❤️ kink-pos chubby woman doing what I want ✌️

she/her. 18+ only please, I've been on this earth too long. this is an inclusive and kink/fetish-positive blog run by someone who sits on both sides of the feedism table 💕

[butterfliesforchubbyguys]

Quick PSA since I have some new followers:

I sometimes reblog posts of hot fat people. ALWAYS things willingly shared in a wg or kink space. (If you ever see me reblog something that doesn't seem to be that - please please please lmk. Never my intention and I'd want to take it down immediately.) All of which are tagged #bellies, if you want to opt out of the hot people content (which like. why. but it's your blog)

And yes: it sucks that so much of the space to appreciate fatter bodies - or to feel beautiful as someone with a fatter body, like my own - still predominantly exists (relatively) judgement-free in kink/fetish spaces. I appreciate those spaces, but they're not for everyone, and participation in a kink is not and should never be a prerequisite for having a partner(s) who find you sexy af, or for shamelessly appreciating your partner's body. I had this kink when I was thin. I have it when I'm fat too. It's been an integral part of my sexuality throughout dating - whether my partner was big or small, and whether I myself was big or small.

I feel more confident and happy inhabiting my body when I have some weight on. I also feel more physically attracted to partners who are fat.

In conclusion, it will always drive me fng bonkers that loving, being attracted to (whether occasionally, predominantly, or exclusively), describing in fic, portraying in art, etc, a skinny / muscular body is so often considered "the norm" and goes totally unquestioned but anything outside of that is assumed to imply dehumanization or objectification of people with that physical trait. We all deserve better. Fat people especially.

Stay horny carry on ✌️

[honey-jaw]

Some people will never understand the experience of being 13 in the 2000s and desperately looking up different versions of “fat,” “belly,” and “big belly” on Deviantart.

[cock-holliday]

We have got to stop framing our oppression in ways that promote the idea that other people cannot relate to our struggles. Not only does it isolate comrades in the struggle, it actively diminishes recognition of other struggles--often including those even more horrific than what we are at risk of. And this happens especially between Gay and Black struggles.

"when have straight people ever had to check what states were safe for them?" Sundown towns are still a thing. Starlight tours. What states have abortion access? What states have open carry? What states have stand your ground? What states have 3-strike rules? Women, people of color, disabled people, immigrants, and more have had to be abundantly cautious where they travel to. Straight trans people have much more travel risk right now than gay cis people.

It's a new iteration of the same tired question: "imagine if straight people weren't allowed to marry" interracial marriage in the US is younger than my parents. We disgrace people of color by forgetting their history and contemporary struggles, and we abandon queer people of color, Black queer people, by segmenting their overlapping fights.

As lovelyshananigans says, "intersectionality, babes"

[bugbugly]

trauma humping

[nebulashepard-deactivated202605]

if you are fat and hairy i have great news for you. you are smoking hot sexy. your natural allure is off the damn charts. carry on.

[butch-bear-dyke]

tell fat people they’re hot! tell fat people they look good! tell fat people they’re sexy! stop desexualizing fat people by solely calling them cute/cuddly/soft/a teddy bear etc.

[red-garden]

“Do dishes” and “take out trash” both require the use of a spell slot, vs “use phone” is a cantrip, and brother, I am a level one wizard

[achillesinhighheels]

sorry i never replied. everyday is blending together and i'm losing sense of time

[pansy2025]

goo goo dolls if they were in dune: and i don’t want the worm to see me

[mymycorrhizae]

NEVER SAY NEVER DANIEL

[realmeowth]

the unique flavor of psychological damage they are giving to a specific demographic of gay 20-30 year olds by casting steven yeun as adult zuko and making him say gay shit

[unadulteratedhideouttrash]

[sourdough-seal]

“what are you doing this weekend” i am going to fantasy land. i am hiding under the covers in bed. i am making things up. i am contemplating events that didnt happen. i am talking to fake people. i am listening to my tunes. i am envisioning scenarios

[fatguarddog]

Fat Admirers be like...

[marypsue]

the self-indulgent fanfiction will continue until morale improves

[parkchanwoohoo]

Found abusive family

[stephenroot]

I hate cigarettes so much I hate that smoking is becoming cool again I hate that we're becoming contrarian hipsters about this disgusting habit that has literally killed so many people and destroyed so many lives I'm so serious we need to become absolute killjoys about this again it's time to go 90s scolds on cigarettes until the scourge is wiped out entirely.

[stephenroot]

Genuinely I just don't think people younger than 35 know how good they have it. I distinctly remember the year in my childhood that it became illegal to smoke in restaurants, I remember what it was like when people used to smoke indoors everywhere, you all think it's cool because it's this illicit fun thing people are doing drunk outside bars now, you don't remember what it was like when fucking everything reeked all the time and you couldn't get away from it and how life changing it was when you could suddenly go out to eat and everything didn't taste like ash and all your clothes and hair didn't stink for days when you got home.

[powermonger]

smoking isn't counter-cultural. tobacco is literally an addictive product manufactured and sold by corporations for profit. the corporations that sell it have known it was addictive and harmful for decades, but they publicly spread doubt and lies and lobbied against regulations so they could keep profiting off their product. it's not a conspiracy theory. all of this is well documented. to be addicted to tobacco is to be a captive consumer, at the cost of your health and your money.