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Having people celebrate her death by calling her a terf is the absolute last straw for me with trans people and trans activist. I’m honestly at this point done.indefinitively

reina-rubia

‘‘we need to tell men it’s okay to cry and show their feelings’‘ LMAOOOOO we need to tell men to stop killing and raping and beating women and watching porn holy shit y’all can fuck off with that ~male positivity~ bullshit, men are the OPRESSOR class in patriarchy we don’t need to hold their hands and coddle them like this

megatreble

The toxic aspects of masculinity, such as not being willing or able to engage with your own emotions, definitely does not perpetuate shitty behavior by men towards women, ohoho I am so intelligent

shirkers2018dirsanditan

men don’t treat women cruelly because they can’t engage with their emotions, they treat us cruelly because to them their emotions are the only ones that matter. sensitive and emotional men can be just as abusive and manipulative, if not more, than emotionally stunted men

unified-multiversal-theory

👆👆👆👆

blackswallowtailbutterfly

During the Romance period of history, it was normal for men to be sensitive, cry, love poetry, write love letters, etc.. Men still beat, raped, and murdered women. Men being shamed for crying really wasn’t much of a thing until the twentieth century. That is not when male violence began. People who argue that men are violent because the patriarchy they created backfires on them from time to time really need to use their brains for two seconds longer.

pwussy-cult

i love the implication that anger is not an emotion that men are “allowed” to express??? the world is run by male anger. also the ones preventing men from expressing other emotions……are other men

codeinbinary

some of you rly think these “identities” you use to describe yourselves come from deep in your very soul w/ no outside influence from the world around u. when in fact you (a) do not exist in a vacuum, and (b) are not immune to a lifetime of internalised misogyny, homophobia, and body image issues resulting from low self esteem

you did not pop into existence as a transmasc demigrayaro enbyqueer whatever. you discovered interesting-looking words to describe minor aspects of ur personality, loosely, & then turned them into your whole gimmick for clout on the internet.

and then some clown made you a flag & said “yes this is exactly like being a gay person” & u ate that shit up like a birthday cake. & now it has to be everyone else’s problem

thehairiestfeminist

It is little girls, and not little boys, who are taught to prepare for marriage, to imagine their future roles as wives and mothers, to fear being ‘left on the shelf’. ‘Bachelor’ is a term of respect, but ‘spinster’ is a term of abuse, and it is women, not men, to whom the propaganda of romance is directed.

- Laurie Penny, ‘Bitch Doctrine: Essays for Dissenting Adults’

bbq-barbarian-dos-deactivated20

Damn bitch go die on the battlefield then

auntiewanda

Women: talk about a near ubiquitous part of being born female, about a pressure that if its not coming from family will still come from society.

Stupid Boys: unfailingly try to counter with something that doesn’t impact most of them.

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Boys are told that they gonna die in the war? They are taught that? What war?

bbq-barbarian-dos-deactivated20

>what war?

Are you honestly that retarded?

auntiewanda

What war are boys being told their entire life they should be excited to join? That their recruitment day will be the most special day in their life and a day all about them? What war are boys told all boys dream of fighting in one day?

raging-and-radical-deactivated2

Men rape women when they go to war. They rape women when they get married.

Men kill others at war. Women are killed by marriage.

But apparently men get the shorter end of the stick.

Everybody knows the only reason men are sent to war is because they are actually privileged in their country and hence have a reason to fight for their country unlike women who are abused no matter where they are, either by their own men or men of another country. Why would women fight in a war that does not benefit them? Why would women fight a war started by incompetent men?

Men will force women to be housewives and then wonder why we’re not at war. Who do you think decided who gets drafted as soldiers and who gets drafted as medics and housewives?

proud-homosexual-woman-deactiva

So I guess all the trans potter heads are throwing away their “I read banned books” pins since they can’t bear to read a blog post.

bulldyke-rider-deactivated20251

Wait until they try to get those books banned. The laugh I will have

proud-homosexual-woman-deactiva

saw this on facebook a few days ago

deputy-shayy

Literally. Trans people and their allies have not only threatened to burn books, but actually have burned books and posted videos of them doing so on social media.

You know who burns books? Fascists.

tockthewatchdog

I love how ppl will tell you to educate yourself when they really mean “agree with what im saying” and you did agree with it for like 8 years until the cognitive dissonance got so bad you had to break with them for the sake of having a cohesive moral framework of the world

brown-homos

Where the Egyptian terfs at? Hit me up

#If yall could reblog this and help us build a local community pls

leftgender

really do not like jokes that equate gay to liking dicks and lesbian to liking pussy. 😐

gaymenaredivineincarnate

Really do not like when people act like gay dudes making jokes about liking dick is some form of moral failing.

