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How To Mind-Fuck A Man Into Spoiling & Sponsoring You
From Ho Tactics (by G. L. Lambert)
Ho Tactics is a must-read for any aspiring sugar baby / spoiled girlfriend / trophy wife. The bookâs premise is that todayâs women settle for cheap dates and cheaper talk. Why are you splitting the bill with a man that should be spoiling you? Why are you preparing home cooked meals for a man that canât provide you a home? To answer these questions, the author has studied what he calls âhosâ: women who refuse to be exploited, are immune to manipulation, and never settle in the name of love. He unveils their tactics to gain power, money, and status. Do yourself a favor and read the whole thing here. But in the meantime, here are a few key points Iâve learned from it:
#1 Ho world order
While vanilla women complain about not finding a man, hos attack life. Being a ho means understanding what truly excites men, and weaponizing it to your advantage. A ho doesnât get discouraged by rejection, or get flustered when results arenât instant. She has faith that sheâs the best and sees every setback as a chance to improve and attract a better man.
While vanilla women are confined by loyalty, hos have the advantage. They can say and do things that would make a girlfriend ashamed. Men will pick a ho 9 times out of 10 because they like excitement over stability. Vanilla women are sitting over there with an ego and lists of things they donât do, while Hos are sitting here with their hands on a manâs knee, telling him to order more shots because theyâre ready to be bad. Hos make a manâs choice easy because they aggressively lead him into his savage urges.
#2 Why men love hos
Charm: compliments, flirty sass, and sexual body language will win a man over. He craves the ego stroke of your attention. Hos have mastered the art of flattery, and that, more so than their appearance, makes them sexy.Â
Sex appeal: dress for your body, know what looks good on you, and draw attention to your best features. Dress sexy but not sleazy: leave something to the imagination, just enough to garner respect.Â
Coolness: have a down for whatever, letâs have fun, no stress disposition. Donât ask questions about love or relationships, live in the now. Donât worry about other girls, point out other girls. Show you donât want commitment by not reacting the same way other women do. You arenât easy sexually, but you are easy emotionally.
#3: Be disciplined sexuallyÂ
Get comfortable talking about sex
Study porn, donât just watch it
Masturbate daily
Compliment yourself every day
Do not put yourself in a room alone with a man youâre attracted to
âWeâll seeâ is better than ânoâ
#4 Pussy costs
You are what you eat: look for spots operated by well-known chefs, which have romantic settings. Wine, small portions, ambient lighting - youâre that kind of girl.Â
You need to be showcased: for non-dinner dates, look into live music shows or theaters. Somewhere you can wear that sexy dress, show off your heels, do your hair, and have men watch you.
You reward men for good behavior: you wonât have to ask for the basic things going forward, if you train him to do good by you. He took you out to a nice dinner, give him a passionate kiss. Keep him excited at the thought of having you fully.Â
You donât let him lure you into having a nightcap: leave him wanting more by ending the date at a reasonable time. Make sure the last image he sees of you is one where heâs hard up after a kiss or worked up after a little fondling.Â
Youâre not a chaser: a man might take a step away to test you. Let him vanish, and when he comes back around, be busy. Miss his call, then text him, âIâm out with my friend, will call you tomorrowâ, followed by a kiss emoji. Donât call him, let him hit you up again and suddenly remember him. Say that you felt as if he were falling back, then remind him that others are always ready to step up to the plate.Â
#5: Treats, tricks, or sponsors: Who to hustle
There are three types of men to hustle:
Treats: if you want to be taken to nice places, get gifts even when itâs not your birthday, and never have to come out of pocket when youâre on a date, then you want to be treated. Treats are starter men when perfecting your game.Â
Tricks: if you want to live an extravagant lifestyle and be spoiled by men with wealth, then you need a trick. Tricks are usually well traveled, extremely aggressive, and have heard it all before, so you have to be on an advanced level. Tricks have addictive personalities, and are usually very busy men who would rather spend money than time.Â
Sponsors: if you need assistance, maybe your tuition covered, your rent paid, a business idea funded, youâre after a sponsor. These men are usually older, have âI donât give a fuckâ money, and a girlfriend or wife. They want to have a fantasy woman at their beck and call, rather than a trophy on their arm in public. Theyâre bored, attracted to your vibe, and are going to take care of you, as long as you are cool with their truth.Â
The longer you know a man and the more infatuated he is, the more the lines will blur. First, put your walls up to eliminate broke dudes from your life. Then, milk a man for whatever you can, and know when to walk away. Here are a few rules:
Show not tell: where are the fruits of this manâs labor? Where does he live? Where does he work? Make him show you in a way where it doesnât make you seem as if youâre testing him.Â
Ask for something small: ask if he could stop by a store and pick you up some headphones as if itâs an emergency before date #3.
