lay your hands on me.

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[understands]

[booksncoffee]

vapor is 5sos’ best song there i said it

[galleriepeach-deactivated202212]

gallerie peach: if you use like or reblog. 🍑

[staceybrucomics]

[naturaekos]

[dontstopisagoodsongchangemymind]

5sos should release a 2019 version of disconnected do NOT @ me

[phdbitch-deactivated20150805]

I will not beg you for your time or try to convince you to choose me, the world is too big and I have too much to offer.

[peachysuggest]

choose kindness even when others have not been kind to you

[stopharry]

how is screaming “I wanna suck your dick” to a band member you just met any different from someone catcalling you on the street

[hustlerclique-deactivated201505]

Read this Read it again and again

[touchyourblood]

Applies to actors, athletes, and other famous people as well.

[shanology]

Just because you’ve been fantasizing about them forever doesn’t mean that in their eyes, you’re anything more than a very creepy stranger sexually harassing them 

[naramdil]

quiet victories are still victories. they don’t have to be noticed by other people to be valid. 

[moosekleenex]

[arabwife]

[mediokurrr-deactivated20200405]

Can i get a step by step on how to do this?

[catastrofries]

So far for me it’s been something like:

1. Become aware of how and when you tearing yourself down.

2. Now that you can catch yourself doing it. Offer counters to the negative self talk. A really useful thing I read was to talk to yourself almost the way you would child. Gentle and patient. Even when they fuck up.

3. Take time to celebrate your small accomplishments. You’ve been attacking yourself for every little mistake. Apply that same fervor to the positive things in your life. Did the dishes even though you didn’t want to? Fuck yeah! Got up and took shower? YES!!! You are taking positive steps to feeling better. Celebrate it.

4. Make lists of things you’re good at/ like about yourself. The first time I did this the only two things in my list we’re that I liked my hair and I had good friends. It was start.

5. Don’t beat yourself up if you screw up steps 1-4. It’s counter productive. When I catch myself calling my self stupid for some mistake or other my response now is,“We don’t talk to ourselves like that anymore. What’s something constructive that could actually help solve the problem.”

Most of the time that seems to work. Not always. But more and more Everytime.

I hope any of that made sense.

[absolutely-walnuts]

oh my goodness there are instructions!!

[kittenkat-and-kirby]

Omg I was doing this without knowing

[bradsimpsonnews]

December 7: Brad on Good Morning Britain this morning

[vampspacks]

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[waheybradlay-deactivated2022051]

I can’t deal with him being this good looking anymore😩

[notyourpepperoni]

things i tell myself

[feministism]