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[buttercreaum]

hi im nate 💕 24 he/she princess boy 🏳️‍⚧️

my comms are currently closed !

i like funger i draw funger im a drawer my art tag is #nart (nate art) and i like elise and her chud husband 👎

no ai or incest pedo likers, minors can follow/interact (TUMBLR ONLY MY OTHER ACCOUNTS ARE NSFW STAY AWAY THIS IS A BOUNDARY!!!) but pls don’t talk to me outside of public interaction :)

[beemovieerotica]

adults love seeing a small child or teenager who is so visibly anxious and uncertain of themselves and quiet so they can tell them "HEY!! 👹 YOU BETTER GET SOME CONFIDENCE RIGHT NOW! 🗣 AND SPEAK UP! 🤬 YEAH YOU! 👊 SHY KID 💥 EVERYONE LOOK AT THIS SHY KID 👈 WHO I'M GOING TO FIX 🙏 WITH THE POWER OF LOUD !!! 😤 YOU'D BEST BELIEVE IT! 😱 NOW SHOUT, SHY KID!!! 🤯 SHOUT AT ME!!! 👽 HUUAAHH&HHH 🗯 NOW TEAR ASUNDER THE HUSK OF YOUR FORMER SELF ☠️ YEAH RIGHT NOW 👇 WHY DON'T YOU FEEL CONFIDENT 💣 I AM GIVING YOU THE CURE" and the shy kid has to pretend like this isn't the millionth time they've had this exact conversation

[girl-blorbo-polls]

My girbo is Stitches from Fear and Hunger

(She's on the right, the other thing is just a minion)

Stitches is LITERALLY just a fridged wife for the male playable character to angst over, but I DON'T CARE!! I LOVE HERRRR

She died before the game starts, went to hell and came back wanting to kill everyone and everything. She sews up these monstrosities (like the living flesh on the right) and even has a human centipede! (Which you can join if you loose to her in battle)

My favourite moment is if you even suggest she looks prettier than the other monsters around she gets all cutesy and blushy and twirls around, admiring her body. She's also made some body modifications to herself (including sewing her mouth shut).

Cool

[samthecookielord]

Man i hope im not mischaracterizing or flanderizing the character....

>looks inside source material again

>they are exactly like that

>sometimes even more like that than i remembered

[weirdtranssexual]

i mean this in the nicest way possible but some of you need to learn how to be annoyed

[weirdtranssexual]

people are going to annoy you and that’s not a reason to burn bridges or blow up relationships

some people will even annoy you often! some people aren’t good at social cues and will therefore be frequently annoying! still not a reason to blow everything up!

[bowditch]

a very important distinction i have tried to teach myself and my kids is:

"is this person being annoying to you or are you just feeling annoyed?"

sometimes people do go out of their way to annoy you and that requires a different response! but a lot of the time we attribute maliciousness or ignorance to someone when we are simply feeling annoyed as a response to something that has nothing to do with us. maybe they're just enjoying something in a way we don't personally like, or maybe they're having a bad day, or maybe they have habits or personality quirks that rub us the wrong way-- and they aren't thinking about how it impacts us at all! and in many situations, they shouldn't have to! it's not a person's job to make sure they never do anything that could be perceived as annoying to anyone else.

and learning to tolerate feeling annoyed is crucial. de-escalating your own sensation of annoyance and refusing to treat it as harm/discomfort is an important step in getting along with other people and guarding your perception of your own acceptance and belonging. many people on tumblr express social anxiety-- and i gotta tell you, if you keep legitimizing your own annoyance all the time as a serious problem (instead of a small thing to vent to a friend about/get over/ignore), then you are also going to end up fearing that you are frequently annoying to other people! that which you see CONSTANTLY as a problem in other people you will increasingly worry about in yourself.

if you can live with being annoyed sometimes and treat it like it's not a big deal, it will be easier to accept and believe that the times you are naturally, as a human, annoying in some small way to other people are not actually a huge crisis where everyone hates you and is thinking badly about you. you can live with knowing sometimes people just clash a little and can be mature enough to brush it aside and see past it!

[girl-blorbo-polls]

If you were handcuffed to your girl blorbo with magical unbreakable handcuffs for 24h, would you be okay with this?

I trust her, I’ll be fine

I trust her, but it’ll be a stressful 24h

It depends on what kind of day we’re having

This is gonna suck…

Other/nuance

Remaining time: 5 days 13 hours

[bombshellvana]

[deepfrieddeltarunememes]

(footage and more from here with Seth and Aqua being cute at the end)

[aquinohotelcentral]

[buttercreaum]

prettyworld4u -> buttercreaum

[buttercreaum]

just a snake oil salesman

[nyya]

as a tme person with a transfeminine sister it is extremely clear to me that we absolutely do not have an equivalent experience.

she did not experience "male socialization." when i look back on our childhood, it is easy to understand that there was no privilege to that concept. she was forced to try and shrink herself into the shape of a man, and was abused when she didn't succeed at playing the part. being "raised as a boy" only highlighted the stark incongruity between what was expected of her and what she was. this repeatedly led to her facing violence.

and to be clear i genuinely don't care if you think a rude comment from an exasperated trans woman online is as equally bad as the literal risk of her being murdered when she walks outside. this is not a competition, being the most visible is not a prize. i genuinely fear for my sister's life.

[ikkiturso]

Uhh I dunno

[hoshizoralone]

luci 🦋

[riseofthecommonwoodpile]

i don’t think i’m exaggerating when i say that the average height for women in the US would increase by at least an inch if teen girls were allowed to eat as much as teen boys are

[riseofthecommonwoodpile]

and not to bring my own clocky bitch ass into this but if cis women weren’t so consistently starved their entire lives you’d see a lot more cis women with the kind of bodies that we currently associate closely with trans women. the amount that the standards of feminine presentation are culturally defined by malnutrition is crazy

[sailorscorpiovenus]

skylarcaeles on ig

[heavenly-angell]