Celebrity means nothing: just because you see someone on TV doesnât mean heâs rich.Â
Know that world: you donât want to get caught up investing your time with a man whoâs playing you at the same time. Know the industry a man claims to be in.Â
#6: How to flirt the ho way
Make the first move: check your ego at the door, walk over to a man, spark the conversation, compliment him, and share a story with him.
Get up close: have your shoulders inches away from him, side-by-side, or side-angled. Use nudges, even light chest smacks.
Make eye contact: master the art of staring through a man. Focus on the feeling behind that stare: desire.Â
Highlight with sex: hang on certain words like âhardâ, âlook at youâ, âyouâre funnyâ.
Lead him:Â if he dodges a question, let him talk, then stroke his neck as if he had something dangling from his collar and respond with âIâm sorry, what was it you said you did? Those lips are distracting.â
Leave him wanting more: the worst thing a woman can do is hang around too long. Men want what they canât have. Once you ask for his number, itâs time to go.Â
Practice: you only get good at flirting by flirting, so practice these skills in public on un-intimidating guys.Â
#7: How to seduce the ho way
Steer clear from this behavior:Â
Counter conversation: donât wait for him to talk and simply respond to his question; spark up your own topic.Â
Over laughing: add on to what heâs saying, donât just fill up silences by laughing harder than normal.
Walking on eggshells: donât keep the conversation safe because you donât want to say anything to offend him.Â
âDonât rape meâ body language: donât be shy, point your body towards him and inch close when walking.Â
On your first date:Â
Sit next to him: when he sits across you, pout âyouâre going to leave me all alone over here?â
Submit: be decisive in your submission and put the ball firmly in his court. Let him decide where youâre going, if youâll be driving there, and what youâll be having: âwill you order for me? anything but red meat, something that taste as good as an orgasmâ.
Create inside jokes: bonds separate you from other women. Give a man a nickname or let him give you one.Â
Compliment him: to flirt with a guy in a way where you stroke his ego will always win him over. When youâre on a date with him, drop words like âbabyâ, âhandsomeâ, âsexyâ. Â
Get real comfortable, real fast: after the date, hold his hand and thank him for taking you out.Â
End the night with a kiss: itâs his reward, no tongue, but with a slight suck on his bottom lip as you pull away and look at him with âI want to fuckâ eyes.
Keep your texts short and sweet: âit was great, canât wait to see you again soon. Good night, babyâ.
Call and thank him: throw in some inside jokes, whisper about how you were daydreaming about kissing him earlier.
Later on:
Further dating is not about when heâs free:Â itâs when you are free. Unless he has something interesting coming up like show tickets or some formal event: tell him youâre busy, the weekend might work, but youâll have to let him know.Â
Decide on your second date: demand live entertainment and a chance to dress sexy. This time, you order: you want to drink, and you only drink Chardonnay. You want some food, so you order a lot of appetizers. Tell, donât ask: say âHey, theyâre having a wine tasting uptown, letâs goâ, donât ask if heâs âinto itâ or âfreeâ.
Initiate the kissing: when you go back to the car, this time itâs all tongue, even a stroke on his pants, and moaning âyou just do something to me, I canât explain it.âÂ
âNot tonightâ:Â tell him you should go home, youâve been drinking and you donât want to have sex before heâs ready.Â
#8: Getting nasty with it
Be exclusively freaky: nobody wants a woman thatâs sharing her last orgasm story to the world. Your nastiness has to be relayed subtly to give a man the impression that he has the power to bring the freak out of you.
