really good at laughing at themselves which is necessary because they f*ck up constantly

Stereotype ESTJ: Intelligent. Dependable. Productive and competent. Forward-thinkers.

Real ESTJ: Remind teachers about homework distribution and collection every single day of the week, get off on educational videos

Stereotype ISTJ: Rule-followers. Responsible. Duty drives their perfection.

Real ISTJ: Sometimes sleep over 12 cumulative hours in a day

Stereotype ESTP: Daredevil. Live life on the edge. Famous and popular.

Real ESTP: 100% of decision-making is weighing the pros, ignoring the cons, and shrugging, then doing whatever stupid thing they got dared to do

Stereotype ISTP: Cool as hell. Detached and indifferent. Smart tinkerers.

Real ISTP: Won “Most Stubborn and Silent” for Senior Superlative page in high school yearbook

Stereotype ESFJ: Genuine and affectionate. Would take care of a sick stranger if needed. Make friends everywhere they go.

Real ESFJ: Value self-worth based on quality of and feedback for homemade baked goods, the holiday season is their life source

Stereotype ISFJ: Sweet. Innocent. Fragile and caring hearts who love their friends.

Real ISFJ: Hate conflict so much that they get second-hand anxiety from watching cliché emotional plot twist movies

Stereotype ESFP: Epitome of style and fashion. Impossibly cool. At every party and loved by everyone.

Real ESFP: Physically CANNOT stop making noises and fidgeting, all storage on their phones is taken up by hundreds of selfies in various poses

Stereotype ISFP: Exceptional artists. Emotionally deep. Humanitarians and always helping the planet.

Real ISFP: Just want to become trees, don’t get why people can’t just love one another, f*cking hippies

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Infp af 😂😂😂

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Hello, it's been forever! Have some Mirai Kuriyama before bed ❤ #miraikuriyama #kyokainokanata #kyoukainokanata #beyondtheboundary #koiwatercolors #watercolor #doodle #latenightdoodles

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Work in progress of this sketch I started inspired by the 3 of swords #charcoal #workinprogess #3ofswords #heart

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Haven't done anything for #inktober this move has sucked in a way because of the timing. Also no digital art bc my power supply needs to be replaced 😭 #zebrabrushpens #pentelaquashwaterbrush #cansonmultimedia

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#inktober #day4 Underwater I'm in the middle of moving so I've already missed 3 days 😭😭😭

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You know how 1st world feminists get told that they don’t need feminism? They’re told that they should be glad they’re not “really oppressed” like the women in 3rd world countries. That things could always be worse.

You know what my mother tells me? She says I don’t need feminism because I should be glad I’m born in an urban city of Pakistan. She says, at least I wasn’t born in a rural area where girls are married off to men twice their age. That things could always be worse.

And our house maid, Shabana, who was married to her uncle at 15 and, at 18, has 2 children, she doesn’t even know what feminism is. She was told by her father that she should be glad her husband doesn’t beat her and hasn’t thrown tehzaab (acid) at her. That things could always be worse.

Am I the only one seeing a very disturbing pattern here?

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Decided to also color this old doodle of Opal #stevenuniverse #opal #crystalgems #fusion #pearl #amethyst #koiwatercolors #ballpointpen

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Wanted to color an old doodle of sardonyx from Steven Universe #sardonyx #stevenuniverse #koiwatercolors #ballpointpen #doodle

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I like the effect of the watercolor pencils 😊 #koiwatercolors #kimberlywatercolorpencils #generalswatercolorpencils #cansonmultimedia