Why Trying To Be Good- Destroys You
Maybe the reason you feel lost is because youâve spent your whole life trying to become someone instead of simply being yourself
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Why Trying To Be Good- Destroys You
Maybe the reason you feel lost is because youâve spent your whole life trying to become someone instead of simply being yourself
https://facingmythoughts.com/why-trying-to-be-good-destroys-you/
The Market Did Exactly What I Expected â Without Me Sometimes the market proves your analysis right only after emotionally exhausting you enough to leave the trade behind.
Blog post below...
A trading range session where the analysis was correct, but fear, breakeven stops, and deteriorating execution kept me out of the real move.
Losing Day, Emotional Trading & Missed Moves â Dow Jones Trading Journal
A real Dow Jones trading journal showing how emotions, hesitation, and overanalysis can turn a clear trading day into a losing one.
Blog post here...
https://facingmythoughts.com/losing-day-emotional-trading-missed-moves-dow-jones-trading-journal/
Most traders think the market is randomâthese Dow Jones trading patterns break down Fibonacci, ABCD, and market structure to show how price actually moves and where real opportunities come from.
If youâre learning how to trade, this is the foundation most people skip.
Hereâs what youâll learn:
How Fibonacci levels actually work in real markets
What an ABCD pattern looks like on the Dow Jones
How to identify high-probability setups
Why most beginners get trapped by market structure
Read the full breakdown here:
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âDow Jones Intraday Trading Analysis | Market Structure & Volatilityâ
Dow Jones Intraday Trading Analysis is a structured approach to trading the Dow by observing real-time price action.
Learning to trade one day at a time
Learning to trade one day at a time!
Iâll Do It Tomorrow
This is the procrastinatorâs preferred phrase. Itâs used because we truly believe that we will do the thing we need to do tomorrow. Such asâŠ
ââIâll do it tomorrow because thereâs still timeââ
So, I got to thinking about this. Started experimenting with it. And turned it into a technique I am currently using. Itâs called the ââIâll do it tomorrow techniqueââ. And it works like thisâŠ
If I feel very sad or low at some point during the day or just plain hate somebody for something they did. And I donât want to feel like that. I stop and look at what Iâm feeling and say ââIâll feel like this tomorrow and then some. But now, Iâll just carry onââ
And what Iâve found was. I start feeling better. Because I acknowledge the feelings. I donât block them. But just differ them in the future i.e., tomorrow. And as any good procrastinator knowsâŠ
Tomorrow never comes!
I'll do it tomorrow is a technique that can help you get rid of bad feelings and anxieties.
Focusing on what you want? Why is it destroying you?
Focusing on what you want may not be what can move you forward. I know this may seem paradoxical and counterintuitive and go against everything that everyone is preaching. Single focus on one thing and one thing only where I have to have that thing is a hoax. Itâs something that people have made up when they could not put in words or otherwise explain how they got success.
Let me ask you this then⊠ââWhy do so many people who go to self-development seminars fail? I mean donât the teachers provide the same framework that helped them get rich or have a ââbetter lifeââ?Why donât they succeed?
And the reason is that they focus on it too much. They want it and they go out to get it. They try and try and try again and fail miserably. Why is that? Itâs because they want it too much! And when you want something too much you also have the fear in the back of your mind that it may not happen. You may be aware of that feeling sometimes but you push it away. Thinking that you shouldnât have it, that you should only focus on the result. ââYou should only focus on the resultââ is the most sought-after answer.
This is why people fail in relationships, in work, in business, and even in bed when you really want to have an orgasm, you donât, because you arrest the natural process by striving to have something which only happens if you let it happen naturally.
The best thing anyone can do is to go and do the thing that they want to do and accept any result that may come after putting in all this effort. Accept that maybe you may never get the thing you are pursuing. Now this is fear at its highest, because people will ask⊠but why go for it if I expect it to fail? To which I would say, you are not expecting to fail, you are just nottied to the result.
And when you are not tied to the result freedom happens. You shoot the hoop at exactly the right moment, you make the decision at exactly the right moment, you end the relationship at exactly the right moment and you move on with a lightness in your heart.
You know you have done all that is to be done and are content with it. If you can do this, you will be happy even if you fail at something. Because it is not the end of the world and it is not the end of you.
