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[floatingbook]

Habit shifts - List

- practical actions that can be taken to fight internalized misogyny

#1 - Stop shaving

#2 - Switch to the woman-made alternative

#3 - Sensible shoes

#4 - Embrace your period

#5 - Burn the bra

#6 - Let your inner “old spinster” shine

#7 - Look at your body

#8 - We are women

#9 - Praise the mustache

#10 - Food is not the enemy

#11 - Dump him

#12 - You too can kill god

#13 - No is a full sentence

#14 - Live make-up free

#15 - Be loud

#16 - Touch yourself

#17 - Do you need a partner?

#18 - Trim your nails

#19 - Name it.

#20 - Cultivate your strength.

#21 - Comfortable clothing.

#22 - The rules don’t matter.

#23 - Don’t apologise for existing.

Note that this list is permanently evolving, so you can check it periodically here to see the updates.

[bluemoonfem]

dude what I didn't even know ethel cain was transgendered until all of this

[sunfortune]

me reading 1984 in high school every time the main dude would give a description of the only female character: big brother just kill this clown

[sunfortune]

this post struck a nerve with the misogyny fandom

[fandoms-stole-my-soul]

If anyone would like to know exactly what winstons thoughts were when he saw Julia for the first time, I can give it to you. He saw her wearing a chasity belt (signifying that she had never had sex before) and he saw her as something to be defiled. One glance at her and he was so angry that he “could never have her” and that she would never give him the time of day because he was an old and ugly man. (She does give him the time of day later so he was mad over nothing). He is so mad that she is better and purer than he is (in his own words) that he describes exactly how he wants to rape and murder her. He describes in detail how he wants to strip her down, tie her to a pole, fill her full of arrows, rape her, and at the moment of his climax, slit her throat.

So yes, by the time the rats were put in front of his face I was damn well rooting for the rats.

[fillingupthecityskies-deactivat]

Winston isn’t meant to be a morally perfect Jesus-like character, he’s meant to represent an average man with thoughts and feelings that have been so horrifically distorted they are almost inhuman due to the nature of an oppressive state.

I’m not going to go into detail, but you’re missing the whole point about what the state says reality should be. Winston enjoys thinking the opposite as both an adrenaline rush and a coping mechanism. If the state says be orderly, do not have sex for pleasure, do not display emotion, be “Good”, then of course his fantasy is going to be radically depraved and full of rage (a strong emotion) and the most violent behavior he can dream of. It is the exact opposite of what is allowed.

[prophylexis-deactivated20201113]

Yeah as a rape survivor (and having previously been married to someone that expressed on multiple occasions a fantasy of murdering me in an “intimate way”) I’m gonna have to pass. If violent rape-murder is “going against the system” then I’m pro-system at that point. Plus if those are the thoughts of an “average man” then y'all need to be in camps.

I read & relatively enjoyed 1984. I’m still very much allowed to be outright disgusted at the way his thoughts about Julia are written & don’t need to make excuses to justify it. It added nothing to the point of the book. Just like the child sewer orgy in IT: those scenes added nothing to their respective plots except outlets for the author’s sexual depravity.

Women are not punching bags for men’s anger at the state. If you think his thoughts are “justifiable” under ANY circumstance please do me a favor & cease interacting with anything I post entirely. I too exist under an overbearing government & grew up in a puritanical religious household where sex & pleasure were taboo & yet I STILL have never fantasized about raping & killing anyone.

Men raped & murdered long before governments existed. If you think that’s a reasonable response to “the state” & not psychopathic misogyny you need therapy.

[venusdryad]

people will straight face say shit like “when men are repressed they naturally fantasize about raping and murdering women” and then turn around and say feminists demonize men

[aftonfamilyvalues]

i think long term relationships in your teens and early 20s is so damaging for girls. like i dont feel like these girls are really growing to be their own people but rather to accommodate their boyfriends plans and futures. they start giving up opportunities and changing plans in order to be near their boyfriends and keep that relationship going. they skip out on great colleges, chances to study abroad, great jobs, moves that would be better for them, all sorts of new experiences, just for a boy who would likely never do the same for her. its so stunting and its sad how often ive seen it happen

[bansheeandahunter-deactivated20]

False rape accusations are an anomaly.

True rape accusations are a norm.

