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How To Mind-Fuck A Man Into Spoiling & Sponsoring You

From Ho Tactics (by G. L. Lambert)

Ho Tactics is a must-read for any aspiring sugar baby / spoiled girlfriend / trophy wife. The book’s premise is that today’s women settle for cheap dates and cheaper talk. Why are you splitting the bill with a man that should be spoiling you? Why are you preparing home cooked meals for a man that can’t provide you a home? To answer these questions, the author has studied what he calls “hos”: women who refuse to be exploited, are immune to manipulation, and never settle in the name of love. He unveils their tactics to gain power, money, and status. Do yourself a favor and read the whole thing here. But in the meantime, here are a few key points I’ve learned from it:

#1 Ho world order

While vanilla women complain about not finding a man, hos attack life. Being a ho means understanding what truly excites men, and weaponizing it to your advantage. A ho doesn’t get discouraged by rejection, or get flustered when results aren’t instant. She has faith that she’s the best and sees every setback as a chance to improve and attract a better man.

While vanilla women are confined by loyalty, hos have the advantage. They can say and do things that would make a girlfriend ashamed. Men will pick a ho 9 times out of 10 because they like excitement over stability. Vanilla women are sitting over there with an ego and lists of things they don’t do, while Hos are sitting here with their hands on a man’s knee, telling him to order more shots because they’re ready to be bad. Hos make a man’s choice easy because they aggressively lead him into his savage urges.

#2 Why men love hos

Charm: compliments, flirty sass, and sexual body language will win a man over. He craves the ego stroke of your attention. Hos have mastered the art of flattery, and that, more so than their appearance, makes them sexy. 

Sex appeal: dress for your body, know what looks good on you, and draw attention to your best features. Dress sexy but not sleazy: leave something to the imagination, just enough to garner respect. 

Coolness: have a down for whatever, let’s have fun, no stress disposition. Don’t ask questions about love or relationships, live in the now. Don’t worry about other girls, point out other girls. Show you don’t want commitment by not reacting the same way other women do. You aren’t easy sexually, but you are easy emotionally.

#3: Be disciplined sexually 

Get comfortable talking about sex

Study porn, don’t just watch it

Masturbate daily

Compliment yourself every day

Do not put yourself in a room alone with a man you’re attracted to

“We’ll see” is better than “no”

#4 Pussy costs

You are what you eat: look for spots operated by well-known chefs, which have romantic settings. Wine, small portions, ambient lighting - you’re that kind of girl. 

You need to be showcased: for non-dinner dates, look into live music shows or theaters. Somewhere you can wear that sexy dress, show off your heels, do your hair, and have men watch you.

You reward men for good behavior: you won’t have to ask for the basic things going forward, if you train him to do good by you. He took you out to a nice dinner, give him a passionate kiss. Keep him excited at the thought of having you fully. 

You don’t let him lure you into having a nightcap: leave him wanting more by ending the date at a reasonable time. Make sure the last image he sees of you is one where he’s hard up after a kiss or worked up after a little fondling. 

You’re not a chaser: a man might take a step away to test you. Let him vanish, and when he comes back around, be busy. Miss his call, then text him, “I’m out with my friend, will call you tomorrow”, followed by a kiss emoji. Don’t call him, let him hit you up again and suddenly remember him. Say that you felt as if he were falling back, then remind him that others are always ready to step up to the plate. 

#5: Treats, tricks, or sponsors: Who to hustle

There are three types of men to hustle:

Treats: if you want to be taken to nice places, get gifts even when it’s not your birthday, and never have to come out of pocket when you’re on a date, then you want to be treated. Treats are starter men when perfecting your game. 

Tricks: if you want to live an extravagant lifestyle and be spoiled by men with wealth, then you need a trick. Tricks are usually well traveled, extremely aggressive, and have heard it all before, so you have to be on an advanced level. Tricks have addictive personalities, and are usually very busy men who would rather spend money than time. 

Sponsors: if you need assistance, maybe your tuition covered, your rent paid, a business idea funded, you’re after a sponsor. These men are usually older, have “I don’t give a fuck” money, and a girlfriend or wife. They want to have a fantasy woman at their beck and call, rather than a trophy on their arm in public. They’re bored, attracted to your vibe, and are going to take care of you, as long as you are cool with their truth. 

