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as a disabled person, you will constantly be asked to prove to abled people that youre disabled enough to get necessities, to get money to pay for medical bills and pills and wheelchairs, then you have to prove that youre still human enough to be treated like a person.
but i wanna ask, why do abled people get to decide who is and isnt disabled enough for alsomething? and why do they get to say disabled people arent human enough for basic necessities?
why do people see this as okay?
terrifying your own child into submission makes you an abuser.
watching your child cry and screaming at them to stop and invalidating their pain and reasons for crying makes you an abuser.
staring at your child in disgust and contempt after they displease you makes you an abuser.
threatening to your child to take away their basic resources if they don’t give you exactly what you want makes you an abuser.
forcing your child to feel ashamed for not living up to your ideals makes you an abuser.
using slurs, hateful names and insults on your own child without any regard to what it does to their mental health makes you an abuser.
forcing your child to chase impossible expectations and making them feel like they’re worthless for not achieving them makes you an abuser.
acting like your child is a burden and a waste of space and blaming their illness/disability/depression on it makes you an abuser.
behaving like your child will never amount to anything and isn’t worth any resources and nurturing makes you an abuser.
making your child feel like they’re never good enough makes you an abuser.
if your child’s heart is hurting because they know no matter what they do and how hard they try they will always be a failure in your eyes, you are an abuser.
if your child can’t look at themselves without self hatred because they had to look at themselves from your perspective and all they saw is disgust and hatred, you’re an abuser.
If your child is struggling to believe they have the right to live and to be cared and loved, if they can’t stop hearing your hateful voice putting them down and using their every action to prove they’re worthless, you’re an abuser.
If you watched your child in pain and assured them they deserved it, you’re an abuser.
If your child can’t love themselves from how badly you hated them, you’re an abuser.
shoutout to people with simultaneously great and terrible memories. like oh yeah i remember in perfect detail that random story you told about the banana costume from a year ago but all of novemeber? completely blank.
When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.
Haruki Murakami (via onlinecounsellingcollege)
Happy that at least good dogs have it good
2017 is gearing up to be a wild year of white nonsense.
I literally want to fuck everyone that is confusing to my brain right now because my brain is scrambled from being manipulated.
Each morning, I stand my body long against the mirror, look it straight up and down remember to smile at what I see. I look at it, scar to scar, worn and beaten by the world. how brave it is to still hold up firm along its spine. to not come apart. I look at it, all the good in front of me. still reflecting so much light. I tell myself what a mighty fine masterpiece you are. A ruby. A gem. You are lovely. You are lovely. You are lovely, all the same and even still.
t.bennett, thelightoffireflies | reflection (via thelightoffireflies)
You: Alt-Right
Me, an intellectual: A White Supremacist and Neo Nazi
My cousin’s new doggie Daisy, who is an absolute doll.
You deserve to never have to guess how much you mean to somebody
no other person on this planet was made for you, they were made for themselves. love is all about choices. no one is going to be perfect for you, and i think we need to stop raising everyone on the belief that someone out there, just one other person in the whole world, was “made for you” because it isn’t true. no one is made for you, besides you. other people belong to themselves. if you want to make it work with someone, it’s about hard work, understanding, compassion, communication, and choice
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