Since Friday naman at ayoko na magwork... Ikkwento ko nalang dito kung paano humingi si BJ ng blessing sa parents ko para pakasalan ako.
Ever since, open naman ako sa blog na 'to na I came from a broken family and medyo on-off relationship ko with my parents.
But last year, 2024, naging okay kami both sides. I mean di parin nag-uusap mom and dad ko but lumalabas kami separately.
So for Christmas Eve, BJ and I planned to spend it sa bahay and to invite our families over. Yung parents ni BJ wala that time kasi nasa ibang bansa so bale family ko + siblings ni BJ + mga tropa.
Dun nalang ulit nagsama si mom and dad under one roof. It was very funny yet awkward kasi di sila nagpapansinan. HAHAHA
Eh maulan nung Christmas Eve so pinapapasok kami lahat sa sala eh ang dami namin so di lahat kakasya. Nagtataka ako bakit para nakabilog sila pati mga tropa namin even sa may door.
Then ayun na. BJ proposed to me. In front of my parents!!! His relatives + super super close friends namin. Naiiyak nanaman ako. Hahaha.
I ugly cried that night. Then it sank in... It was planned all along and they were all in it...
Kaya pala si Grace yung isang friend ko inaya ako magpa-nails I think a week before the proposal kasi I don't do my nails. Thank you, Grasyang. I love youuu!
And when I asked BJ how he asked my parents for their blessing...
Kay mom - we went out one time kasama siblings ko tapos umalis daw ako saglit and tinanong na raw niya si mommy if pwede ba siyang magpropose. Reaction daw ni mommy was super happy and said she wants an apo na. HAHA
Kay dad - he said that he called him. THEY WEREN'T THAT CLOSE PA NUNG TIME NA YUN KASI ONCE PALANG SILA NAGKITA SA PERSONAL NA MATAGAL. So sabi jiya he was very nervous daw. Sabi ko "bakit hindi mo man lang pinuntahan ng personal si dad to ask for a blessing?"
Sabi niya kasi we were always together kasi nga we are live-in and mahahalata ko raw if he says na need niya umalis BECAUSE HE NEVER LEAVES THE HOUSE. Ako pa nagfoforce sakanya to go out with his friends. Hahaha.
So ayun na nga, he called my dad and asked for his blessing...
"Tito, okay lang po ba pakasalan ko si Taj? Pwede po ba ako magpropose sakanya?"
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAGAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAGAYAGA UNTIL NOW NATATAWA PARIN AKO
Tapos ayun na.... planned na pala lahat nung Christmas Eve. Yun nalang din yung time na nagsama-sama kami 5 sa family (mom, dad, ako + 2 siblings) after ilang yearssssss. As in yearsss!!
After that, we called BJ's parents din tapos natawag ko pa na "Mama" yung mom ni BJ sa videocall kasi nagjojoke kami before she passed away.
We were supposed to get married this year kasi uuwi dapat sila from Pakistan but Mama Thess left us na nung January. Parang stuck parin nga kami sa January ni BJ. Okay naman kami but may sudden loneliness lang talaga pag naaalala namin.
I hope you are proud of us, Ma. We miss you so much po. Kakapalit lang namin flowers mo kanina. ♥️
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