Menhera Fashion and Convo

Mainly where I post menhera related content (I kind of branch here from my art account @prettypainfulart) 21 years old, disabled, heavily mentally ill lol

[broken-doll-menhera]

Figured I'd make an introduction of myself!

I'm a 23 year old trans person and go by most pronouns, but favor he/they. I dabbled in a lot of subcultures but have stuck around with menhera communities.

I have ADHD, autism, OCD, and an undiagnosed physical condition I'm still getting testing done for. Granted, I've gone through a lot and have a variety of symptoms, so I could really have a number of problems.

My main art account is @prettypainfulart but I wanted to have an account specifically for my menhera content and ramblings regarding mental health and disability. I sell a myriad of items and plan on coming out with menhera/yami kawaii themed stuff soon!

This list may change, but I do have a general DNI list just in case. DNI if:

You support Ezaki Bisuko or any of what he believes

You are Jirai Kei or post about the subject for non-educational purposes

You aren't a trans ally

You do not include physical disabilities in your support

You do not support healing within this space

It's not a big list, but I may add to it as needed. I will block anyone who interacts with my content if this is ignored.

[thememedaddy]

[fymenhera-deactivated20181216]

Zhai-Man’s “Self Reflection" set is for preorder right now.

[just-call-me-ella]

I was talking to my mom the other day, and she said she was going to start going to the gym, because its important care for your body. I’m disabled w/ multiple chronic illnesses, so going to the gym is impossible for me. She seemed to realize this, and started to backtrack, saying like - its part of taking care of herself, and I interrupted and said, “Its okay mom. You and I taking care of ourselves look very different”. And thats what I would like you to know.

Taking care of yourself looks different. 

For some people, taking care of themselves looks like fruit smoothies and gym visits, cutting out sugar and weight training.

For some people, taking care of themselves looks like hospital visits, feeding tubes and ports. Needles and tests.

For some people, taking care of themselves looks like taking medication and lying down in a cool dark room.

For some people, taking care of themselves looks like getting any calories in their body that they can.

For some people, taking care of themselves looks like adding in more vegetables and trying to go outside to get sun more often.

For some people, taking care of themselves looks like seeing a therapist, keeping symptom journals, and practicing mindfulness, meds, or grounding techniques. 

We all have different needs. Please don’t feel bad about how you care for yourself just because someone else is able to do “more”, or their care is more performative or obvious. Please don’t look down on someone for caring for themselves in a way that you do not. Medication and rest are just as important as exercise and vegetables.

Keep doing your best to care for yourself, the best way you know how. Your self care and health is important, no matter what it looks like. 

[kawaiibabeshop]

🌸 Kawaii Shop 🌸

[smolfairy-deactivated20150914]

dere you go

[oursidae]

ey

ey you lil shits

lets just talk about this here cookie recipe

this shit

is 

the

BOMB

HOLY SHIT

I JUST FINISHED THIS AND WOW IT TASTES AMAZING

YES

WONDERFUL

1000000/10 WOULD ATE AGAIN

[smolfairy-deactivated20150914]

yAy

[post-and-out]

For magic improvements on thing that is already perfect:

Use one spoon white sugar, and one spoon brown if you have it.

After microwave, before noms, add vanilla ice cream.

\o/

[fan-troll]

salt is a flavour enhancer, add just a tiny dash, not enough to make it salty.

[goldpilot22]

Because I love you all.

[purple---skye]

reblogging cause i need to save this

[5bi5]

A note for those who have trouble measuring butter with a spoon as I do: one cup I am sixteen tablespoons. Butter/margarine bricks are usually a half a cup, so just cut one eighth of that amount 

[ironwoman359]

These are really good! And yes, for the love of god, if you have it use white sugar and brown sugar, add just a pinch of salt, and as many chocolate chips as you darn well please. Great with icecream, whipped cream on top, or a tall glass of milk (keep in mind you gotta eat it with a spoon, you can’t dip it in milk) 

Super college friendly (trust me)

[lee-not-garrison]

I made this and it’s super awesome! Bonus things you could add: butterscotch flavoring, cut up KitKats, torn apart Milkyways, and stolen ice cream!

[dying-by-fangirling-deactivated]

Ohhhh boy kiddos have at it!

[whump-mybeloved]

Reblogging so I remember to do this

[esoteric-stars]

Just made this but am out of chocolate chips so used hot chocolate powder a splash of milk and marshmallows. HEAVANLY

[thatonelonelydwaggy]

Reblog to save a life

[starkid256]

i will pray to you

[starkid256]

i burnt it

[yeahokayillreblogthat]

yeah okay, ill reblog that!

[lemonsharks]

@taraljc i found it I found the sacred mug cookie recipe

[taraljc]

[menheratic]

PREORDER : Menhera Post-2020 - a Mental Healther Time Capsule — Puvithel

This zine is a menhera time capsule capturing the emotions and art of a post 2020 world. Over two dozen artists and writers have contribut

Before we went "dead", we were working on a Zine via our Discord server - it's available for preorder now.

[pha1non-deactivated20250121]

Having ocd sucks so badly because one moment you'll be laying in bed playing a video game then suddenly your brain goes

"Hey what would happen if you suddenly died or killed yourself because it became too much again" or something like that and then that one thought just spirals into a whole list of them and you're just kind of stuck with it..eugh

Anyways if you're one of the people who reduce ocd down to "someone who cleans a lot" or someone who's "letting the intrusive thoughts win" <(aka suddenly dying your hair or some shit) get off of tiktok for the love of god.

[kinobeans]

The Pink Coffin Bag has arrived! Please welcome the pink pastel version of the Everyday Coffin Bag, as well as the Bat Wallet with some cute new inserts and enamel pins, now live on Kickstarter! And if you missed the opportunity to get a black coffin bag, now's your chance--I'm restocking them!! :D

[artsy-biggirl]

Mobility assistance

[kittensforbrowncoats]

Roll Mobility

Roll Mobility

[roachemoji]

hey if you're running low on your meds and you've been putting off booking a Dr's appointment or calling your pharmacy, you should go do that right now.

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

Realizing that something you did in the past was wrong and that you shouldn't do it again actually makes you a BETTER person, not a worse one

[respect-the-kitty]

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

"Malnutrition is dangerous! Smoking is bad for you! Brushing your teeth is necessary!!!" Yeah guys, we know. We're not actually living in an alternate universe where addiction is healthy and starvation is safe. It's just that it takes more than knowing that to get out of these patterns

[exorcismpersonified-deactivated]

reblog to tell your mutual you’re proud of them and it’ll all work out

[orphic-mysteries]

If it keeps you from killing yourself it's not stupid. This applies to anything btw.

[brb-on-a-quest]

Bestie. How dare you leave “do not mock the life preserver…” in the tags.

@onewingedsparrow

[kaijuno]