The longer you know a man and the more infatuated he is, the more the lines will blur. First, put your walls up to eliminate broke dudes from your life. Then, milk a man for whatever you can, and know when to walk away. Here are a few rules:

Show not tell: where are the fruits of this man’s labor? Where does he live? Where does he work? Make him show you in a way where it doesn’t make you seem as if you’re testing him. 

Ask for something small: ask if he could stop by a store and pick you up some headphones as if it’s an emergency before date #3.

Celebrity means nothing: just because you see someone on TV doesn’t mean he’s rich. 

Know that world: you don’t want to get caught up investing your time with a man who’s playing you at the same time. Know the industry a man claims to be in. 

#6: How to flirt the ho way

Make the first move: check your ego at the door, walk over to a man, spark the conversation, compliment him, and share a story with him.

Get up close: have your shoulders inches away from him, side-by-side, or side-angled. Use nudges, even light chest smacks.

Make eye contact: master the art of staring through a man. Focus on the feeling behind that stare: desire. 

Highlight with sex: hang on certain words like “hard”, “look at you”, “you’re funny”.

Lead him: if he dodges a question, let him talk, then stroke his neck as if he had something dangling from his collar and respond with “I’m sorry, what was it you said you did? Those lips are distracting.”

Leave him wanting more: the worst thing a woman can do is hang around too long. Men want what they can’t have. Once you ask for his number, it’s time to go. 

Practice: you only get good at flirting by flirting, so practice these skills in public on un-intimidating guys. 

#7: How to seduce the ho way

Steer clear from this behavior: 

Counter conversation: don’t wait for him to talk and simply respond to his question; spark up your own topic. 

Over laughing: add on to what he’s saying, don’t just fill up silences by laughing harder than normal.

Walking on eggshells: don’t keep the conversation safe because you don’t want to say anything to offend him. 

“Don’t rape me” body language: don’t be shy, point your body towards him and inch close when walking. 

On your first date: 

Sit next to him: when he sits across you, pout “you’re going to leave me all alone over here?”

Submit: be decisive in your submission and put the ball firmly in his court. Let him decide where you’re going, if you’ll be driving there, and what you’ll be having: “will you order for me? anything but red meat, something that taste as good as an orgasm”.

Create inside jokes: bonds separate you from other women. Give a man a nickname or let him give you one. 

Compliment him: to flirt with a guy in a way where you stroke his ego will always win him over. When you’re on a date with him, drop words like “baby”, “handsome”, “sexy”.  

Get real comfortable, real fast: after the date, hold his hand and thank him for taking you out. 

End the night with a kiss: it’s his reward, no tongue, but with a slight suck on his bottom lip as you pull away and look at him with “I want to fuck” eyes.

Keep your texts short and sweet: “it was great, can’t wait to see you again soon. Good night, baby”.

Call and thank him: throw in some inside jokes, whisper about how you were daydreaming about kissing him earlier.

Later on:

Further dating is not about when he’s free: it’s when you are free. Unless he has something interesting coming up like show tickets or some formal event: tell him you’re busy, the weekend might work, but you’ll have to let him know. 

Decide on your second date: demand live entertainment and a chance to dress sexy. This time, you order: you want to drink, and you only drink Chardonnay. You want some food, so you order a lot of appetizers. Tell, don’t ask: say “Hey, they’re having a wine tasting uptown, let’s go”, don’t ask if he’s “into it” or “free”.

Initiate the kissing: when you go back to the car, this time it’s all tongue, even a stroke on his pants, and moaning “you just do something to me, I can’t explain it.” 

“Not tonight”: tell him you should go home, you’ve been drinking and you don’t want to have sex before he’s ready. 

#8: Getting nasty with it

Be exclusively freaky: nobody wants a woman that’s sharing her last orgasm story to the world. Your nastiness has to be relayed subtly to give a man the impression that he has the power to bring the freak out of you.