Makes you forget we live in a world where a gay man saying he likes dick openly can lead to violence.

leftgender

and as a trans person I don’t like being constantly reminded that I’ll never be a real man and I’ll never be fully welcome in mlm spaces but I guess we can’t all get what we want

hello-homophobes

did you just equate the homophobic violence gay men face for loving the male sex

to your straight ass being uncomfortable around gay ppl? holy shit. i’m sorry as a heterosexual female you have nothing in common with homosexual males, but stop using your privilege to destroy gay spaces and shame gay ppl as if it’s our fault you’re straight. sexual orientation is based on sex. you can’t be surprised you can’t identify into other ppl’s dating pool. you can’t be surprised after a millennia of oppression gay men still like dick instead of vagina. you can’t be surprised being gay isn’t a choice. you can’t be surprised you can’t change your sex or sexuality. everyone else already knows this. gay men don’t even use mlm spaces so what the fuck are you complaining about besides the fact that gay men are gay!

la-laborista-republiko

kidkendoll-deactivated20240714

I know that DM is fake but I want to let you know that when held accountable for her words ginger spice really does threaten litigation

opabiniawillreturn-deactivated2

she threatened to contact her lawyers because some dude was implying she was a pedophile. which is libel. (the written form of slander)

cliteralviolence

“When held accountable for her words”

Funny they didn’t include what she was responding to

the-butterwitch

Good God TRAs are so pathetic

turnways

White cis women jumping at the chance to shout "kill all rapists" when someone brings up accountability methods of sexual assault that dont involve prison, with no acknowledgement of how false accusations have been/ are weaponized against men of color and transgender women and leads to those people being murdered under the facade that it's about caring about victims when really it's because it was privilege and mob mentality (actual mob mentality not people being mad on twitter)..... It doesnt sit right with me lmao

biologicallygay

Anyways... kill all rapists

anger-homo

Anyways kill all rapists.

piya-re

Wasn’t there a study where they found 99.4% of all rape accusations are true. And the .6% that are “false” is from shit like withdrawing claims, dropping charges, deciding the smg wasn’t actually statutory rape, etc. So like I said, kill all rapists.

mithliya

imagine being this willing to defend rapists tho.. obviously when women say "kill all rapists" they dont mean "kill the people who havent raped but are referred to as rapists for some reason"

radladiesunite

Facts

👉Trans women are male. They were born male and they’ll die male. We will all decompose in the ground and centuries later archaeologists will find our skeletons and be able to tell if we were of the sex that produces sperm or ovum. Is that not the definition of a trans woman? someone born male who ‘identifies’ with being a woman?

👉Acknowledging the reality of the sex you obviously are is not violence. It may hurt your feelings, but it is not violence. Being critical of gender and males defining womanhood does not make someone transphobic.

👉Lesbians are female homosexuals. You can’t come up with your own definitions for words and get pissed when people don’t use your definition.

👉Homosexuals are people attracted to the same sex that they are.

👉Sexuality is about attraction to primary and secondary sex characteristics, not an elusive sparkly ‘feminine’ feeling that you display with sexist stereotypes, presentations, and roles. No one is sexually attracted to gender identity.

👉Saying women have vaginas is not the same this as saying women ARE vaginas. it’s a classification. If i say dogs have fur, am i ‘reducing’ them to their fur? No, i’m just pointing out one of their defining features.

👉Defining woman as anything other than female is sexist garbage.

👉Lesbians don’t have to date, have sex with, or be attracted to trans women. To berate and harass them for the natural preferences that come with their sexuality is misogynistic rape-apologism.

👉‘Cis’ women are not privileged over trans women. An equivalent sentence is ‘females are not privileged over males’

👉Sex is not a social construct. Social constructs exist only in the context of human culture and are variable. Sex is a biological reality manifested by gonads, reproductive organs, skeletal structure, secondary sex characteristics, chromosomes, etc. Humans are sexually dimorphic with .05% being intersex.

👉Socialization based on birth sex is real. It manifests as differential treatment throughout life based on sex. Socialization starts the second the doctor says ‘it’s a girl!’ and the mother gets showered in bows, dresses, Disney princess, toy kitchens and cleaning equipment, all in sparkles and shades of pink while the father is simultaneously disappointed he won’t get to play catch with his offspring and worried about boys victimizing and harassing his daughter, knowing firsthand how that plays out.

