You keep acting like you “never called me out” or “never involved yourself,” when you were one of the very first people publicly engaging with posts about me and supporting narratives about a situation you did not fully know.
And let’s stop pretending there was confusion about who those posts were about.
Daisy admitted in writing that the original posts were about me and others involved. I have that. You knew exactly what was being discussed, and you still chose to engage publicly instead of stepping back or taking your own posts down.
So please stop with the “I didn’t know” and “I never said her name” defense, especially when you very recently made a post using my name repeatedly yourself.
At the time, I stayed quiet.
I tried to handle things privately. I was not trying to create community discourse, “cancel” anyone, or start public fights. I repeatedly asked for respect, for boundaries to be acknowledged, and for harmful posts to be taken down.
Instead, I got publicly dissected for finally speaking up about someone hurting me and ignoring my boundaries.
I’m the one who ended up banned from events across the country while the people involved continue attending freely.
So explain that logic to me.
Do you genuinely think it was acceptable for someone’s partner to publicly and falsely accuse me of sexual assault online and refuse to remove it?
That is not “accountability.”
That is an extremely serious accusation to weaponize against someone because you are angry at them for speaking up.
Sexual assault is not fandom discourse. It is not a Tumblr clapback. It is not a social strategy.
I know exactly how serious it is because I survived it myself when I was younger, and later became a date rape counselor in college. I have always taken these issues seriously, and I will continue protecting people and speaking about boundaries regardless of how many people try to twist that into something ugly.
Let’s get back to the core issue:
My boundaries were ignored.
Stop pretending that me acknowledging what happened to me is somehow worse than the actual behavior itself.
And honestly, I’m getting real tired of the constant bringing up of this shit through vague-posts, commentary, “not about anyone 👀” posts, and indirect jabs.
If you genuinely think you’re taking the high road here, then act like an adult and approach me privately instead of constantly feeding public discourse while pretending you’re above it.
I never came after you personally.
I never did anything to you.
And since people keep conveniently leaving this part out:
I did take this situation to court.
The judge explicitly stated that the evidence favored me, not them, and even suggested that I could pursue defamation claims in court over what was said publicly about me.
But I am also not opposed to protecting my rights, my privacy, and my reputation if people insist on continuing this behavior.
You don’t actually know me.
You’ve never spoken to me privately.
You’ve never asked me for my side of anything.
And honestly, that’s the unfortunate part in all of this.
Because outside of defending myself when I feel intentionally wronged, I have always been one of the most inclusive, supportive, and approachable people in this community. That’s why SEVENTEEN people asked to session with me at Bella Bash. How many asked you?
You cannot spend months indirectly commenting on people, fueling discourse, and feeding narratives, then suddenly clutch your pearls when someone finally answers back.
The rules do not magically change depending on whose clique is speaking.
And the part none of you seem willing to actually address is this:
When exactly are any of you going to address the actual injury?
The fact that I repeatedly said I was hurt?
Because all I keep seeing is people trying to discredit the person speaking instead of confronting the behavior being spoken about.
I’m done talking about this after this post.
I said what I needed to say. I defended myself. I clarified the facts. I stood up for myself after staying quiet far longer than I should have.
And the part that continues to be wild to me is that I’m actually the one with evidence.
Funny how that keeps getting ignored because it’s inconvenient.
Everybody knows there is actual evidence behind what I’m saying, which is exactly why the response has mostly turned into vague-posting, narrative-spinning, and clique behavior instead of directly addressing the facts.
So if people continue dragging this out, taking shots, or trying to reignite discourse after this, that is on them, not me.
At that point, you are choosing to continue this.
The support I’ve received speaks for itself, and most people outside the same small little grooming clique can clearly see what this has turned into.
Because I’ve tried very hard to handle this calmly and reasonably, and I would strongly recommend not pushing me into full bitch mode over people who never should’ve involved themselves in the first place.
#the tickle mafia hates losing control of the narrative
#you do not get to publicly involve yourself and then pretend you were neutral later
#consent and boundaries should still matter when the popular people are involved
#stop calling it education when it’s just socially acceptable dogpiling
#being hurt by someone is not the same thing as “starting drama”
#the clique always tells on itself eventually
#if your version of accountability only goes one direction people notice
#you cannot preach safety while punishing people for speaking up
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