#heauxlife

[rihnely]

[saucypolina]

Nothing like my fav Alexander Wang boots

[hypergamiss]

I get it, women take a lot more accountability than men (imo) because society is currently set up this way. Women fill up churches, support groups, therapy, they’re purchasing more self-help books and literature than men, and there are a million pages on social media dedicated to women bettering themselves while there are barely any for men. Overall, anything related to self improvement and reflection is dominated by women. Socially and culturally speaking most parents hold their daughter more accountable than their sons. That’s why a 15 year old boy can be out galavanting late with his friends but a 20 year old woman has a strict curfew.

At some point you have to realize (as a woman) that you automatically deserve more from life and the partner that you choose because it is your birth right (imo).

Just because the majority of men are not decent humans, doesn’t mean you have to settle.

And just because you’re constantly being groomed by society to improve as a woman doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you or that you’re not good enough every time a man doesn’t know how to act right.

Lift your head high and accept the power that you hold. Stop questioning yourself every two seconds and accept that men can often do wrong. Be confident.

[nysugarbabe]

[karinakan]

ANNA DELVEY

Anna Delvey is a literal inspiration to me. Other than her literally scamming the people around her, she had a goal. She had a clear vision of what her life was going to look like, and she achieved it. She had an altar ego, built up herself, and learned a lot so that when she was in these spaces, no one batted an eye. She had no money and a dream and MADE IT WORK.

Inspiring in a “i can achieve my goals at any cost” way. Making me want to rethink my whole plan 😂

-Karina

[pposhspice]

My self-mastery, level up plan; the journey of being my desired self always continues. ☆

( to be still updated )

Physical / appearance

Surgery this year (2026)

Composite bonding (2026)

Health:

Health being my lifestyle and priority.

Wholefoods have to be mainly my diet.

Be disciplined and stick to workout routine regardless of season.

Social

Start a new hobby, horse riding / tennis.

Join a wellness club (goal is an expensive membership club)

Join a social club

Be confident and have more solo dates.

Network with likeminded individuals.

[haruharuz]

Subtle ways to change how people view you:

Lean in slightly to appear more interested in the conversation

Speak slower and softer if you wish to seem like a dream / at peace

Keep your bag organized, when you reach to grab things out of it you’ll seem more put together if there’s little to no struggle to find things

Using a fragrance oil on your wrist and under your ears will seem more Sophisticated than spraying yourself with perfume

Read poetry, keep a select few favorites in your mind. When people ask what you enjoy, say poetry and provide an example. You’ll appear more emotionally intelligent

If you’re going to fake smile, move the muscles under your eyes so that your cheeks raises enough to halfway squint. It seems more genuine that way.

Walk with your head up everywhere. And I mean everywhere.

Stop messing with your little imperfections only you notice. There’s no need to straighten your shirt, rub your hand down your pants etc. Leave it be and you will appear more confident.

[honeyknome]

Odette & Odille