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Validate yourself when no one else will

[a-bright-ray-of-sunshine]

You don't have to do it all right now. One small step forward is still moving forward, no matter how small it is.

[black-to-the-bones-deactivated2]

i’m the one that ran back to the start, because that’s who i am

[noctomania]

LOOK AT LOGAN HANDSOME PANTS

[wholesome-meme-directory]

please watch this with sound if you’re sad

[adhd-alien]

Me: Is done with the world after going clothing shopping

[softheartedsuggestion]

thank you for still existing today no matter how hard the journey has been or is

this is so kind thank you. same with you all

[sunlitsuggestions]

healing is worth it, you deserve to get better, you are brave for even considering it, I am so proud of you for waking up this morning 

[blueflowersandgreenstems]

Riding the Waves

The analogy that I'm treading water makes a lot of sense to me now. Its like I'm in the ocean, and all I can do is bob there and try to keep afloat, just riding the waves. At the beginning, when my boat left me stranded, the waves were so high, my head would go underwater and I felt like I was drowning. I would be able to get only a quick breath as the wave would go down before the next would hit and I would be under water again. But the waves started getting smaller and smaller, and even when they would hit me, it would be a splash in the face but I could still breathe. I wasn't swimming, but I was no longer drowning. Occasionally a big wave would come, and I would go under again but the wave would pass and there I would be again, bobbing in the ocean. Eventually I might start swimming, trying to get somewhere, and I might encounter bigger waves again when I do, but maybe I'll find another boat. If I do, I might avoid it, afraid of getting thrown overboard again. Even aboard the ship, the waves might get so big they make it aboard to hit me, but it won't be as bad as when i was alone in the water, with no support under my feet. It might just be my rescue, taking me back to land and keeping me above the waves.

[psychology-daily]

PsychologyDaily.com ➤ Therapy App ➤ Google Play: https://ift.tt/2Oplarb

[call-me-dj]

Trans women are women, trans men are men.

[werenotreallystrangers]

[anerdyfeminist]

Honestly, I need to set this to publish to MYSELF every. damn. day.

[wheresmybubble]

Tough times don’t represent how your life will always be.

Books - http://debbietung.com/books

[ladydrace]

This is not for you.

This is a post aimed at me and other people who constantly fall into guilt spirals over all the things they can’t do, and feel they should somehow magically be able to do anyway.

For me, and for the others, this is a gentle reminder:

- Posts asking for monetary donations are speaking to people who have money. Not your broke ass, still worrying how to buy food next month.

- Posts asking you to care about [extreme injustice of the day] are speaking to people who have energy to care. Not you, hanging onto your sanity by the fingernails. 

And, most importantly: posts telling you that you are horrible/cheap/awful/rude/unworthy/unlikable if you don’t pay/reblog/signal boost/care? Those posts can fucking die in a fire.

TL;DR: Posts asking for shit you are not physically or mentally able to give? 

THOSE POSTS ARE NOT FOR YOU. 

[funny-tik-toks]

[katsen13]

Oh my gosh I spent half an hour looking for this after the app refreshed in the background I’m so glad I found it again because I love Henry sooo much!

[boyplushie]

@dancinglifeboat

[pluto-is-real-deactivated202101]

This made me so happy wowww

[thepeacefulgarden]

[thepeacefulgarden]

[thegoodvybe]

[positivelypositive]

🌺

learn to find love...

... within yourself. while it's always great to make friends and be socially active, it can be somewhat difficult for some people to do. other times, friends can end up hurting you and forcing you to spend time alone every now and then.

for this reason and also for the sake of genuine emotional independence, it's imperative that we enjoy spending time with yourselves.

it doesn't always have to be weighted stuff like self-reflection and thinking about the path of your life. it can also be spending time on hobbies, watching a movie nobody else agreed to watch with you or reading a book.

think of it as your own time and value it. anything related to you is afterall, precious ✨

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

what works for others might not work for you, and that’s ok. you can get through this, in your own way. I believe in you.