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[pastel-petticoats]

The idea that *any* sexuality doesn’t include trans people is inherently transphobic. Straight? You can be into trans folk. Gay? You can be into trans folk. Bi? Pan? Both include trans people, because we aren’t some other entity that needs a special category for you to be into us. We are our genders.

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

^ All of this

[bornobsession]

I’ve had this question forever: are people attracted to genitals or gender? Like I’m pan and the way I explain it is that idc what genitals get me off. But my female straight friends say having a dick is a dealbreaker in the relationship, and wouldn’t be open to dating a trans person who didn’t fully transition down there.

Say a straight man loves pussy. Would a straight man sleep with a man who still has a vagina? Like if the ftm person still has a vagina, would they be turned on? If he is, then gender wouldn’t have anything to do with the attraction bc then he would be turned on by any gender that possesses a vagina.

Now say this guy likes doing anal with girls. Like every human on earth has a butthole (I hope) so if he likes anal so much, and only does it with girls, that makes him straight right? The genitals don’t have anything to do with attraction bc that “genital” could be on anyone and the guy would still only go for girls.

I’m confused. Sexuality is confusing.

[lieberts]

“even amidst the hatred and carnage, life is still worth living. it is possible for wonderful encounters and beautiful things to exist” ‒ hayao miyazaki

[adminzo]

man, that was heart-warming :3

both of them were masters and students

[bornobsession]

Also i guess im behind because I just found out basically half of 1n2d staff and cast started over on a new program, but I cant find eng subs literally anywhere :’( 

[kingtonberry]

Bakemono no Ko ( バケモノの子) | Dir. Mamoru Hosoda 2015

“Maybe Kumatetsu has warmed up to his sincere disciple.”

[spiritgungawd]

I’ll be the sword in your heart

[bornobsession]

An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works

“Unspoken feelings finally spill over. Monty struggles with overcoming bad habits, but he’s trying, god knows he’s trying.”

[bornobsession]

Ya know

I don’t understand why people hate nate from the devil wears Prada like he’s just calling out bs as he sees it and I guess people today can’t imagine a woman EVER doing ANYTHING wrong bc “feminism” but that’s so fucking wrong and disgusting and literally Andy says herself I hate fashion and girls who do << that’s like the worst thing you can do as a girl: shame other girls for doing what they like.

Nate said he doesn’t care if she’s now into fashion, just admit it to herself (have integrity about it) and it’s just a wake up call that she’s sacrificing her personal life and relationship to please someone she claims to hate. Imagine dating someone who says “I hate my boss I hate my job”, and them consistently putting it before you. That shit must hurt and people are acting like NATE is the one who’s in the wrong like are you kidding me??? Nate is a charming cute guy who genuinely liked Andy and I just can’t fathom people who say he’s a terrible boyfriend who doesn’t deserve the girl-it should be the other way around.

Also, since when are adults not allowed to be disappointed at a loved one missing a birthday? My mom last year was so sad that my brother forgot about her birthday. It’s not that she didn’t get presents or a party. It’s the fact that your loved ones are supposed to care about you and show you love on a day that celebrates you. Andy didn’t even call Nate about missing his birthday, she called Lily.

Andy is not doing her best to thrive in bad work conditions. She is selling out and putting on pretty clothes so her boss will like her and letting the sleazy guy get close in hopes of advantages in the field. To thrive would be not changing anything about her and still being content with the work she does because she realizes there’s more to life than her boss liking you. There are definitely other jobs other than a high end fashion magazine in NY and Andy did not have to do the things she did to Nate and her friends just for that paycheck/opportunity at another newspaper or magazine (selling out).

[pickleysoda]

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💖

[feminist-voices]

No one is “pro-abortion” you can be pro choice and not want/like abortion and personally never have one. It just means that you believe in a women’s right to control their own body and don’t want the government to dictate what types of reproductive health care every single woman in America has access to. Pro-choice just recognizes that you can’t force every woman in America to abide by your own personal beliefs. Bodily autonomy is an essential human right.

[normal-thoughts-official]

ok but why is monty worried that percys uncle will tell his parents about him and percy running away when he literally wrote a letter to his father all like “lmao id rather be touching percys dick than this pen but anyway we are running away together to live in this very specific island and bang like our lives depend on it, dont call me i hate you bye”??? like???? what more could percys uncle say

[fdsfjdsfjkf93723679267-deactiva]

millennial culture is being unable to eat dinner unless you are watching something at the same time. movie? tv show? twitch stream? doesn’t matter. just have to be able to click play

[planethealth]

i mean if im by myself what else am i gonna do?? be alone with my thoughts?? out of the question

[athetos]

I have one brain cell and it bounces around in my skull like a windows screen saver

[alohammora]

When it bounces perfectly in the corner i experience a Thought

[normal-thoughts-official]

anyway I’m rereading ggtvav 2 days after finishing it because I have no control over my life and…

For a moment, I toy with the idea that, at the end of it all, I could not go home. Run away to Holland with Percy. Or perhaps just run. Which would leave me stuck with nothing. No money and no skills to earn it. I’m too useless to make a life on my own, no matter how odious the one selected for me is. I’m well shackled to my father, no way to escape or want things for myself.

And now I’m…….. Crying because when Percy first asked him to run away he said he couldn’t because he’d have no money, and it sounds kinda like “ugh your life of privilege” but really Monty means he would be dragging Percy down, and in gentleman’s guide to getting lucky he’s terrified that Perce will leave him because he’s useless. And in here it’s so clear how that’s a direct result of his abuse, of him being convinced that he’s useless and serves no purpose and can’t want things because that in itself is already more than he’s allowed, and it’s so…… he truly believes he’s empty and he truly believes his abusive situation is somehow saving him from himself and that is so real and he can say it so eloquently here but couldn’t say it to Percy and now I’m SAD

[bornobsession]

Why am i in a writing mood when I have two AP Exams to study for 😩 why do I get writers block when I have literally nothing going on in my life

[tchalametgifs]

[ghostresiduestwo]

bitches will get obsessed with animal crossing for a few days then abandon it for months (i’m bitches)