Talk about sex in a way that challenges his manhood. Hos are able to keep sexual interest because they don’t say “no” to sex, they say “you’re not ready”. Women looking for relationships treat sex like the elephant in the room, because they think sex lowers a man’s opinion. Hos embrace sex talk because it keeps his interest. What lowers a man’s opinion is actual sex with little to no effort put forth. 

Have phone sex. Small talk, say how you miss him, drop an inside joke about your last date, and bring up something sexual that happened: “that last kiss was everything”, now go into detail about how it felt. Start by asking what he wants you to do to him. He’s going to say something dumb like “do whatever”, so talk about sucking dick, it never fails.

#9: How to make him fall in love the ho way

Carve out your territory: vanilla women are afraid to come off as clingy and try to get in where they fit in. Hos carve out their spot in a man’s life, and force him to clear it. You’re busy, your time is valuable. But always have at least an hour for him each day. When he texts you during the day, text a little. If he calls just to say hi, say hi, but be in the middle of something. Shower him with affection, then rush because you have to go. 

Be a secret keeper and therapist to him: share something you haven’t told anyone. Don’t push him for his secrets; establish that if there is anything he wants to tell you, he doesn’t have to worry about judgment or you ever bringing it up. 

Bring the guard down: invite yourself over to his place, but don’t stay the night. Let him come visit, but don’t let him hang around. Open your world up to him, but don’t let him get comfortable. Take sex out of the house hangout. If you go over, it isn’t to spend time, it’s to talk about something that’s bothering you. He should be hard and horny every time you leave him, so he’ll keep taking you where you want to go and get you the things you want. 

Hate titles: most women wait for a man to let them know what it’s going to be. Hos don’t wait, they confront a man’s fear. Have the talk but make it about letting him off the hook. You don’t want to be his girlfriend, you don’t want it to become complicated. Tell him how attracted you are, how much fun you’re having, and demand that it stay on this level. You aren’t ready for that kind of stuff because of your past trauma. Make him want to stick in there and save you. 

Sex = trauma: create a bad sexual experience that you don’t want to talk about. You need to get over it, but you’re almost done healing. You can also say that “men can’t handle the aftermath”. But don’t make it seem as if you don’t trust him. Tell him how you want it to be special: you want to make a night out of it, you want it to be a fuck fest. 

The girlfriend experience: let him know that you’re cool with going places with him. If he complains about an office party that is mandatory, say “If you want me to roll, I can be your out of town cousin or your fiancée, either way it’ll be fun to fuck with people.”

#10: How to ask for gifts, money, or favors

Connect the man to your struggle: find an event the two of you can attend together. The day before the event, call him up and let it slip that you don’t want to go anymore: you don’t have any handbags, and the one you thought would work is missing. 

Know exactly what you want: say you did see a Celine bag that would look nice, but you’re already behind on a few bills.

Take all pride out of asking: play submissive like a cat rolling on the floor. Submit: “could you get it for me, bae?”. Say “please” the way a child would. During the rest of your call, be distracted and say you’re online trying to find a better price… you love that bag and really wanted to go out with him tomorrow. 

Work within his means: don’t ask for a 5k purse if you know he brings home 10k a month. If you a ask for a pair of 1k heels, he can afford that: because you need it, and it may hurt your friendship, he’ll help you out. 

Be specific: know what your goal is, or you’ll end up getting things that don’t really benefit you in the long run. 

Give and take: get him cheap gifts with priceless meanings. It will go a long way in securing your image as his sweet princess.

Expand slowly: there is no rush to get everything on your list or to get the biggest payoff first. Get the smaller thing, then get the next thing, you’re training him to take care of you.

Don’t go soft and don’t get lazy: you will start to like this guy, and settle for dinner dates and vacations with him. The moment you get lazy and stop going after your goal, you’ve lost. Your mark loves you, but he will get bored, and he will always have eyes for other women. Multitask: work several men at the same time. 


P.S. Seriously, support the author, and read the whole book here, it’s a gem.

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[mahoganybabela]

Love this and agree with alot of the tips in this book

[makeitrainsugar]

For those of us who've been out of the game for a while and a tad rusty or just looking to sharpen our skills. What are some great tips you can give us regarding the areas of teasing, seduction, flirting, charm, and manipulation?

