The idea that *any* sexuality doesnāt include trans people is inherently transphobic. Straight? You can be into trans folk. Gay? You can be into trans folk. Bi? Pan? Both include trans people, because we arenāt some other entity that needs a special category for you to be into us. We are our genders.
^ All of this
Iāve had this question forever: are people attracted to genitals or gender? Like Iām pan and the way I explain it is that idc what genitals get me off. But my female straight friends say having a dick is a dealbreaker in the relationship, and wouldnāt be open to dating a trans person who didnāt fully transition down there.
Say a straight man loves pussy. Would a straight man sleep with a man who still has a vagina? Like if the ftm person still has a vagina, would they be turned on? If he is, then gender wouldnāt have anything to do with the attraction bc then he would be turned on by any gender that possesses a vagina.
Now say this guy likes doing anal with girls. Like every human on earth has a butthole (I hope) so if he likes anal so much, and only does it with girls, that makes him straight right? The genitals donāt have anything to do with attraction bc that āgenitalā could be on anyone and the guy would still only go for girls.
Iām confused. Sexuality is confusing.



















