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[dominantlife]

Updated Library For Kinksters

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

Topping from the bottom

[sirskia]

Always a reblog when it crosses my dash because there is a lot of good info here.

[vaginaandmagirl-deactivated2017]

Same

[mrmattegrey]

ϻr. ϻαϯϯϵ

[entertainingfaith]

I'M DOING AN EXPERIMENT

To prove something to a friend, please

REBLOG IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

LIKE IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS DON’T BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

[spacexualkids]

:)

[vanillakarnstein]

rarely do you  see a post with so many reblogs and so few likes :O

[infiniteglitterfall]

(image shows a bunch of likes and reblogs. currently it’s at 4,358 likes and 98,165 reblogs.)

[vincit-aeternum-deactivated2023]

Don’t forget aromantics!

[forsythelovesfood]

:)

[spideyyeet]

Venom

Series Masterlist

Tom Holland x Boxer!reader

Summary: Tom is dragged to an illegal boxing match and his eyes won’t leave a specific player. However when he meets the infamous Venom, your all he can think about. But the more he gets closer to you, the more problems spill out and he soon realizes this boxer really only has a death wish. 

Warning: The fic will contain smut, language, angst, fluff, violence, drug use, mentions of suicide, mentions of death, 

Masterlist

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Venom 1

Venom 2

Venom 3

Venom 4

Venom 5(Coming soon)

[spideycurls]

MIDNIGHT SNACK ! PETER P

word count: 1060 words

warnings: none apart from extreme cheesiness. also, this isn't my gif! i found it on google so all credit to the owner!

paring: peter parker x reader

sleepovers with peter were the best. between joking around and watching movies, the two of you never failed to fill the room with your laughter. it used to annoy his aunt may but she's grown to be able to tolarate it.

so, here you were now, snuggled up on the top bunk of peters bed while he took the bottom bunk. his soft snores filled the room while you tossed and turned, unable to fall asleep. finally, with a groan, you pushed the soft blanket off your legs and quietly climbed down.

peter mustn't have heard the quiet thump of you hitting the floor because he simply sniffled quietly in his sleep and kicked one foot out of the blanket. you heart melted at the sight of him sleeping peacefully. it was adorable and anyone who told you otherwise would get a face full of fists.

"psst... hey, pete."

"whaaaaaat?" he groaned and turned so his back was facing you. you huffed and slowly started tracking backwards.

"umph!" peter shot up in his bed while you giggled even though your ribs were sore from the landing. "jeez, y/n! did you really have to do that!?"

you simply continued to giggle at his confused face and messy bed hair, "m'hungry and i can't sleep." you whined and peter sent you a dopey smile before snuggling further into the pillows.

"awe sorry to hear that." and with that, the little shit wrapped an arm around your waist and pulled you down onto the bed with him.

"this is serious!" you whisper-yelled, "im really hungry! cant you just spider-man us to the nearest macdonalds so i can get a burger?"

"oh yeah, i definitely could--"

"yay thank you--"

"but i don't wanna." he finished and shut his eyes.

"but-- peter" you whined and he lifted his head to look at your pouting face.

"oh come on. please don't do the face" he practically begged but you didn't let up. you heard him mumble something before pulling himself out of bed, heading to his closet. you let out a small, almost inaudible, cheer and jumped out of the bed to get your shoes, not bothering to change out of your pyjamas (you just wanted your food).

in under five minutes, peter was impatiently waiting at the window in his suit. you quickly tied the laces on your sneakers before leaping over to him, "okay, im ready."

"then let's go. may usually wakes up to get a drink at two so we have, uh--" he took two steps forward to check the time on his alarm clock, "forty-six minutes."

without a second of hesitation, peter silently opened the window, nodding his head in its direction. you skipped towards the window, a smug grin on your face.

once the two of you were out on the fire escape, peter wrapped his arms around the bottom of your thighs and you jumped, wrapping your legs around his waist. within a second, you were flying through the streets with your head buried in peter’s neck. you felt his chest vibrate with a chuckle,

"you scared?" he asked and you practically feel the smirk he wore.