 Tbh I’ve been so busy working since I’ve left Japan, trying to work on projects that will get me ahead in my field that I’m also a tad rusty right now.

 I can’t tell you about any new sites or any new glitzy scenes for freestyling, but interaction I can do.

 Here are my personal first date tips:

 - Wear black.

- No colourful eyeshadow, matte red lips.

- Wear heels and stockings with a garter belt. This is important because at some point during the date you will re-cross your legs and give him a glimpse of it. That’s all the flirting he needs and you haven’t said anything.

- “Your tie is crooked.” Readjust it. “That’s better.” Smile with your chin on your hand.

- Tell a ‘funny’ story that will get his imagination going. Your friend once pushed you into a freezing cold pool and you were braless wearing white! Tee-hee, right? 

- Ask him to choose your drink. Old men love stupid shit like that.

- Want a free holiday? Pick a country and say you’ve ALWAYS wanted to go there if ONLY you could.

- “If my ex was as smart as you, I’d never have left him.”

- Raise your glass in a toast to ‘us’. *gag*

- When he asks for a kiss, offer your hand.

  That’s how you play into the femme fatale male fantasy. Just try not to vomit.

[asiansiren]

F*ck Him: Nice Girls Always Finish Single

Summary: 

A high-value woman knows her way around men, regardless of whether or not she’s good looking. 

High-value women repel bad men, or men who won’t bring anything to the table in a relationship.

Men are repelled by the ‘nice girl’ or ‘good girl’ because:

She’s looking for the one, and she thinks she’s found him in her new partner.

She’s led by the belief to accept less than exemplary behavior in hopes that he will one day change (not happening).

She tries to impress him, often overcompensating by being overly nice and appeasing, driven by the belief that she’s not worth enough. It should be the other way around.

Your actions define how valuable you are.

Never seek a man’s approval.

Never let a man call all the shots.

The high-value woman doesn’t play games. She considers herself to be a prize, one he needs to chase after.

High value women have more important things to do than to chase after a man, regardless of whether it’s mundane or not.

Mental fucking:

Two important rules to remember: 

Never share your body with him too soon. You will fall in love too hard, and way too soon.

Mentally fuck him as soon as you can: creating a challenge will force him to look past your looks.

First impressions are critical towards cultivating the impression of high value.

If you want him to treat you like a queen, act like a queen right out of the gate.

How to mentally fuck a guy:

Decide what you feel are just feelings, which come and go, rather than falling head over heels for him.

Want a relationship, but not just any relationship. Be happy to stay single for as long as necessary.

Neediness comes from natural instincts.

You never need a man or a relationship.

She consciously wonders, “Is this the best guy to give my time to?”

“If this guy never changed, would I really want to be with him ten or twenty years from now?”

She knows she doesn’t need her looks to get a great guy.

Setting the rules:

After the first date, she doesn’t reach out. She’s busy with her life.

She’ll see when and if she contacts her again. She isn’t willing to spend time on a guy who isn’t putting in the work she deserves.

She never behaves like a bitch. Instead, she has a take it or leave it mentality.

The first couple weeks of interaction set the stage.

Whatever is set is difficult to change later. Create the right habits as soon as you can.

For ambitious men who want success, they work for what they want:

That’s why high-value women are so attractive. Her standards are not an act. It is the only acceptable way.

Three most important traits:

She’s a queen, and she has a lot of self-respect, regardless of what anyone else thinks.

He is not the center of her life.

She never, ever pursues him. If he seems to lose interest, she withdraws. She has better things to do. 

Managing men:

Is he playing games?

When he says he’ll call and doesn’t - this places the ball in his court.

Right way to respond: don’t care. Don’t even become fazed when he steps back. 

You can find a guy who cares and does better.

Creating distance by disappearing.

Right way to respond: Put energy into your passions, interests, and other men you start dating.

Men who are not sufficiently interested will disappear.

Claiming he’s not ready for a relationship: a phrase used to create space and lead women on.

Right way to respond: Say, “Take all the time you need. I’m not sure about you either.” 

Respond with low investment by even lower investment. 