👉Gender is socially constructed. It is the roles assigned to males and females. It is ‘women wear dresses, aren’t good at math and science, have to shave and wear makeup, don’t do sports, are fragile and sensitive, are overly emotional and totally nurturing, should not be assertive or in positions of power, should have a goal to get married have kids and take their husbands name’

👉There is no such thing as brain sex. When trans women see an article saying trans women have a similar sized hippocampus as ‘cis’ women and they’ll say to themselves ’SEE!This means my made up gender identity is valid and genetic!’ when in reality the discussion section will mention that even for cis women it is a spectrum/distribution and that the results do not automatically imply that those differences are not due to brain plasticity, experience-dependent development, and socialization (half the time they’re not even studying causal factors). So you may be thinking, ‘well what ARE those differences present from birth?’. Experiments studying male and female differences from birth as displayed in children and infants show that the only cognitive differences are few and minuscule, such as higher visuospatial ability in males. And these articles never even mention some correlation to ‘gender identity’. Thats left for psychologists and social theorists, because there’s no way to empirically study the bullshit gender identity in your head when you can’t even come up with a definitive, operationally sound definition for ‘woman’

👉Bathrooms are separated by sex, not gender identity. Males do not belong in female only safe spaces, bathrooms, lockerooms, rape shelters, etc.

lesseroftwoweevils

Real gay people don’t have to do anything to be gay

They don’t have to wear pins or sit weirdly or dye their hair or wear flannel

They just are gay

Maybe that’s why y’all hate ‘assimilationists’ so much, y’all know that they don’t have to do anything to be gay, but y’all have to try desperately to be seen as gay. Y’all think of being gay as an action, but you know people who don’t ‘act gay’ are still gay if they’re exclusively same sex attracted, and it ruins your world view

slayerr-of-tims-deactivated2021

PSA that trans activists are sending child porn to a woman who is a popular children's author (which children will inevitable see, and they KNOW this) because she said sex was real.

piya-re

PSA no other community does this but y’all. Pls clean up your garbage @tras

sailortroon1

Thinking about how modern, “progressive” culture surrounding sexuality still enables homophobic rhetoric.

There is, first of all, the idea that sexuality is fluid. The issues in this, I hope, are obvious; by saying that it is fluid, one is saying that it can change. I wonder who preys upon this idea, exploiting vulnerable gay people telling them that there’s something broken with them that can be fixed?

… oh. As we can see, not only does this conversion therapy group draw on this idea, it directly uses this phrasing that is so popular.

Then, of course, there is the idea that people can (or even should) “healthily” engage in sexual activities with those to whom they are not sexually attracted. For example, we commonly see the idea that it’s normal, great even, for asexuals to have sexual activities with their partners. I have seen this justified in several ways:

It still brings physical pleasure to the asexual

It makes the partner happy, and they have an emotional bond with the partner

Both of these could be used to “support” gays and lesbians having straight sex. After all, it’s not as if not being physically attracted to wo/men means that they still can’t love them on an emotional level, right? And they’re still capable of physically enjoying sex. After all, there are plenty of gay men who sustained physical arousal enough to have kids with their female partners.

Then there is the rhetoric that it’s transphobic for lesbians or straight men not to be attracted to a trans woman, or for gay men or straight women not to be attracted to a trans man—genitalia included. No, this certainly isn’t a view every trans person or self-style progressive holds, but it’s something that unfortunately happens too frequently:

I’ve seen several posts where a lesbian will ask if it’s wrong for her not to be attracted to penis if that penis belongs to a trans woman, or ask if there’s a way that she can overcome her penis repulsion for trans women, and she will be met with long lists of advice about thinking about something else, or imaging the trans woman’s genitalia as a cis woman’s genitalia, and so on, the fact she is incapable of being attracted to penis being reduced to “genital preference”. She could completely respect trans women, not be at all transphobic, but still be labelled as such for not being attracted to penis.

The phrase genital preference itself, used in these instances, reduces an immutable part of someone‘s orientation to a preference, in the same way that a bisexual might prefer men but still be attracted to women, or I might prefer brunettes but still be attracted to blondes.

These are multiple areas in which a person’s unchangeable sexual orientation is viewed as changeable, downplayed, or disregarded within progressive spaces. All of these result in an environment where old homophobic rhetoric is validated, because if you’re gay maybe you really aren’t, and even if you are, that doesn’t matter; you can have sex with people you’re not attracted to anyways and it will be completely fine, so what’s holding you back from a normal heterosexual life? There has to be something wrong with you.