You’re, quite literally, more likely to be killed by a comet than falsely accused of rape.

[raakellars]

Re-blog now, read later.

[lesbore]

“let’s normalise shaving in women” i am going to tear you apart limb to limb so you’re writhing in pain and feed you to ducks

[badmiffy]

“LETS NORMALISE SHAVING IN WOMEN”.??ARE YOU KIDDING ME????I DIDNT GET CALLED GORILLA GIRL IN YEAR 5 PE LESSONS JUST FOR SOME UGLY MOID TO ACT AS IF WOMEN SHAVING IS NOT “NORMALISED”. ITS FUCKING FORCED ON US YOU UNBELIEVABLY PATHETIC SEXIST LOSER. DIE DIE DIE

[exquisite-peculiarity]

how many tumblr followers do you have?

I'm new/blank blog

100>

100-300

300-500

500-700

700-1000

1000-3000

3000-5000

5000-10,000

more than 10,000 (?!?)

Voting ended onApr 2, 2023

My choices may be super unrepresentitive of the actual number of followers people have, cause I have no idea what is normal.

Please don't use this as a way to feel bad about yourself, no matter how the results go, because tumblr is just a place to have fun and look at silly posts, there is no clout here! Higher numbers will look inflated because the higher up I went, the more the category covers.

If you have multiple blogs, please vote for your highest follower count

Please reblog so we can get a representative sample size!

[bumblee-stumblee]

💖

[lesbore]

i am going to shoot myself

[is-this-really--life]

"I believe I am a man in a woman's body, for I fall in love with half a dozen pretty girls and I have never felt that for a man. "

-Louisa May Alcott

She only said this *because* she was a lesbian. Because at the time, love for women was only acceptable from a man.

[tobys-thoughts-deactivated20251]

Lesbians being the L in LGBT is a privilege

I respect lesbians and all and i think they very much deserve the rights that they have but i dont think that they should be included in LGBT and honestly should be included in the “+” instead. Lesbians never faced the same discrimination that gay men faced over the course of history and they STILL do not face the same amount of discrimination and not even in the same degree. Lets not forget bisexual erasure and transphobes- even poc! In my own opinion i think that it should be GBTQ+ and the plus includes lesbians and everyone elses identity.

Now i know im going to be getting reblogs and comments saying that lesbians are often sexualized in media and by men in general and i understand that and im very well aware of that but is that anywhere NEAR what other people have gone through? You are all forgetting that all- gay, bi, and trans people have been sexualized for multiple decades as well and being bisexual was considered slutty and for some people is STILL considered slutty. gay is self explanatory, lets not forget tumblr circa 2012. there is a whole FETISH for trans people. Lesbians have nothing special.

When have you ever heard of a lesbian being tortured and brutally murdered for being gay in history books or even the past 10 years? But you can definitely find that with every other identity.

I just think they get more credit than worthy of getting.

[she-is-ovarit]

I hate this place.

[dolleminas]

Looking at the age and uh yeah. Go read up on the history why the L is even the first letter there, kid. I'll give you a hint; it was because during the AIDS crisis lesbians were taking care of the gay men. So, in a show of solidarity they moved the L to the front.

Get off your phone and read a book or something. Also apologise to lesbians. Your elders paved the way for you so show them some respect, mmkay?

[mithliya]

When have you ever heard of a lesbian being tortured and brutally murdered for being gay in history books or even the past 10 years?

theres countless cases of this 💀

Love, Hate, and Homicide in the High Desert

When a lesbian couple was murdered on a remote trail in Moab, Utah, it reinforced one gruesome truth: for the LGBTQ+ community, the great ou

Trans Activist Convicted in Murders of Lesbian Couple and Their Son

Dana Rivers maintains her innocence, however.

Man and woman arrested for ‘vicious’ murders of young lesbian couple

Police in Mexico have arrested a man and a woman for the murders of a young lesbian couple who were tortured and dismembered. 