Never consider him nor the relationship as important as he does. 

Counter-intuitive way of getting him to do what you want: 

Give him the feeling it was his own decision. If he comes to the conclusion, he will stand by it.

Reinforce good behavior. Ignore him when he shows bad behavior. Consider him less important.

Ignore him when he doesn’t add value to your life to train him. 

If you want a man to do something, ask another man to help you, or tell him you’ll take care of it.

Men are governed by their own egos.

The more you need him, the less he will want you. The more you want him, the more he will need you.

Don’t show him you need him. Have extra activities, so he won’t become the center of your life.

Work on your mental strength. The more you try not to lose him because you need him, the higher the probability he will eventually leave.

Ideal praise to criticism ratio in relationships is 5 to 1.

Avoid getting played:

High-value women are in short supply. Make men earn your attention.

Your emotions are never to be trusted.

Establish a strong set of boundaries. 

Self-respect is #1. 

Men always treat you the way you allow to. They cannot respect a woman more than she respects herself. 

When his attention declines: do the same and withdraw.

A man should never, ever be totally sure that you unconditionally love him. For if he is, he will move on to the next item in his hierarchy of needs.

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[theblackcourtesan]

this “femininity” trend...

when this…”movement” first started, it had so much promise. this planet desperately needs a resurgence of the divine feminine because our current world and society is under assault by toxic lower masculine energy (which explains why this world and our society is currently in the shape that it’s in). so when women began to pop up on social media discussing femininity and divine femininity, i got excited.

but that quickly fizzled out. because like most movements, it got hijacked by people that don’t know what the fuck they’re talking about, folks trying to make a quick buck, people that had hidden agendas and by folks that don’t know what the fuck they’re talking about.

most of these women are selling a version of femininity that fits what they think a feminine woman is. and you know who they think is the epitome of a feminine woman? a western, upperclass white woman.

that’s what most of them are teaching. how to be a western, upperclass white woman.

and if that’s the look or mold that you’re going for, that’s fine. but that’s not what femininity is.

femininity is not ruffle skirts, or long flowing dresses or liking the color pink. don’t get me wrong, i love ruffle skirts, long flowing dresses and rose gold is my favorite color. but that’s not femininity.

the divine feminine was here before western civilization rose and it will be here long after western civilization has fallen.

femininity is more than just pink. it is black. femininity is more than just love and light. it is darkness and destruction. it’s eve. and also lilith. it’s aphrodite. and kali. it’s fluffy kittens and also the women that run with wolves. it’s the princess and the warrior queen. it is the creatress. and also the destroyer.

it is the quintessential “i brought you in and i will take you out.”

but what most of these women are teaching is how to be a trophy wife. how to social climb. how to become a sugar baby. how to recreate a “1950s household”, how to become a housewife. how to become an under the radar escort. how to look like a stereotypical version of western society’s ideal version of femininity (which really just serves the patriarchy but i digress).

and there’s nothing wrong with teaching any of that (except for the last one). i honestly think that women NEED to learn why you should mainly (or only) have relationships with men that can provide, how you can level up your look, etc.

but that’s not femininity. to put it bluntly what most of these women are teaching is how to be a heaux and they’re not even doing a good job of teaching that. 

[buseko]

“ I have to constantly re-identify myself to myself, reactivate my own standards, my own convictions about what I’m doing and why.”

[bronzesupreme]

REAL. weekly crying sessions be like…🥲

[theblackcourtesan]

The 9 Seducer Types of the World:

Sirens have an abundance of sexual energy and know how to use it.

Rakes insatiably adore the opposite sex and their desire is infectious.

Ideal Lovers have an aesthetic sensibility that they apply to romance.

Naturals are spontaneous and open.

Coquettes are self-sufficient, with a fascinating cool at their core.

Charmers want and know how to please - they are social creatures.

Charismatics have an unusual confidence in themselves.

Stars are ethereal and envelop themselves in mystery.

Dandies like to play with their image, creating a striking and androgynous allure.

from Robert Greene’s ‘The Art of Seduction’.

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Dandie, Charmer & Coquette

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Meagan Good as Brittany in The Cookout (2004)

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