not every person who uses she/her is a woman. you can delete this/not respond, i understand not wanting to have women interacting with your posts, but saying she/her dni is a very very broad statement.
Nono, you're right, and I'm going to answer it because incidentally, I just had a conversation about the whole thing with a friend talking about exactly this topic. I told him that I'm very unsure about the phrasing of our DNIs that we plaster over our profile.
My bio has said this since we decided to make our blog exclusively for men - "women" is separated from "she/her users" for this exact reason.
I (Ajax 🤍) genuinely struggle with grasping these concepts of gender that don't apply to me ; concepts that are out of the heteronormative box we grew up in.
What would be a better term to phrase it in your opinion, but make it all inclusive? /Gen
Femme people? That doesn't apply to butches, necessarily. Women? Doesn't cover everyone who identifies with femininity in some way. She/her users? Doesn't cover people who are femme but use, for example, neos.
I'm not deeply invested into those queer spaces that have been popping up more recently, so I don't know what phrasing to use there.
But I am aware of how broad "anyone that uses she/her pronouns" is, and I think I want it to be that broad. It's our blog, our preferences, y'know?
We don't care about having many followers or people interacting with us, but about having fun. And going through notifications checking if minors or blanks are interacting, and seeing women/femmes/she/hers interacting and reblogging our very MLM homoerotic posts, is just uncomfortable to us.
We are masc, attracted to masculinity. I don't know what else to say here.