She is an AGGRESSIVE yet SUBMISSIVE woman… and no, that’s not a contradiction. It’s balance. It’s fire and softness coexisting in one body. She will absolutely dominate you if you give her nothing to follow. She’s confident. Intelligent. Independent. She knows how to take care of herself, so she’s never going to blindly hand over her trust or energy to a man who doesn’t deserve it.
But if you are RESPECTFUL, grounded, and MASCULINE in the way that creates safety not fear she will submit in the most powerful way. Not out of weakness, but out of trust. Because submission, for a strong woman, is a choice, not a default.
She needs a man who knows where he’s going. A man with direction, with presence, with consistency. She doesn’t respond to control, she responds to clarity. She’s not impressed by power plays or ego. She wants connection. Emotional leadership. Mutual respect.
She will not follow a man who doesn’t value her mind, her heart, or her soul. She will not shrink just to make you feel big. But she will soften, she will let her guard down, and she will be the most nurturing, loyal, and gentle woman you’ve ever known... when you make her feel safe to be.
So no, it’s not difficult to understand. She doesn’t need a man to control her. She needs a man who knows how to lead her, without losing her in the process.
@calgonswifey
