things I hate most about the "don't drop the t because they'll never accept us anyways" regarding the lgb drop t conversation is that
a) lgb divorcing tq isn't about acceptance from heterosexuals but for safety and wellbeing of lgb which is being actively poached and hated on by tq, primary heterosexual people calling themselves "queer" in tq at that. it's about lesbians and bi women having genuine wlw spaces without males, and gay and bi men having genuine mlm spaces without females.
b) actually lgb was getting increasingly close to acceptance and rapidly so. opinions were (and fortunately still partially are) shifting not only hugely in 1st world countries but even in 2nd and 3rd world countries too. Homophobic laws were increasingly being unenforced. It was seriously getting better (and fortunately still is but at a slower pace).
TQ put a major spanner in those works and those progress, especially when people felt that by accepting lgb they had to accept some of the straight up misogynistic demands of tq (such as entry to women's school's, sports, DV shelters, universities, homeless shelters, prisons, and of course the famous bathroom topic) as well as the anti child wellbeing demands of wanting people to accept the use of puberty blockers, cross sex hormones, (and in some edge cases, surgery) on children.
Of course when people are learning that that their preconceived notions about homosexuals, and about homosexuals raising children have no basis in science, but to accept that they must also accept a movement shown to be inspiring suicidality in children, yea the homosexuals are gonna have a harder time of acceptance that would be partially mitigated by a divorce.
This idea that "you'll never 100% get what you want (despite lgb goals drawing nearer) so you must stay with us as we drag you further and further away from liberation" is fucking ridiculous and this black-and-white logic does not strike me as dissimilar to how cults / high control groups use "you'll never get what you want on the outside so you must stay with us" despite staying being to your detriment.