Talk about sex in a way that challenges his manhood. Hos are able to keep sexual interest because they donât say ânoâ to sex, they say âyouâre not readyâ. Women looking for relationships treat sex like the elephant in the room, because they think sex lowers a manâs opinion. Hos embrace sex talk because it keeps his interest. What lowers a manâs opinion is actual sex with little to no effort put forth.Â
Have phone sex. Small talk, say how you miss him, drop an inside joke about your last date, and bring up something sexual that happened: âthat last kiss was everythingâ, now go into detail about how it felt. Start by asking what he wants you to do to him. Heâs going to say something dumb like âdo whateverâ, so talk about sucking dick, it never fails.
#9: How to make him fall in love the ho way
Carve out your territory: vanilla women are afraid to come off as clingy and try to get in where they fit in. Hos carve out their spot in a manâs life, and force him to clear it. Youâre busy, your time is valuable. But always have at least an hour for him each day. When he texts you during the day, text a little. If he calls just to say hi, say hi, but be in the middle of something. Shower him with affection, then rush because you have to go.Â
Be a secret keeper and therapist to him: share something you havenât told anyone. Donât push him for his secrets; establish that if there is anything he wants to tell you, he doesnât have to worry about judgment or you ever bringing it up.Â
Bring the guard down: invite yourself over to his place, but donât stay the night. Let him come visit, but donât let him hang around. Open your world up to him, but donât let him get comfortable. Take sex out of the house hangout. If you go over, it isnât to spend time, itâs to talk about something thatâs bothering you. He should be hard and horny every time you leave him, so heâll keep taking you where you want to go and get you the things you want.Â
Hate titles: most women wait for a man to let them know what itâs going to be. Hos donât wait, they confront a manâs fear. Have the talk but make it about letting him off the hook. You donât want to be his girlfriend, you donât want it to become complicated. Tell him how attracted you are, how much fun youâre having, and demand that it stay on this level. You arenât ready for that kind of stuff because of your past trauma. Make him want to stick in there and save you.Â
Sex = trauma: create a bad sexual experience that you donât want to talk about. You need to get over it, but youâre almost done healing. You can also say that âmen canât handle the aftermathâ. But donât make it seem as if you donât trust him. Tell him how you want it to be special: you want to make a night out of it, you want it to be a fuck fest.Â
The girlfriend experience: let him know that youâre cool with going places with him. If he complains about an office party that is mandatory, say âIf you want me to roll, I can be your out of town cousin or your fiancĂŠe, either way itâll be fun to fuck with people.â
#10: How to ask for gifts, money, or favors
Connect the man to your struggle: find an event the two of you can attend together. The day before the event, call him up and let it slip that you donât want to go anymore: you donât have any handbags, and the one you thought would work is missing.Â
Know exactly what you want: say you did see a Celine bag that would look nice, but youâre already behind on a few bills.
Take all pride out of asking: play submissive like a cat rolling on the floor. Submit: âcould you get it for me, bae?â. Say âpleaseâ the way a child would. During the rest of your call, be distracted and say youâre online trying to find a better price⌠you love that bag and really wanted to go out with him tomorrow.Â
Work within his means: donât ask for a 5k purse if you know he brings home 10k a month. If you a ask for a pair of 1k heels, he can afford that: because you need it, and it may hurt your friendship, heâll help you out.Â
Be specific: know what your goal is, or youâll end up getting things that donât really benefit you in the long run.Â
Give and take: get him cheap gifts with priceless meanings. It will go a long way in securing your image as his sweet princess.
Expand slowly: there is no rush to get everything on your list or to get the biggest payoff first. Get the smaller thing, then get the next thing, youâre training him to take care of you.
Donât go soft and donât get lazy: you will start to like this guy, and settle for dinner dates and vacations with him. The moment you get lazy and stop going after your goal, youâve lost. Your mark loves you, but he will get bored, and he will always have eyes for other women. Multitask: work several men at the same time. â¨
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Love this and agree with alot of the tips in this book
For those of us who've been out of the game for a while and a tad rusty or just looking to sharpen our skills. What are some great tips you can give us regarding the areas of teasing, seduction, flirting, charm, and manipulation?