"uh, y-yeah." and by that you meant no, you just smell really fucking good and your a human heater but he didn't need to know that.

before you knew it, your feet were on the ground and you were on the roof of an older-looking macdonalds. peter pulled a pair of loose-fitting sweats and simple, light blue jumper out of his backpack. within fifteen seconds you coumd barely tell he was wearing the spidey-suit in the first place. he webbed his backpack to a dirty, brick chimney as you jumped on his back, preparing for him to crawl down the wall.

once the two of you got inside, you noticed it was a literal ghost town and the teenager at the register gave the two of you a weird look. you realised she was staring down at peters hand.

fuck.

the bright red of peters gloved hand stuck out like a sore thumb and you nudged his shoulder.

"hmm?"

"your hand." you murmured simply before pushing him to a table at the back corner of the restaurant. you watched him burry his hand in the pockets of his pants with a panicked expression.

after ordering your food (and it taking a whole eleven minutes to be made even though it was dead empty ) you skipped to your table, peter waiting like an eager child waiting to get a lollipop.

"here ya' go." you said as you placed his order in front of him. peter was quick to dig into his food and you giggled, watching him get ketchup on the corner of his mouth.

"what?"

"you, uh, just-- *cough* let me--" you stretched your hand across the table, using your thumb to wipe the sause of his mouth. you didn't miss the faint, cherry red blush that took its place on peters cheeks.

"oh, uh, thank you." you nodded and started to eat your food.

you had finished your food when you noticed peter staring at you with a dreamy smile.

"what?"

"nothing. i just really love you." peter said softly with a nervous smile on his face.

"wha-what?" you felt like the air was punched out of your lungs.

"i love you."

your heart was racing a mile a minute and you titled your head curiously, "like love love or 'you're my best friend who's like my sister' love?"

"how about 'ive loved you since we were twelve and i could see myself spending the rest of my life with you and i think you do too' love." the small smile on his face disappeared when he saw your expression, "unless ive been reading this wrong and--"

"no! no, not at all. its just that, well, we're us, aren't we?"

"well, yeah but i just thought that--"

"but you're right. i think i love you too." you whispered and the brightest smile took its place on his face.

"i-- r-really?"

"yeah." peter leaped out of his seat and gave you the biggest hug ever. you buried your head into his neck and you didn't notice that you had both started crying.

"oh my god. i can't believe this is happening. may's gonna be over the moon." you let out a watery laugh and hugged peter tighter. he rubbed his hands up and down your back soothingly and, eventually, pulled away from the hug.

"you wanna get out of here and, ya know, sleep." peter asked before brushing a stand of hair out of your face and behind your ear. you nodded and he grabbed your hand, guiding you next to the shop and you climbed onto his back.

before you knew it your legs were wrapped around his waist and peter pulled his mask out of his pocket and started to swing back to his apartment. peter landed on the fire escape with a quiet thud and he opened the window so you could enter his room. you kicked off your shoes and flopped onto the bed, watching as he stripped down to his boxes, slipping on the loose sweatpants again.

he quietly slid in next to you and wrapped his arm around your waist. you nuzzled your head into his chest while he played with the loose strand of your hair.

you were slowly drifting off to sleep when you heard him let out a quiet curse.

"mmf...what?" you practically whined and peter sighed out deeply through his nose.

"i left my backpack on the roof."

"damn it, parker!"

[mycatsaidwhat]

Shit i’ve heard high schoolers say pt. 23

-my plan is to love fast and eat mac n cheese

-i smell like if death ate eggs

-Idk what the electoral college is, we should just have nose goes 

-Could you do us all a favor and not come to class 

-Get in loser, we’re going to fuck up even more 

-why do you have so many batteries, just sell adderall like a normal teenager, damn 

-you know him, you love him, it’s your boy, the cuddy, the one and only, the shit….. grover cleveland

-let’s face it, everyone is unlikable we just compromise… and i compromise a lot

-If I’m crying don’t worry about it 

-turkey is just chicken with class

-Those are my toe caverns, now leave them alone 

-hating each other is where it’s at

-i will hold your dick if you don’t hold my chicken

-oh my god it’s STILL A PDF GOD FUCK I”M GONNA KILL MYSELF

-oh damnit, now you’re here the heterosexual count just went up

[youngbugandtonystank]

Do you know any fics with the ‘May’s abusive boyfriend trope’? And/or with Peter having anxiety? Please and thanksssssss

Hi!