You can move on and change or correct course with a level head, and thinking is not affected by the setback. You will be able to continue where others canât, because you are now unaffected by your circumstances, by what happens or what comes your way. You know that you can always do something.
But if you still hold on to the result when you have a setback, you feel stuck, you feel the world is coming to an end and you cannot think of a way out. And that is how people remain stuck for many, many years. They just hold on and canât seem to let go. Please reconsider your grasp on the result of whatever you are doing and you will see, as I have, that life will get easier and easier until each day when you wake up you have happiness in your heart and enjoy your day.
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Focusing on what you want may not be what can move you forward. I know this may seem paradoxical and counterintuitive and go against everyth
Going Into The Darkness And Coming Out Into The Light
So, what do I mean by going into the darkness and coming out into the light? Well, I mean that you face your fears and you overcome them. By facing your fears, you will learn just how big of a grasp they have on you. You can think about them all you want and can make plans as much as you like but it will never change anything.
Facing your demons is the only way you will ever accomplish anything! I like that statement because everyone uses it, everyone intuitively knows and believes it is the truth. But the paradox is, almost nobody is willing to try it. They may be fed up with the fears or limitations they have. But then, after a few short days or sometimes weeks of trying to get out of it, or to conquer it, they give up.
It becomes too hard and too real at the same time. So, they quit. And then another period where they get fed up comes and they try again. And again, it becomes too real or too hard and they quit, and the cycle keeps repeating itself and no one ever gets anywhere. And then old age comes, and you see the futility of what you have done until now. And now⊠well now itâs too late to do something about it.
Against any popular belief there always comes a time when itâs too late to do anything about it. And when you reach that point, regret sets in, and your heart will be sorrowed. Because you know if you just kept at it eventually you would have gotten it. But you didnât!
Now this is the story of 80% of the population. That is a massive percentage and knowing it makes you think⊠ââIf I will regret this when I am old, why the h**l stop now? Why, if itâs hard, stop. If Iâll regret it, why stop?ââ
Well, the thing is⊠you think you have time. You think you have time to succeed at it. And if you fail now, maybe you try again later. This can be in anything. I once saw a lady saying she needs to stop letting people take advantage of her and she was over sixty. I always wanted a six-pack, but I never really went to the gym more than a couple of months each time. Thinking I have time. Now Iâm in my mid thirtyâs and still donât have a six-pack. And if I go on like this I may never will!
The point is you need to do it! And itâs going to be uncomfortable at first, it will hurt, it will feel the worst. But then it gets a little bit better and a little bit better and a little bit better and so on until you canât remember when you felt or looked like that. And that is moving through life in the top 20% of people. Life is not just to be survived. life is to be lived!
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Being brave is not a necessity it's a must because if you do not confront fears they will consume you. Even if you think their harmless they
Why do we not reach our goals and how to go about it! Little story with simple answer!
Why do we not reach our goals? That is the most asked question in the world. We ask ourselves that every day and we don't know what to do.
ââWhy Giving Your Best Keeps You Stuckââ
Why does having to have that goal push you away from it? This paradox keeps us stuck and in doubt. We cannot escape it or be friends with it!
Why does having to have that goal push you away from it? This paradox keeps us stuck and in doubt. We cannot escape it or be friends with it
''How To Choose To Be Happy''
Choosing to be happy is your superpower!
But why are you not using it?
You always choose to be happy or not. It is always your choice. But why do we choose not to be happy most of the time?
Do Ideas Make Our Lives Better?
What if the ideas in your head are keeping you stuck?
Do ideas make our lives better? That is a question of magnitude proportions. And 99.9 % of us fail to act on these ideas and we get stuck...
Why asking for help is a superpower!
Asking for help is the hardest thing we are called upon doing. Because we're all taught we should succeed on our own. But it shouldn't be li
Just A Little Tweak And Your Dreams Come True!
You don't need much to produce phenomenally big results
Just a little tweak and your dreams come true means that in life you don't need to make grand gestures to start something. Just start!
''The Need For Perfection And Our Habit Of Quitting''
On why the need for perfection helps us quit so often!
The need for perfection and our habit of quitting go hand in hand. So by trying to make it perfect. We perceive it as very difficult and we
Same Hardware But Different Software
Why you should never identify with fear and anxiety!
We have the same hardware but different software. In other words... the feelings we have, are not ''us''. They are the output of trauma.