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i am new here, trying to figure things out | studyblr | lgbt stuff | trying not to post depressed stuff ... oh |

[eyeofscottie]

[blueberrymuffin595]

Haven't seen the sun for two weeks and i'm so glad about the weather now because the cloudy sky has affected my mood so damn hard

[blueberrymuffin595]

What does a panic attack feel like? I dont know if I have those, but I couldnt explain what else this would be

[catchymemes]

[blueberrymuffin595]

What the fuck

[phoebe-does]

a piece of advice my dad gave me and I’ve never forgotten is, “if you won’t worry about it in 4 months, don’t worry about it now.” saved me countless times, it’s a philosophy to adopt and help improve your life. Failed a test? ask yourself if you’ll think about this still in 4 months? Made a fool of yourself in public? I doubt even the people who saw it will remember it past today. Know you could have done better? Ran further? don’t beat yourself up over it, you can do better tomorrow. Don’t overthink things, a lot of negatives matter less than you think they do.

[zabije]

person: do you have tumblr?

me: yes

person: whats your url?

me: no

[surviveschool]

Anxious about your first day? Just remember:

“I’ve done this before.” You can do it again.

“I’m not alone.” Everybody is nervous, even if they don’t look like it. They probably aren’t paying attention to you or your outfit more than they’re paying attention to themselves.

“I can turn over a new leaf.” This is your opportunity to get a new start. How exciting!

“I am going to make it.” It’s only one day out of many. This is not a make-or-break moment.

“I am capable.” You’ve already lived through your worst day. This won’t touch it.

“I am in charge.” If you need to go to the bathroom to have a moment, you can go to the bathroom. If you need a drink of water so you can focus on some physical sensations, you can do that.

“There is a place for me.” Statistically, it is likely that someone in your school is like you. And it’s even easier to find a physical place where you can be alone or be accepted (library corner, anyone?).

“This all is temporary.” You will be going home in a few hours, and the next day will hopefully be better if your first day doesn’t go well.

[invertedgender]

Men are using a powerful hashtag to fight back against emotional abuse

According to NCADV, 4 in 10 people have experienced some kind of coercive control from an intimate partner. Sadly, #MaybeSheDoesntHitYou is raising much-needed awareness for a widespread problem.

[faded-doll-hi]

This is disgusting. It really is. I hope that people gain awareness of this issue and their own situation and I really hope that we all find better.

[acruelgentleman-deactivated2018]

I appreciate the hell out of the women reblogging this. As a survivor of such emotional abuse, I know it’s vital for men to step forward and talk about their experiences. The old “man up” narrative needs to die. 

[accidental-muse]

^^^

[foxyshadow]

Absolutely right. Abuse is abuse, no matter the gender

[blueberrymuffin595]

Posting this, hoping i'll never be a girl like this

(again)

[xpectations]

yeah you’re cute but will you lay in bed all day with me watching documentaries and conspiracy theories

[blueberrymuffin595]

I'd really love to take pictures of someone pretty but idk if whom.

[blueberrymuffin595]

It’s funny how my interest in cleaning my room and reading books increases when i should study for an exam

[homet0wn]

Are you in love?

No I’m in bed

[foggysuggestion]

some days, you’ll oversleep and be late to class or work, you’ll look like an absolute mess, you’ll fail your biggest exam of the year, you’ll drop your phone in a puddle outside, you’ll say the wrong thing at the wrong time, you’ll lose the person you thought was the love of your life. you’ll cry your eyes out and feel so completely hopeless because everything seems like it’s going wrong, but even on those days, you’ll have people that love you. and some days, that’s all that matters. and that’s okay.

[studyblr]

me: i love books so much, reading is my life

also me: *hasn’t finished a book in 4 months*

[blueberrymuffin595]

I found gay washi tape in rome

[lovelysuggestions]

You have survived every moment of your life, even the ones you swore you wouldn’t. This time is no different; you will last.