[brattiestfemme]

ok gotta make a pinned post for new blog

ellie 💛 bi femme4all sometimes switch/sometimes bratty sub (not interested in cis men 🙅‍♀️)

flirty and/or friendly asks and anons are always welcome! (and my DMs are always open for moots i literally just love making friends lol)

minors DO NOT interact & if there’s no age in your bio or if you’re under 18, I will block immediately

kinks include but not limited to: dollification et al, breeding, uhh hands, and werewolves and knights lol

not into: scat/vomit, gore/snuff, feeder stuff ESPECIALLY not into zoo stuff i will 100% block and report you for talking about assaulting dogs

will add more as I think of things!

[brattiestfemme]

i love being a basic bitch i love crying to new olivia rodrigo album while i wait to rinse off my fake tan and put in hair rollers like im becoming myself again god dammit

[kayla-denker]

Hey, you, cis girl that's very (correctly) vocal about women being allowed to talk about their periods, do you include trans women in that?

I ask because every single time I've tried to talk about it to anyone that isn't a trans woman they get fucking angry. Which has caused me to have to just suffer in silence every single month. So I really relate to cis women when they talk about literally the exact same thing; being shamed by everyone around them their whole lives for talking about their periods, so they just suffer in silence every month as it negatively impacts their work and social lives. But I don't even feel like I can voice that I am literally dealing with the same exact thing because most of y'all react like you want to throw me in front of a bus for saying it, even those of you who act like your such big great transfem allies.

[kayla-denker]

I guess I'll take this opportunity to talk about trans women periods. The first thing any tme person thinks when they hear this is always "how can trans women have periods? They don't have uteruses!"

The answer is: the uterus isn't what causes your period, it is effected by your period. What causes your period and what causes trans women's periods is the same thing: the endocrine system.

HRT changes the sex of your endocrine system. Feminizing HRT makes it a female endocrine system, giving us a 28-day hormone cycle just like cis women. At the end of that cycle, the hypothalamus floods the body with prostaglandins. Those are what cause all but one of the period symptoms, because they make muscles inflame and contract. They are what make the uterus shed its lining, they are what cause intestinal cramps, they are what cause body aches, they are what cause headaches and migraines. The only period symptom not causes by the release of prostaglandins throughout the body is depression, and that is caused by your endocrine system simply not processing as much estrogen and from simply feeling like shit.

So, the only symptoms trans women don't get every 28 days is menstrual cramps, because yes we do not menstruate since we don't have uteruses. But migraines, depression, body aches, intestinal cramps, and the infamous "period shits" don't exactly add up to us having any better of a time. Except we have to pretend that we're fine and nothing is different because no one believes that we get periods, not even cis women.

"But you can't call it a period then because that refers to MENSTRUATION!" is another one I hear all the time. This is incorrect. You use the word "period" instead of just "menstruation" because it doesn't just refer to menstruation. It refers to a period at the end of the hormone cycle where we experience a host of symptoms. And not all cis women experience all of the symptoms that encompass the period. Not all cis women get migraines, or body aches, or have severe depression. If a cis woman gets a hysterectomy she doesn't menstruate either! In that instance she experiences an identical period to what trans women experience. Yet, I doubt you'd insist that cis women who've had hysterectomies don't have periods.

[kayla-denker]

Oh, another thing that I personally discovered after bottom surgery: vaginal odor changes for trans women during our periods too. I was not expecting that because I always thought it was just from menstruation. But nope, the ph levels of a trans woman's vagina are the same of as a cis woman's vagina, and it changes during our periods just the same.

[brattiestfemme]

im kinda a gaylor but i have a fat pussy so ??? it evens out

[brattiestfemme]

what yall know about tomato pie and watermelon on the air vent

[brattiestfemme]

gettin freckly

[brattiestfemme]

I can’t even begin to tell yall how strongly i feel about hair like it’s a musical that could’ve changed the world if it weren’t for the creators being dicks about one of the black actors’ funerals but it gave us Donna summer so 😭

[brattiestfemme]

it’s crazy that my heart is still so soft and full of love despite it all tbh

[brattiestfemme]

the Ellis Brooklyn Strawberry body spray smells like WEED I do not recommend if you’re trying to mask a weed smell with body spray

[shocklabrynth]

trans women who top love dressing like homeless vietnam veterans. it’s like their version of drinking water

[hellokittytorturenexus]

[daughterofsweatywerewolftriumph]

"I'm retired from dickslinging" "we need you for one last job.. a thighjob" "I'm a ronin, a soldier without a nation... you have to host"

[zazacounty]

the last bushi-doll

[brattiestfemme]

what if i just got a sperm donor and did the single mom by choice thing

i used to babysit for professors that did that i think i could do it

[brattiestfemme]

god im gonna have to start paying for therapy again just so i dont annoy the shit out of my friends

[thepervyfemme]

Hey guys, so um I got in a really bad accident today. Like I rolled my jeep twice on the highway and somehow…I’m alive and have no head injuries. But I am insanely cut up, bruised and frankly traumatized. I’m gunna be out of work for the foreseeable future and I need support. I hate asking for help but I need it. If you can share please do 💞

Donate to Help Kenzie recover after rolling her jeep, organized by Mckenzie Holivay

On the morning of July 1st, I was in an awful accident on the freeway head… Mckenzie Holivay needs your support for Help Kenzie recover afte

[brattiestfemme]

gettin freckly

[brattiestfemme]

hello friends just wanted to say I am ok my dad is activated and I am safe and I appreciate the support and validation so so much you have no idea

[brattiestfemme]

is it so much to desire a butch that will hold my hair while I throw up

[brattiestfemme]

if there is an ad lib for your karaoke song I WILL be yelling it I got you