 Tbh Iâve been so busy working since Iâve left Japan, trying to work on projects that will get me ahead in my field that Iâm also a tad rusty right now.
 I canât tell you about any new sites or any new glitzy scenes for freestyling, but interaction I can do.
 Here are my personal first date tips:
 - Wear black.
- No colourful eyeshadow, matte red lips.
- Wear heels and stockings with a garter belt. This is important because at some point during the date you will re-cross your legs and give him a glimpse of it. Thatâs all the flirting he needs and you havenât said anything.
- âYour tie is crooked.â Readjust it. âThatâs better.â Smile with your chin on your hand.
- Tell a âfunnyâ story that will get his imagination going. Your friend once pushed you into a freezing cold pool and you were braless wearing white! Tee-hee, right?Â
- Ask him to choose your drink. Old men love stupid shit like that.
- Want a free holiday? Pick a country and say youâve ALWAYS wanted to go there if ONLY you could.
-Â âIf my ex was as smart as you, Iâd never have left him.â
- Raise your glass in a toast to âusâ. *gag*
- When he asks for a kiss, offer your hand.
 Thatâs how you play into the femme fatale male fantasy. Just try not to vomit.
F*ck Him: Nice Girls Always Finish Single
Summary:Â
A high-value woman knows her way around men, regardless of whether or not sheâs good looking.Â
High-value women repel bad men, or men who wonât bring anything to the table in a relationship.
Men are repelled by the ânice girlâ or âgood girlâ because:
Sheâs looking for the one, and she thinks sheâs found him in her new partner.
Sheâs led by the belief to accept less than exemplary behavior in hopes that he will one day change (not happening).
She tries to impress him, often overcompensating by being overly nice and appeasing, driven by the belief that sheâs not worth enough. It should be the other way around.
Your actions define how valuable you are.
Never seek a manâs approval.
Never let a man call all the shots.
The high-value woman doesnât play games. She considers herself to be a prize, one he needs to chase after.
High value women have more important things to do than to chase after a man, regardless of whether itâs mundane or not.
Mental fucking:
Two important rules to remember:Â
Never share your body with him too soon. You will fall in love too hard, and way too soon.
Mentally fuck him as soon as you can: creating a challenge will force him to look past your looks.
First impressions are critical towards cultivating the impression of high value.
If you want him to treat you like a queen, act like a queen right out of the gate.
How to mentally fuck a guy:
Decide what you feel are just feelings, which come and go, rather than falling head over heels for him.
Want a relationship, but not just any relationship. Be happy to stay single for as long as necessary.
Neediness comes from natural instincts.
You never need a man or a relationship.
She consciously wonders, âIs this the best guy to give my time to?â
âIf this guy never changed, would I really want to be with him ten or twenty years from now?â
She knows she doesnât need her looks to get a great guy.
Setting the rules:
After the first date, she doesnât reach out. Sheâs busy with her life.
Sheâll see when and if she contacts her again. She isnât willing to spend time on a guy who isnât putting in the work she deserves.
She never behaves like a bitch. Instead, she has a take it or leave it mentality.
The first couple weeks of interaction set the stage.
Whatever is set is difficult to change later. Create the right habits as soon as you can.
For ambitious men who want success, they work for what they want:
Thatâs why high-value women are so attractive. Her standards are not an act. It is the only acceptable way.
Three most important traits:
Sheâs a queen, and she has a lot of self-respect, regardless of what anyone else thinks.
He is not the center of her life.
She never, ever pursues him. If he seems to lose interest, she withdraws. She has better things to do.Â
Managing men:
Is he playing games?
When he says heâll call and doesnât - this places the ball in his court.
Right way to respond: donât care. Donât even become fazed when he steps back.Â
You can find a guy who cares and does better.
Creating distance by disappearing.
Right way to respond: Put energy into your passions, interests, and other men you start dating.
Men who are not sufficiently interested will disappear.
Claiming heâs not ready for a relationship: a phrase used to create space and lead women on.
