callmerosieyo

I am an enigma wrapped in a conundrum.

[tinakolesnik-deactivated2022073]

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[callmerosieyo]

Happy 3 year wedding anniversary, babe ❤️ (11 years total together 😱) I’m so lucky to have you on my side, in my corner, taking care of me when I don’t take care of myself 😬 Looking forward to our future together, always 🥰 📸: @ryansiowphotography https://www.instagram.com/p/CSt7FjbLAFJ/?utm_medium=tumblr

[whatbigotspost]

2021:

Spanking has negative long-term effects, Texas researcher's review of nearly 70 studies finds

Researchers focused on whether kids that are spanked are more likely to share or, conversely, more likely to have anxiety, years down the li

2021:

The Effect of Spanking on the Brain

Spanking found to impact children's brain response, leading to lasting consequences.

2018:

Science Again Says Spanking Hurts Kids Long Term

The American Academy of Pediatrics says new evidence and research not only show that spanking affects a child’s brain development and increa

2016:

Spanking Harms Kids, Doesn't Work And Leads To Long-Term Problems

Kids who are spanked tend to act out more and have more problems later on.

2012:

A study reviewed more than two decades of research on the effects of spanking and found nothing positive to report, only that physical punis

2010:

The Long-Term Effects of Spanking

A multiyear study shows spanking kids makes them more aggressive later on

I haven’t pissed people off lately by reminding them that ALL types of physical punishment of kids has been proven beyond ANY reasonable doubt to have only negative long term outcomes.

So let me scream it from the hilltops:

Stop hitting kids. End of sentence.

If you think, “but I was hit and I turned out just fine” let me pre-reply: NO YOU DID NOT. You think hitting a child is ok, how the fuck does that qualify as “fine”?????? From one abuse survivor to another: please start healing yourself.

[callmerosieyo]

Daisy turned 4 a few days ago so here’s a photo dump of what she’s been up this past year. Spoiler alert: lots of sleeping. Like a lot. https://www.instagram.com/p/CPqswcTBr6m/?utm_medium=tumblr

[callmerosieyo]

My mama and dada told me that I’m 4 years old now. I don’t know what that means but I got extra treats, hugs and kisses so I’m good with that! https://www.instagram.com/p/CPqrUbThcBq/?utm_medium=tumblr

[arriaak]

SHE HIT EACH AND EVERY POINT

[concentratedtea]

- The Racial Triangulation of Asian Americans, Claire Jean Kim

[allthecanadianpolitics]

Saw this on Twitter just now about how to support Asian Canadian centres due to the rising wave of anti-Asian racism and hate crimes:

https://twitter.com/nuevaofnight/status/1372364036579397634?s=21

Tagging @politicsofcanada

em on Twitter

“If you're from Canada, I've compiled a list of Asian Canadian centers to donate to! I'll try to update this list with more research but thi

[fahbee]

(source)

Bonus:

[comradesaucegay]

and before the clowns show up:

[callmerosieyo]

Reminiscing about sunnier days https://www.instagram.com/p/CLpgGIwhN86/?igshid=1u3vkzywc8vk5

[profeminist]

Cartoon by John F. Baker III

[callmerosieyo]

Must follow the sun wherever it goes! ➡️ swipe for my model face https://www.instagram.com/p/CKrPv4wBfbM/?igshid=9ecntf80qorc

[callmerosieyo]

Take me back 😫 (at Arashiyama Bamboo Forest) https://www.instagram.com/p/CKrNHVBBVd8/?igshid=d8bojhm6xdhc

[callmerosieyo]

New year, new eco-friendly, socially responsible, natural, compostable and biodegradable products for my kitchen (and a healthy treat for Daisy, of course). 👀 peep Daisy’s paws waiting patiently for her treats. https://www.instagram.com/p/CKZJNX7Bo6r/?igshid=1upuwqsy83f6n

[callmerosieyo]

How long do we have to stay inside? https://www.instagram.com/p/CKId3QIhDO1/?igshid=9bmda7xuh583

[haonsowmqpoznwk-blog]

[normal-with-adhd-is-a-joke]

This is the bare minimum of decent human behavior for ANY gender. If you are an adult and someone who is not an adult wants to have a relationship with you, it is your duty to, at bare minimum, turn them away.

[glorious-spoon]

and like... having crushes on adults is a Normal Adolescent Thing, but it doesn’t mean they’re ready for--or for that matter, want--an actual relationship with said adult. it’s a goddamn developmental phase for kids working out their sexuality, and treating it as a chance to get laid is fucking monstrous.

[bendingsignpost]

Recommended tactics to deal with a child hitting on you:

“kiddo”

“buddy”

inform a friend to ensure you’re never left alone with them

refer to own age in conversation

“yeah, I know I look young, but you wouldn’t BELIEVE how awkward it is being mistakenly hit on by a teenager!”

upon that child turning 18:

“Happy birthday, kiddo!”

“Have you registered to vote yet?”

“Man, being a baby adult was so hard, good luck with that”

[awed-frog]

And as a reminder, teenagers often have crushes on older and/or unavailable people like celebrities precisely because psychologically/emotionally they’re not ready to have a relationship. On a subconscious level, fantasizing about someone you know you can’t be with allows you to experiment with your emotions in a safe way. And obviously an adult taking advantage of that will disrupt the entire thing.

[sadburgerboogie]

THE ONUS AND RESPONSIBILITY OF SELF-CONTROL IS ON YOU, ADULT.

NOT THE CHILD’S.

[serpentarmor]

Credit : @/o.g.u.n.xx on Tiktok