Everything aroace

memes, jokes, headcanons, aroace-ness. Kip | 28 | they/them

[cake-and-spades]

There hasn't been an update to this blog that is visible to me. Have you been using the new function where you pay to see some posts? Or worst case scenario are you I'll and unable to keep the blog active. If you are ill, I hope you get well soon. The main message here is that your blog is wonderful and nobody wants it to end.

Hi Anon!

I have not been making paid posts (the day I monetize a tumblr is the day I die lmao), I’ve just been on a pretty long hiatus from posting/reblogging.  I’ve been working through some pretty serious mental health issues (seems like most people have been lately, unfortunately) and I’m also recovering from some Complete Mental and Physical Exhaustion we think is being caused by Lyme disease.  All in all, it’s made having a regular post/reblog schedule pretty difficult!  I’m not sure when I’ll be back for good, but I’ll update here as soon as I feel up to it.  💚

I originally made this blog as a place to reblog/post any positivity I could to give myself a daily reminder that I liked being aro/ace (during the height of one of the many aphobia discourses), and I never expected any of y’all to find or follow it.  I’m flattered that you’re all here, and it warms my heart that y’all liked it enough to stay and even send this ask.  

Thank you for checking in and for your message!  💚

P.S. (To the anon that asked me to talk about internalized arophobia -- I’m not ignoring you!  It’s just a big topic and I’ve been a little overwhelmed by it and everything else lol.  Hopefully I’ll finish organizing and typing out all of my thoughts soon)

[syn4k]

good morning everybody happy feb 14th i am reclaiming today for the aro bitches specifically. romance is not real

[the-aro-agenda]

the first thing you have to remember is that being aromantic is fucking awesome and opens your world to so many new experiences without the fear of romance the second thing you have to remember is that alloro society will do everything in its power not to let you enjoy it

[thedaygoesupinflames]

you see a character that's afraid of commitment, i see a beautiful and misunderstood aromantic

[aromanticofficial]

official aromantic post

[queerfakir]

TUMBLRINAS I NEED YOUR HELP!! I’m writing an essay about expectations surrounding romance through the lens of aspec identities for my creative nonfiction class. I have several short interview type questions and I’m trying to collect as many responses as possible.

If you identify as asexual, aromantic, or anywhere on the spectrum pls consider taking a look at this google form:

Aspec Interview

Hi there! I’m an asexual college student somewhere on the aro spectrum. I’m writing a paper on aspec identities and societal expectations su

[sirompp]

hi. i made some images.

feel free to take them and use for whatever you may need them for. no credit required

[nyenyel]

I was feeling bitter about being aro so I drew bi aromantic stan to cheer myself up 💚🤍🖤

[interestingmistakes]

Reblogging this manually. Op doesn't want credit for fear of being terminated.

[minimosquitogirl-deactivated202]

“pride month?? stop making being queer your whole personality🤣🤣” ermmmmm anyways!! *shoots you with the aromantic beam*

[cake-and-spades]

[id: an aromantic flag background with a photorealistic roaring t rex stepping through flames. Next to it is the text "woe, aromanticism be upon ye" with two pointing emojis, two speaking head emojis, and two fire emojis. End id.]

[aspecpolls]

Aroace people do you like to separate your aro and aceness and how do you feel when other people separate them. People who are aroacespec are very much included! No see results please just want aroace ppl to vote

I do it and I prefer it when other people do it I do it and I don't prefer it when other people do it I do it and I don't care when other people do it I don't do it and I prefer it when other people do it I don't do it and I don't prefer it when other people do it I don't do it and I don't care when other people do it

Aroace people, do you like to separate your aro and aceness and how do you feel when other people separate them? People who are aroacespec are very much included!

I do it and I prefer it when other people do it

I do it and I don't prefer it when other people do it

I do it and I don't care when other people do it

I don't do it and I prefer it when other people do it

I don't do it and I don't prefer it when other people do it

I don't do it and I don't care when other people do it

Voting ended onJun 16, 2024

[doggeddetermination]

[shadowbloomart]

[crispycreambacon]

Alt text: Aromanticism is not the absence of something. It's the space to create something new.

Image description: A pale-skinned person with straight long black hair strumming the bass. They wear a red flannel shirt, jeans, red socks, black shoes and headphones. They sit cross-legged next to a bathtub. The whole artwork has a magenta hue. /End ID

[snakesinsocks2005]

aro-specs! what is your opinion on the concept of 'love'?

love doesn't exist lol. everyone's in a simulation but me ;)

love is a chemical imbalance of which I'm fortunately immune

I love my family and friends! love is a feeling of deep care and appreciation

I love the earth. the sea the air the grass at my toes the wind love is whatever

love is a fleeting foreign sensation. I'm not really all that sure

love is a concept I have to explain differently than in the given options. tags

Voting ended onOct 5, 2023

[yardsards]

i hate you "pair the spares"/"everyone must be paired" tropes, i hate you forced last minute romances, i hate you implication that a happy ending means a romantic partner, i hate you amatonormativity

[untitled52969]

What sort of arospec are you?

aromantic

demiromantic

cupioromantic

aroflux

akioromantic

arospike

other (in tags)

i’m not arospec

i’m questioning

Voting ended onJul 11, 2023

reblog for larger sample size and so on

[im-a-ramblr]

HAPPY FIRST EVER INTERNATIONAL AROMANTIC VISIBILITY DAY

[cake-and-spades]

[ID: a google search for aromantic visibility day. It is June 5, 2023. It is internationally recognized and started this year. A gif of an aromantic pride flag waving and spinning around is below it. End ID.]

[potoh]

The moon belongs to the gays >:)

[the-unicorns-of-nienna]

[Image Description: artwork depicting an anthropomorphic white cat wearing an orange space suit. The cat stands proudly on the surface of the Moon, having just planted a rainbow flag. Earth can be seen in the background. End image description.]