Right way to respond: Say, âTake all the time you need. Iâm not sure about you either.âÂ
Respond with low investment by even lower investment.Â
Never consider him nor the relationship as important as he does.Â
Counter-intuitive way of getting him to do what you want:Â
Give him the feeling it was his own decision. If he comes to the conclusion, he will stand by it.
Reinforce good behavior. Ignore him when he shows bad behavior. Consider him less important.
Ignore him when he doesnât add value to your life to train him.Â
If you want a man to do something, ask another man to help you, or tell him youâll take care of it.
Men are governed by their own egos.
The more you need him, the less he will want you. The more you want him, the more he will need you.
Donât show him you need him. Have extra activities, so he wonât become the center of your life.
Work on your mental strength. The more you try not to lose him because you need him, the higher the probability he will eventually leave.
Ideal praise to criticism ratio in relationships is 5 to 1.
Avoid getting played:
High-value women are in short supply. Make men earn your attention.
Your emotions are never to be trusted.
Establish a strong set of boundaries.Â
Self-respect is #1.Â
Men always treat you the way you allow to. They cannot respect a woman more than she respects herself.Â
When his attention declines: do the same and withdraw.
A man should never, ever be totally sure that you unconditionally love him. For if he is, he will move on to the next item in his hierarchy of needs.
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this âfemininityâ trend...
when thisâŚâmovementâ first started, it had so much promise. this planet desperately needs a resurgence of the divine feminine because our current world and society is under assault by toxic lower masculine energy (which explains why this world and our society is currently in the shape that itâs in). so when women began to pop up on social media discussing femininity and divine femininity, i got excited.
but that quickly fizzled out. because like most movements, it got hijacked by people that donât know what the fuck theyâre talking about, folks trying to make a quick buck, people that had hidden agendas and by folks that donât know what the fuck theyâre talking about.
most of these women are selling a version of femininity that fits what they think a feminine woman is. and you know who they think is the epitome of a feminine woman? a western, upperclass white woman.
thatâs what most of them are teaching. how to be a western, upperclass white woman.
and if thatâs the look or mold that youâre going for, thatâs fine. but thatâs not what femininity is.
femininity is not ruffle skirts, or long flowing dresses or liking the color pink. donât get me wrong, i love ruffle skirts, long flowing dresses and rose gold is my favorite color. but thatâs not femininity.
the divine feminine was here before western civilization rose and it will be here long after western civilization has fallen.
femininity is more than just pink. it is black. femininity is more than just love and light. it is darkness and destruction. itâs eve. and also lilith. itâs aphrodite. and kali. itâs fluffy kittens and also the women that run with wolves. itâs the princess and the warrior queen. it is the creatress. and also the destroyer.
it is the quintessential âi brought you in and i will take you out.â
but what most of these women are teaching is how to be a trophy wife. how to social climb. how to become a sugar baby. how to recreate a â1950s householdâ, how to become a housewife. how to become an under the radar escort. how to look like a stereotypical version of western societyâs ideal version of femininity (which really just serves the patriarchy but i digress).
and thereâs nothing wrong with teaching any of that (except for the last one). i honestly think that women NEED to learn why you should mainly (or only) have relationships with men that can provide, how you can level up your look, etc.
but thatâs not femininity. to put it bluntly what most of these women are teaching is how to be a heaux and theyâre not even doing a good job of teaching that.Â
â I have to constantly re-identify myself to myself, reactivate my own standards, my own convictions about what Iâm doing and why.â
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The 9 Seducer Types of the World:
Sirens have an abundance of sexual energy and know how to use it.
Rakes insatiably adore the opposite sex and their desire is infectious.
Ideal Lovers have an aesthetic sensibility that they apply to romance.
Naturals are spontaneous and open.
Coquettes are self-sufficient, with a fascinating cool at their core.
Charmers want and know how to please - they are social creatures.
Charismatics have an unusual confidence in themselves.
Stars are ethereal and envelop themselves in mystery.
Dandies like to play with their image, creating a striking and androgynous allure.
from Robert Greeneâs âThe Art of Seductionâ.
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