why you keep getting hurt, based on your moon sign
ARIES: you may find yourself doing the hurting in your relationship. love for you is supposed to be exciting, and when youâre not excited about the relationship, itâs easy for you to let go. but hurting people doesnât feel good. not many people realize this, but aries donât intend to hurt people. they just naturally put themselves first. it hurts them when people close to them hurt. you may have a lot of trouble finding someone who understands you and your carefree attitude about relationships. maybe love isnât for you, you begin to think.Â
TAURUS: you have an intense loyalty to the people you love. so much so, in fact, that you stay in situations that you may be better off walking away from. to you, a partnership is a long term commitment and any problems that may arise can be worked out, if people are willing to work at it. the problem is, youâre always willing to work on it and the other person may not be so willing. people take advantage of you. you donât like to fail. when relationships end for you, it causes you a lot of pain because you feel like you failed. you start to think about all the things you could have done to make things work, but you canât change someone else no matter how hard you try.Â
GEMINI: youâre very hard on yourself. you have this weird war going inside you. a part of you thinks âim in a v srs relationship, this is srs business,â while the other side is wanting to have fun and gets bored staying in one spot. you can be hard on others too. you have these ideas about what a good partner should be like and what a serious relationship is supposed to look like, so you tend to dwell on flaws that may not even be deal breaker worthy. finding a balance and learning to let go of preconceived ideas about relationships is a challenge for you. if you donât find a balance, youâll feel lost and like no one is out there for you.Â
CANCER: you care SO much about people. you always do incredibly thoughtful gestures for the people you love. maybe your partner made an offhand comment once about liking this super niche movie thatâs hard to find, and you go out there and buy it. itâs hard for people to match your insane effort. the thing is, you want someone to treat you how you treat others. you want someone to remember that story you told about your favorite vacation as a kid and then they surprise you with plane tickets for your birthday. people show love in all sorts of ways, but itâs hard for you to accept love in a way thatâs different from the way you love. if itâs not these insane, sentimental gifts, itâs not enough for you. you feel unfulfilled.Â
LEO: you put people on a pedestal. you have high standards, or you at least like to think you have high standards. when youâre into someone, youâre like âoh my god! finally someone who is everything Iâve been looking for!â you begin to see them as this vision you had in your head of the person you pictured yourself with. but fantasy is not reality. when this person doesnât live up to that fantasy, you get hurt. youâre a hopeless romantic and very grandiose in the way you express your love. everything about love to you is a fairytale. youâre setting impossibly high standards for not only potential partners, but even yourself.Â
VIRGO: we live in a society where reminding someone to put their seatbelt on is nagging. to you, this is an act of love. youâre a perfectionist with yourself and your love life. you love through constructive criticism and communication. never mind the fact that people just canât take criticism these days, people instinctually become defensive. you donât mean it to come across as critical and naggy, you genuinely want you, the other person, and your relationship to be the best it can be. you feel misunderstood and you probably have begun to give in to thinking thereâs something inherently wrong with you. Â
LIBRA: love for you is more than just emotions, itâs a conscious decision you make everyday. this will cause you to stay in situations that arenât right for you. once youâve decided to be with someone, youâve decided and now you have to deal with this commitment. pair that with a need to keep the peace and you can drive yourself crazy, dealing with other peopleâs bullshit that you shouldnât have to deal with. you bend so much to the needs of the other person, because youâre adaptable so you can be the one to compromise to keep the relationship harmonious. but by doing this, you neglect your own needs and you become blind to how you truly feel and what you truly want.Â
SCORPIO: not many people realize it, but you have very high standards. this comes from your overall pessimistic view on people, which probably stems from going through a lot of disappointment in your past. you are insanely loyal to those youâre with and you love HARD. you may often feel that no one will love you the way you love them. you donât even always express just how deeply you love someone. you donât like to admit it, but you get deeply attached to people. when someone inevitably doesnât live up to your standards, this causes you a lot of pain.Â
SAGITTARIUS: people fucking suck. everyone has skeletons in their closets and baggage. people take themselves and relationships too seriously. you just want to have fun with the person youâre with. you have a hard time dealing with the human side of people. why does everyone else have to be so negative, you think. love is an amazing thing! and we should have fun while we have time on this earth together. much like aries, you may have begun to think love isnât for you because everyone else is out here taking the fun out of love.Â
CAPRICORN: thereâs an inherent loneliness than comes with being a cap moon. you come across as cold to others because the way you express love is so different than everyone else. emotions take a back seat, you love through providing for your partner and becoming the best at what you do to ensure a comfortable life for yourself and those you love. people see that as putting your work before your loved ones, but thatâs not your intention. failures in your love life have caused you to completely stop seeking out potential partners, even if you would really love to be in a relationship right now.Â
AQUARIUS: the person youâre with is not only your partner, but your best friend. but isnât that a good thing? it can be, but you have the tendency to detach from the emotional and romantic side of the relationship. youâre afraid of your emotions sometimes, and youâve developed this ability to completely detach. people you are with may feel like you donât love them, theyâll begin to feel more like your friend than your lover. but thatâs not how you mean for it to come across! you just have a hard time expressing love in a way that others can understand.Â
PISCES: you give people too many chances. you see people how you want to see them, rather than for who they truly are and you usually default to seeing the best in everyone. you gravitate towards relationships where one of you needs saving. if youâre the one who needs saving, you put too much of that responsibility into the other person. if youâre the savior in the relationship, you have a hard time realizing that you canât save someone who doesnât want to be saved.Â
letâs all have a group hug <3 astrology is a wonderful tool to not only understand yourself, but to understand others. treat each other kindly and embrace differences in people.Â
this is based off of my very first series on twitter. you can follow me @classtrology_ for more frequent astrological posts! I am not accepting full birthchart readings at this time, but simple questions and brief sun/moon/rising combo readings can be done through my ask on here.Â
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