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they/them • this is where all my reblogs go• thispumpkinisbored is my other blog :3

[mercyofempty]

love and peace on planet earth

[heinoura]

"Toby fox doesn't like AU's!! All of them mischaracterise characters!!!! Especially Sans!!!!"

Toby fox:

[2deep2kidneys2potatoe]

And I will make 500 skeletons and I will make 500 more just to be the one who made one thousand skeletons appear at your door.

[lunaticfemboyblasphemer]

[snoopylovessoup]

[lillastarr]

au where nothing actually happened to dess he just transitioned and started living in the woods

[duplicarto]

first impressions

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[tu0fu]

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[squidsmeister]

comic I posted in 2021 that has only become more relevant since chapter 4

[wtf-drawing]

im gonna cry

[lunawolf237-is-gay]

So we agree this is just straight up them yeah?

[machine-saint]

we justifiably give Biden a lot of shit but I think "at least 3" is the funniest possible response to some right wing dipshit asking you how many genders there are

[madnessofmen]

wait it gets better

[meandtheyeehaws]

i like berdley :]

[opt1gan]

Unrestrained summer fun

[toqiuh]

situations in which Susie initiates a hug

[veveisveryuncool]

their life is OVER.

[thelightfluxtastic]

I have a research background in weight stigma and I currently work in mental health, often with LGBTQ+ clients.

I've met nonbinary people who struggle with disordered eating because they only ever see androgyny depicted as featureless thinness.

I've met trans women who struggle with disordered eating because they've internalized the idea that girls are meant to be thin, dainty, and delicate.

I've men trans men who struggle with disordered eating, because they feel women are allowed to be soft/curvy but men need to be muscular or thin and flat.

So many trans people are convinced that weight loss is the key to appearing as their desired gender, even when they want radically different gender presentations.

The societal idealization of thinness and fatphobia falsely invades and derails people's idea of what their "ideal body" should look like.

[thisisthinprivilege]

The social effects of privileging thinness are so damaging. Like, it's hard enough to deviate from expected gender roles and binary sexuality but now fat people have to do it on hard mode

[thelightfluxtastic]

This post has kind of exploded and my heart is with everyone in the notes sharing their struggles with this trap.

But to the folks "yes, but-"ing it with statements like 'I know this trend is bad but I just want to be skinny for my own/personal/completely unrelated reasons', I am asking you to take five minutes to consider why that is.

I'm not your therapist, doctor, or dietician. I can't say what is best for your mental and physical health. But take a moment to think: why all your 'gender goals' celebrities or fictional characters are skinny? Why can't a man/woman/nonbinary person look like you? Why is it hard to imagine transitioning in your own body type?

And I say that not from a place of judgement! I've been there- some days I am still there. Even with all my academic background, even with examples/role models of fat nonbinary people, even with years chipping away at internalized fatphobia, I've had to grapple with "But I want to look like [generic paper doll/anime character/celebrity/thin person]".

You are not immune to propaganda. And also, you are just as capable of learning body positivity/acceptance while still transitioning.

You deserve to feel gender euphoria in and with your body type and size.

[nightowlqueen]

best part of KPop Demon Hunters is all the ridiculous faces the girls make

[cellspex]

Nobody remembers right before Frozen came out there was an interview with a Disney animator that said there wasn’t much they could do with women’s faces because they “needed to stay pretty"

[cherryfennec]

I find your artwork very pretty to look at

Thank you! I'm glad you like it!

there's still stuff i wanna get better at but there isnt enough time right now for me to focus on that

also he hung that on the evil fridge