Of course, here:

1. to this day by hopeless_hope

2. the second law of thermodynamics by fourleafchloe

3.  don’t panic by Catzzy

4.  abuse at your hands, broken at your feet by snarkymuch

5.  youth by sumpetals

6.  The Homes We Make by iamq

7.  The wounds we see (And the scars we don't) by Lurafita

8.  Countdown by Summerwolf

9.  Shadows by lamourcestlamour

10.  i get by (but it's eating me alive) by Livinei

11.  The Black And The Blue (All That It Takes Out Of You) by Buckets_Of_Stars

12.  shelter from the storm by eternitywar

13.  Terrified by parkeratheart

14.  Hindsight by elephreak

15.  Promotions Aren't Always A Good Thing by agib

16.  Who Saves The Hero by CamelotQueen

17.  Fear all else but never me. Please. by Webtrinsic

18.  The Chair and The Bed and The Name by Orpheus_I_Dont_Feel_So_Good

Thank you for asking!

[punani]

yeah so here's the story: we are both boxers out of the same gym so we train together and stuff. I started boxing two years ago and this sport has given me so much but the best thing it's ever given me is him. I'm the only girl in my gym and he always watches out for me and protects me. we joke around and wrestle and it's so good, yk? he's my absolute best friend and I caught feelings for him like 6 months ago but I can't bring myself to tell him because it could ruin everything ughh

omg wait this is acc so cute !! but how do you know that he might not..maybe feel the same?

[bridgethayes2004]

your ask box always eats my asks and ive tried to send this in twice so let’s hope you aren’t just ignoring me or else that would be super weird but anyways here we go: ok so we box together right, and the gym turned into my second family but he just feels like home. we flirt and whatever but maybe im just reading too much into it?? we tease each other and god, sometimes i really think he likes me too, but if i tell him and he doesnt then what? i lose 1: my best friend and 2: my sparring partner. like i’ve had a hard time finding a boyfriend because guys don’t understand that boxing comes first, but he gets that. all i could ever want is for him to be happy and if that means that we’re just friends, then so be it.

[bridgethayes2004]

HE KNOWS. AND HE LIKES ME BACK. we’re dating.

[whyarealltherealusernamestaken]

i haven’t heard anything about george lopez in a while. is he ok. is he alive. is he real

[punani]

yeah so here's the story: we are both boxers out of the same gym so we train together and stuff. I started boxing two years ago and this sport has given me so much but the best thing it's ever given me is him. I'm the only girl in my gym and he always watches out for me and protects me. we joke around and wrestle and it's so good, yk? he's my absolute best friend and I caught feelings for him like 6 months ago but I can't bring myself to tell him because it could ruin everything ughh

omg wait this is acc so cute !! but how do you know that he might not..maybe feel the same?

[bridgethayes2004]

your ask box always eats my asks and ive tried to send this in twice so let's hope you aren't just ignoring me or else that would be super weird but anyways here we go: ok so we box together right, and the gym turned into my second family but he just feels like home. we flirt and whatever but maybe im just reading too much into it?? we tease each other and god, sometimes i really think he likes me too, but if i tell him and he doesnt then what? i lose 1: my best friend and 2: my sparring partner. like i've had a hard time finding a boyfriend because guys don't understand that boxing comes first, but he gets that. all i could ever want is for him to be happy and if that means that we're just friends, then so be it.

[regby-blog1]

ted cruz dropped out of the presidential race so he can focus more on his career as the zodiac killer

[funnyforchad]

[2460waan]

Reblog if you have been personally murdered by Ted Cruz

My mom doesn’t believe that Ted Cruz is the Zodiac Killer and I’m trying to prove a point.

[wifiwife]

I can’t believe someone actually convinced him to post this

[powerfulwizard]

Some of you guys are like, Be Gay Do Crime, but are also like, Shoplifting makes you evil and you’re personally stabbing into people’s paychecks if you steal

[ddrvbiblgigb]

[garfield-baybee]

Reblog to have something good happen at 1:42 tomorrow

[qumi]

me: *says the vaguest most incoherent shit ever*

me: you know what i mean :/

[lookatmeenoww-deactivated201301]

Okay seriously. Reblog if you're OLDER than 11.

[danisontnonfire]

why is it that not more than 1/20 of Tumblr haven’t reblogged this