Lesbian Couple Murdered In Their Baltimore Home

A lesbian couple was found dead in their Northeast Baltimore home Wednesday evening. While authorities have not confirmed the cause of death

Sidney Loofe did not realize her 'date' Bailey Boswell had a boyfriend who fantasized about sex with two women, it is claimed

[ms-hells-bells]

there were/are few specific laws and BLATANTLY spoken discrimination towards lesbians for much of history because women already had no rights, their bases were covered already. like any other woman, lesbians would be (whether de facto or literal) sold off into a marriage and live a life of indentured servitude and motherhood, except with zero possibility that they could at least choose the cute farmer boy next door that they like or grow to hold genuine affection for one's chosen husband. if there was even an inkling that a woman was attracted to women, she hid it because that's how you get (further) beaten and (further) raped by your husband. how can you remove more rights from a group that already has no rights? lesbophobia is the unique intersection between homophobia and MISOGYNY. gay men were forced into straight marriages too, but they held all the power. they would go to brothels and hire men, or have male lovers on the side in secret, they would be the ones to make it a sexless marriage (or at least once a son had been born), while relatives and the rest of society blamed the women for no/too few children, or 'failing to please her husband', and they could usually divorce their wives on a whim. and most of all, they could CHOOSE to not get married (as long as they weren't higher class), and people would look at them a little strangely, but that's it. they were not PROPERTY, they were free (of course, i am talking about men as a whole class over the course of humanity. men of different groups have been enslaving each other since the dawn of time, and that would include gay men within those enslaved groups, but whatever a man faces, women face that AND female oppression).

both gay men and lesbians faced homophobic oppression, but in differing ways due to sex class. the nonsense op is spouting is what happens when the left devolves into complete lack of education regarding class based oppression, marxist analysis, and knowledge of what intersectionality REALLY means.

[thatsonemorbidcorvid]

Hey op, on behalf of bisexuals: fuck off with this homophobic lesbophobic misogynistic bullshit. Fuckwit.

[bluemoonfem]

url change!!!

butchguts ---> bluemoonfem

[opabiniawillreturn-deactivated2]

I regret to inform everyone that opabinia will have to return at a much later date. she is currently focused on other things in her life, and while she still holds radfem beliefs, she will not be active on Tumblr for an indefinite period of time.

for everyone who was wondering: I'm actually 16. I was about 13 when I started this account.

y'all have fun with this post :)

edit: yes this is real, I promise I haven't been hacked. I might respond to people regarding this post for a bit just because it's so sudden, but I am definitely gone

[opabiniawillreturn-deactivated2]

for everyone who's concerned about me: this hiatus isn't because I have anything bad happening in my life. I'm perfectly happy, healthy, and safe.

thank you for all the sweet messages, it means so much that y'all are so protective of me. radblr has helped me through so much over these past several years, and just crazy to believe that I got 8k followers on my little Tumblr blog.

please don't feel bad or guilty that I've been such a staple of radblr, I always enjoyed my time here.

the one thing I ask is that y'all protect other young radfems. if you see any inappropriate messages regarding my age after this point, please correct it. younger radfems need to see older women sticking up for them, it makes all the difference

[jackalopiel]

sixteen???????? woah.

good luck with everything while you’re gone :)

[owls-garden-deactivated20231123]

- revolutionises radblr irreversibly and wins the hearts of everyone on there

- doesn’t elaborate

- leaves

[maia-radfemdu-deactivated202507]

The MAIN radfem girly, the queen of it, the high priestess, the glue holding us together, the mother hen, the wise sorcerer, SHE is a baby???????

[bluemoonfem]

the only rad space i’ve been spending time in as of lately has been the dykery discord server so i kind of forgot that straight radfems exist UM

[roach000fister-remade-deactivat]

okie gyns do you consider yourselves:

gnc

masc

butch

gender conforming

Voting ended onFeb 15, 2023

and pls rb for a bigger sample size!! ^_^ ty <3

[roach000fister-remade-deactivat]

raddies, is not wearing makeup, high heels and not shaving enough to consider yourself gnc (appearance-wise)?

yup

naur

Voting ended onFeb 15, 2023

pls reblog for a bigger sample size i’m really curious to see what y’all think!!

[theoppositeofadults]

I see how this campaign has united many women from Muslim countries or Muslim communities in the West. All these stories are full of pain. We are trying to make the rest of the world understand that we are the women who have lived under sharia, the ones who know Islamic ideologies best and that we have the right to be afraid of all the brutalities we have suffered. I have the right to tell my story! - Masih Alinejad, Iranian women’s rights activist

[kronkk]

happy menstruation to all who are participating this week